There's no need to accuse others of "ruining the conversation" - people can disagree, that's what makes it a discussion. Let's converse civilly please.
How do you know that Willow and Tara had sex immediately after Willow cast the spell and didn't just snuggle down together and go to sleep?Tara was angry with her. Then right after, she went to bed with her because the anger and reason had been erased. And she did it more than once. And she did it more than once.
Tara felt like Willow had betrayed her trust, especially after what happened with Glory, and that she couldn't trust that Willow hadn't erased her mind before.If someone erased the memory of cheating (for example) so i slept with them, i would feel violated.
Define control. If you alter reality, you control reality.How do you know that Willow and Tara had sex immediately after Willow cast the spell and didn't just snuggle down together and go to sleep?
Tara felt like Willow had betrayed her trust, especially after what happened with Glory, and that she couldn't trust that Willow hadn't erased her mind before.
I still wouldn't count it a rape because Willow was not controlling Tara in any way. The spell took away the one memory but Tara was still fully capable of making decisions.