1 Only on spike say he did ..... you don't know what I have done to girls dawns age leaving them just enough blood so they cry when ....what do you think he is talking about snap !! he does not mention boys, any other things he could do equally
Females can be victims of crime other than rape. Spike could just as easily have brutally tortured "girls Dawn's age", Here's a post I made 3 years ago on this very topic:
So because the victims are girls Dawn's age, they must automatically be victims of rape because they can't have possibly suffered any fate other than that? Spike could obviously get pretty nasty with his torture, earning him a reputation as the "most violent vampire in history, second only to [Angelus]". If Spike was raping like Angelus, then why aren't they on equal reputation? What did Angelus do that elevated him to number 1. IMO the answer is that Angelus raped alongside the torture which made him THE WORST whilst Spike only tortured people horribly which made him bad but not as bad.
Spike probably is horrified at how low he could go on the torture stakes. Imagine this scenario, he's got a girl Dawn's age, he's bitten her and drank from her but not enough to kill her. She's still alive and well aware that she's alone in a room with a monster. She's terrified. Spike then pulls out a railroad spike and sticks it through her leg. The girl screams from the pain. Spike then pulls the spike out and sticks it in again. He lets the girl know it's going to be a long night (the implication being he's going to be stabbing her with the spike all night). The girl is screaming for mercy and crying with pain as the railroad spike goes into her yet again, over and over, and not necessarily in the same place twice.. Spike is feeling pretty pleased with himself as the girl screams yet again because of the continuous impalement. The girl eventually begs him to kill her, wanting to die because she can't stand the pain, so Spike does exactly that, taking pleasure in the fact that he got someone to beg him to kill them (which he was going to do anyway) but he forced them to ask to die.
Also in season 2, Giles read out a passage about Spike that said he'd earned his name by "torturing his victims with railroad spikes". The main question there is what made that particular type of torture so noteworthy that Spike's reputation would be built around it. He was "William the Bloody" with a violent streak, so what was it about the torture with railroad spikes that was so significant that it earned Spike a new name? I think it was not only the viciousness of it but the type of victims it was inflicted on aka Girls Dawn's age.
Also by season 7, girls Dawn's age were the same age as Buffy was in season 1&2. In "School Hard" we saw Spike lure in Sheila (who was in Buffy's year) tie her up and gag her and give her to Dru to snack on. So although "Girls Dawn's age" kind of makes you think of season 5 Dawn, we're actually taking season 2 Buffy Dawn
2 Mmmmm well we do see just a snippet of Spike and Drus life together if not a STD certainly Aids is a great possibility through blood
Spike had been on Pigs blood for two years by the time he and Buffy started sleeping together. Riley on the other hand was still sleeping with Buffy whilst getting fed off by a vampire whore who would also be feeding off other victims. Given the state of the brothel, it's clear that the customers weren't high class clients but essentially junkies looking for a "high". If blood infection was going to occur, it would be via Riley, not Spike.
3 It is shown in WTWTA that Riley is wearing condoms
But given how incessantly non-stop Riley and Buffy were having sex during the party, that singular condom Riley is wearing isn't going to last, and it's not like they're stopping to change it.
4 Yes condoms was shown in WTWTA and buffy did not know what Riley was up to until Spike , (yes good old Spike) showed her
See above about the condoms. Also Buffy not knowing that Riley is cheating on her with a vampire whore isn't going to protect her from anything Riley is carrying. Spike did her a favour by showing her what Riley was up to, even if he was selfishly motivated.
5 She had sex once with Angel and we know Buffy and Riley was using condoms for safe sex , as for Parker it was a one off and again they might have used a condom , somebody as experienced as Parker probably would
Once is all it takes to pass on an STD.
Also it would make more sense for Buffy to be on the pill as that would stop her periods. It was heavily hinted that she was on her period in School Hard and Spike could smell the blood, so obviously she wouldn't want vampires smelling her presence before she had chance to stake them.
6 There was so much crap thrown at Buffy in season 6, STD would have been another ....probably MN didn't think of it because it probably didn't happen to her
Probably true. Point is though that it wouldn't have come from Spike.
But the thing that really burns me up is that Riley totally cheated on Buffy. And with a vampire, of all things. Considering that Buffy IS the Slayer, that's really a slap in the face.
Riley even tells her that he did it to "even the score" because she "let" Dracula bite her, even though Buffy made it clear at the time that it was against her will.
The vampires probably wouldn't have accepted Riley's custom if they knew he was in a relationship with Buffy because no good can come from a "brassed off" slayer.