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Why do people try to retcon Buffy's love confession to Spike

burrunjor

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I think the waters are further mudded since you're dealing with multiple creators some of whom change their minds and retcon things in their own minds to suit their understanding - Fury mostly disliked Spike and I don't think fully understood him. I think Fury thinks in binary a tad - did he have much influence on Lost? Because I couldn't stand the so called 'hero' on that show - someone else who thought in binary.
Found this from TV Tropes article on depending on the writer where they mention instances of characters changing based on a writers whims.


  • Buffy and Spike's romance was a particularly bad case. The production staff have openly stated that there were harsh disagreements over whom to portray as the aggressor and whether it was genuine love. So everyone just wrote it their preferred way when their turn came around, with no thought as to whether it made any sense with what came before or would come afternote the result actually invoking Truth in Television: some Real Life passionate affairs simply do not make sense, and sometimes not even the lovers themselves can say who's pursuing who.



I have had some run ins with TV Tropes. They banned me for writing a truthful article about DW that contradicted their agenda, though ironically this very page I'm quoting uses one of my articles as a reference for DW LOL, but still I think there may be a small grain of truth in what they say about Buffy and Spike. Buffy saying "why does everyone still think I'm in love with Spike" in season 7 is a bad example as that makes it look like she already told him and it was known.

Overall though I think it holds together reasonably well to be honest. Most of the time I felt Spike was pursuing her until her breakdown, and then she was disgusted with herself, and then Spike gets a soul and eventually becomes a genuine hero and wins her heart. Even then though it's still him pursuing her throughout most of season 7.

Spike is kind of like a Vampire version of Charlie from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia pursuing the Waitress LOL. Both in real life would be seen as really creepy stalkers, but because of the odd sweet moment, like Spike protecting Dawn from Glory, Charlie's day dream, and because both are funny and likable and it's tv and not real, then they both have lots of people routing for them.



The Waitress and Buffy have that same scathing sarcastic look LOL. Obviously Spike though is more charismatic, but he's pretty much Charlie, mummy's boy, hopeless romantic loose canon. I guess that makes Buffy the Waitress (she was actually twice) Cordelia is Sweet Dee, the sarcastic, former high school bully, failed actress, Angelus is Dennis the manipulative bastard with no feeling, and Frank, well I don't think there's any character like him LOL.
 
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I think it's much more complicated than that with Buffy - especially in season six where she's a mess pyschologically but there are some factors in common.

I've never watched Sunny in Philly so idk about that but the You Tuber Curio said one guy's supposed to have borderline personality disorder (although Crazy Ex Girlfriend is a much better depiction of it apparently) and Spike does have some elements of it.
 
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I won't derail this to a Always Sunny thread, but obviously I was just joking a bit as Spike and Buffy being a drama are a lot more complicated. You should watch Sunny it's hysterical.

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I’ve always thought the biggest stumbling block isn’t ‘does she love him?’ But does she actually LIKE him. Like could she spend non slaying nights and non apocalypse times with him and just enjoy his company, this is where I have doubts. I despise Riley but I have no doubt she enjoyed spending time with him outside of demon fighting stuff

I think this is something the comics alluded to also
 

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I’ve always thought the biggest stumbling block isn’t ‘does she love him?’ But does she actually LIKE him. Like could she spend non slaying nights and non apocalypse times with him and just enjoy his company, this is where I have doubts. I despise Riley but I have no doubt she enjoyed spending time with him outside of demon fighting stuff

I think this is something the comics alluded to also
I thought the comics more alluded to her not knowing what she wanted out of life and getting broody plus all of the problems she would have had with Angel too but that's just me.

I think however you read it they definitely have a lot affection and trust for each other - they're very physically affectionate for people who don't even like each other as in huggy. Also what does she really have in common with Riley or Angel - besides beating up demons.
 

