WOW! what a thread! I'm so sorry everyone, I was thinking about this conversation over the past two days, but I've been so busy that I haven't been able to jump back on the boards. I'm a software engineer in real life and I also teach software engineering at a code academy in Miami at night, so I sometimes get overwhelmed. I'm gonna respond to each and every one of you right now, as you all have been gracious enough to take your time to speak your minds on this thread, and I certainly don't wanna leave anyone hanging. I've certainly learned so much from each and every one of you, and even tho I'm still Team Angel, I have a lot more respect for Team Spike than I used to, when I was confused as to why people would even think about being Team Spike. This is the reason I joined buffy-boards, because you all are so awesome and have so many cool interesting points of view on the buffyverse which we all love, so again, thank you each and every one <3
Ok, so this is gonna be a long post. I've finally finished reading what everyone has written and I'm gonna try to respond to everyone as best I can, as well as add my own two cents into the mix. Here goes:
@Priceless said that Angel makes Buffy more insecure, whereas Spike gives her security. I'm sorry but I strongly disagree with this. Angel did the best he could to help Buffy, keep her out of harms way, give her as much inside info and advice as he could, and even stole the codex at risk of his own life in Buffy S1E11 to try to help her. He talked to her in S2E11 about understanding her mother's point of view on her not wanting to be lonely. He was as supportive and helpful as he possibly could've been. Please, PLEASE anyone on this forum show me examples where Angel's specific actions made Buffy insecure, and NOT Buffy's own insecurity. As for Spike giving her security, you must be joking.
@brinkster130 mentioned an issue is finding Spike's story genuine or not, and this is a GREAT point, because I don't. A lot of other people mention this as well.
Let's look at the facts: Spike was an outwardly evil and maniacal person before he got a chip implanted in him, after which he was still maniacal in every way he could be. He could't hurt humans anymore, but he could hurt demons, so that's what he did. Anything he could to throw a punch and beat up somebody, ANYBODY. Then he realized he could also hurt Buffy, which he did as well. He even went to such depraved lengths as to create Buffy-Bot, which no one on this thread has mentioned yet but I feel is EXTREMELY important. He didn't care about Buffy, he just wanted sex, and someone who he had sexual feelings for to do what he wanted. This comes up when Xander and Anya caught Spike and Buffy-Bot boning in Buffy S5E18, but thought it was Buffy. Sure, Spike wants to keep Buffy and Dawn safe, as he does when he lets Glory torture him and doesn't give up any info, but his intentions are't pure, in fact he's even confused by what he wants himself, as the chip is starting to make him question everything.
@white avenger and
@Fool for Buffy mention trying to separate Spike's evil deeds from Angel's, and how Spike becomes one of the good guys before getting his soul, an argument later followed up on this thread by
@Stoney and
@Athene. Again, let's consider some issues before we begin down this train of thought. Everyone in the Buffyverse, and I mean EVERYONE, is put into situations they don't wanna be in: Angel with his curse, Buffy forced to be the slayer and not have a normal life, Spike with his chip, Willow having Tara die in her arms, etc. What we need to look at, what is VERY important to consider, is the TREND of what these characters do when put in these shitty circumstances. I say TREND because every now and then people make mistakes, and do bad things, but nobody is perfect. Willow becoming Dark Willow after Tara got killed wasn't cool. Buffy not withdrawing from her friends in S6 and being sometimes nasty to the potentials in S7 (which caused them to put Faith in charge) wasn't cool either. They make mistakes, but they always make up for them, and they don't have a track record, or TREND, of making shitty choices because Buffy and Willow aren't shitty people. But Spike's trend, on the other hand, is the exact OPPOSITE of this. Before he got the chip he was unhinged, after he got the chip he tried to find as many ways as he could to hurt anyone he could (culminating in the attempted rape of Buffy and then calling her a bitch before riding off to get his soul). And why did he get his soul? For selfish reasons, as has been said before on this thread. Well, what about after he got his soul? He was a great person then. I'm not buying it, and this is something that ALSO hasn't been addressed in this thread so far, but blows a BIIIG hole in Team Spike:
*****He was STILL wearing his Slayer jacket after he got his soul. The jacket he killed Principal Wood's mom to get. Why would you wear a murder jacket after you have a soul, after you know better, after you truly feel the hurt of all the bad things you've done??? Spike doesn't lose this jacket till Angel S5E20, when it was burned off of him in the explosion, and he STILL says in that episode that it was his favorite jacket.***
Spike is a bad boy, always has been, always will be. He's certainly tempered with a soul, but you can still see the personality differences between Angel with a soul and Spike with a soul. Angel can never be with Buffy because of his curse, but what does he do? He goes to LA, starts Angel investigations, and helps people. Angel is a goddamned saint, and he puts his life on the line for other people. He didn't even wanna take money for his services, and only started to do so when Cordelia told him. He feels immensely sorry for what he did as Angelus, and spends ALL of Angel trying to make up for it, to redeem himself, to be good, and to help others not suffer the way he made people suffer in the past, to protect them from evil like his old-self. He has dedicated his life to service, which is the most noble thing ANYONE can do, I don't care what anyone here says. He sees himself as not a selfish individual, the way Spike does, but as a part of the greater whole, as someone who can make a difference in the world. As
@Living Dead Boy said, Angel had his soul forced upon him, while Spike had to earn his. Ok, but Spike's intentions were selfish, and Angel turned into a different person and kept at it after he got his soul. he was consistent and pure, whereas Spike is erratic, you don't know WHAT is gonna happen with him next.
And as
@GraceK and
@Fool for Buffy said eariler, Spike becomes a more interesting character with Buffy, Angel by himself. Well in that logic is the inherent downfall. Co-dependency is not good, and that's what Spike and Buffy were in the beginning of Spuffy, and that brought them both much harm and pain. Angel, on the other hand, FORCED into a life of solitude because of his curse, does the next best thing. Again, we go back to people being put in bad situations and seeing what they do, and Angel GIVES HIS LIFE TO SERVICE. He wasn't selfish, he didn't complain like Spike did, he didn't try to weasel his way outta it. He stepped away from Buffy BECAUSE he loves her so much, because he can't give her what she needs, as he says in Buffy S3E20. He knows what Buffy needs, knows he can never provide it for her, and so gracefully bows out and leaves, turning himself into a goddamn saint in the process. He is the most unselfish man I know, and that's why I am and WILL ALWAYS BE FOREVER TEAM ANGEL!!!
Buffy not withdrawing from her friends in S6 and being sometimes nasty to the potentials in S7 (which caused them to put Faith in charge) wasn't cool either.
I meant to say Buffy withdrawing, please take out the "not"