I totally agree with you. As long as both are happy with doing it, it is fine. I do myself get personally annoyed with people falsely calling themselves victims when they are not. I just believe in the context of the show that on both sides, the consent involved is a little unclear.True. If two adults are involved sexually, it's just plain wrong to suddenly say you're being victimized...I mean, I know that's the trendy/Twitter thing to do these days, but it's silly, unnecessary, and can RUIN someone's life.