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I know some scenes in Buffy are open to interpretation but when the show creator (Joss Whedon) and producer/writer (David Fury) say Buff was 'in love' with Spike in Season 7, why do ppl try to say she said it as a thank you or in a friends way. I would go with show's creator on this one :)
Because some fans create a narrative to fit their desired outcome for the characters in question. So many fans hate Spike and Spuffy. So they just ignore certain parts of the script that don't fit with their interpretation. Not all fans do this of course. I can't stand Bangel but I don't go around saying that Buffy didn't love him when she so clearly did.

She said she loved him. I believe her. Period.

@white avenger care to weigh in on this one? ;)
 

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She said she loved him. I believe her. Period.
This is simply a variant on the classic, "She said it. I believe it. That settles it " that is part of my banner, and I couldn't agree more.

@white avenger care to weigh in on this one?
I already did earlier in this thread, but I'll take another poke at it.

Buffy has a really depressing life style. A constant battle against an overwhelming enemy. A life expectancy of at best, 25 years, which might or might not be extended by a few years due to the advent of an army of new Slayers. Add to that, her love life, regardless of which boyfriend you choose as an example, really sux.

Frankly, none of her past boyfriends could in an way be seen as anything even vaguely resembling normal or an ideal choice.

With all that in mind, I honestly believe that, of all of Buffy's boyfriends, both past and in the foreseeable future (unless, of course, they somehow get Duncan Macleod into the Buffyverse) Spike is the best of her current bad choices.

That's why I stopped shipping Spuffy a couple of years ago, and now only ship Jandy.
 

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Sigh. Buffy fell in love with Angel before he lost his soul. She didn't love the murderous vampire who tried to kill her and her friends, she loved the person he was before, the one who took her ice skating and gave her a claddagh ring for her birthday, who identified with her loneliness and isolation and who loved her and had her back. She never engaged in a relationship with Angelus. Additionally, had Buffy said to Angel in Season 3 that she couldn't forgive him and it was too hard to move past what he did, I would have been fine with that.

I would have been okay with Buffy falling for Spike if it had happened at the end of Season 4 or Season 5. At that point, he hadn't done anything to her that she couldn't have got past, especially because he hadn't done anything Angelus hadn't done. Stalked Buffy? Check. Snuck into Buffy's room at night? Check. Threatened Buffy's friends? Check. Tried to kill Buffy? Check. Tried to end the world? Check. But none of that truly victimized Buffy or stripped her off her agency (either Angelus or Spike). There's always a certain amount of darkness and twisty-ness that comes with having vampire love interests and as long as it's not victimizing the human, I'm okay with it. I could accept a Spuffy relationship pre-Season 6.

But in Season 6, Spike truly damages Buffy. He victimizes her. Her makes her feel ashamed and degraded and traumatized. She cries to Tara, begging her to tell that she's wrong. He touches her without her consent. He manipulates her fragile mental health. He tries to alienate her from her friends. And he sexually assaults her in the most brutal manner and then her trauma is ignored so he can evolve as a character. So that's why I can't condone, accept or like Spuffy post-Season 6 and why I truly hate Spuffy Season 7, because it sweeps all of that under the rug in favor of turning Spike into a "hero".


I don't hate Spike and I don't know why you've decided that I do. I hate the over-adulation he gets in the fandom and I hate how his narrative takes over BtVS. I hate that his "redemption" on BtVS is built on Buffy's trauma. But I don't actually hate Spike. I love him as a villain, I genuinely like and enjoy his character on AtS and I even find Season 4 Chipped!Spike quite entertaining. You decided that I hate Spike and you decided not to like me and to come after me based on that assumption and, to be frank, that's pretty unfair.

Okay. I'm done. Sorry to OP for hijacking the thread again.
Urghh your talking about Buffy loving a 27 year old guy who'd been stalking her from a Blacked out car when she was 15. Who dated her when she was 16 then slept with her on her 17th birthday and broke up with when she was 18. A person who Buffy also tried to murder a 17yr old girl for.
Thats pretty awful stuff. But because the actress is older than the character and Joss copped out because in his own words he didn't want to make Buffy a murderer, its given a pass. Reality is though it shouldn't be. If Angel started hitting on Dawn who was 15/16 at the time you'd be pretty grossed out.
 
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