30 Days of Bangel - pt2

Mrs Gordo
Mrs Gordo
I love this one too minus the Cordy.
From Pangs “You know how I feel about her. If there was any way...”

I think quotes means them talking about the other to someone else right? It sucks because Angel didn’t have anyone to talk to about Buffy really during BTVS. 🙁
 
@Grace - sorry! Great minds... 😉
 
Grace
Grace
OMG! You stole mine. I was just looking this up to get it right. :)
Day 30 : What do you think about the Bangel fandom ?

Last daaaaay!

I love the Bangel fandom. It's great to find other fans that love Bangel, especially since those fans are likely to love Angel as a character as well, and to dislike Spuffy and Cangel. So really, it's more than just Bangel.

Also, I've read some great fics, seen some great fanvids, and had great discussions with Bangel fans. And half of the people I follow on tumblr are Bangel fans!
 
[Dec 3]Day 28 : Favorite Buffy's quote about Angel ? "I loved him more than I will ever love anything in this life" and also "You're the one freaky thing in my freaky world which makes sense" oh and "You can attack me, you can send assassins after me, that's fine. But nobody messes with my boyfriend!"

[Dec 4]Day 29 : Favorite Angel's quote about Buffy ? "In all those years - no one ever mattered. Not like she did" and "I could see your heart. You held it before you for everyone to see. And I worried that it would be bruised or torn. And more than anything in my life I wanted to keep it safe ... to warm it with my own".

[Dec 5]Day 30 : What do you think about the Bangel fandom ? I love the Bangel fandom, for the most part there aren't too many nutters and we tend to stay in our lane. I always love reading why other fans love the ship, the different sides they see and the different aspects they appreciate.
 
Day 30: What do you think about the Buffy/Angel fandom?

The Buffy/Angel fandom was the first (and mostly only) online fan community I really got into, especially longterm. For Harry Potter (which I found first) and Supernatural (which I found next), my family and friends were big fans too, so I didn't need online fandom to find people to share my enthusiasm with. I didn't even look for online Buffy fandom at first, because I didn't know that kind of thing existed. But in my senior year, the Buffy/Angel fandom was kind of my security blanket after my family unexpectedly moved across the country and I went from being a girl with quite a few wonderful friends to being the quiet new girl who latched onto the first group that would have her but never really felt like part of it. I'm actually glad I didn't have many friends who liked the Buffyverse or shipped Buffy/Angel (and I tried multiple times to get several of them on board), because I've made some amazing friends in the online fandom, and I definitely owe a lot of my writing ability to all the fics I've written for it (which, in my first year of college, I was doing instead of studying for my science classes, and that was likely a contributing factor to my making terrible grades and switching majors to English). I wasn't part of it when it started, but I've seen it keep going through the decline of LJ and forums and the rise of tumblr and Ao3. I'm sad when people drift away and excited when new people show up. I love this fandom.
 
Favorite Buffy's quote about Angel ?

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Favorite Angel's quote about Buffy ?

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Day 30 : What do you think about the Bangel fandom ?

It's a very discreet fandom I think. I sometimes feel that there is not so much Bangel in the fandom, there is little activity on them on Internet, there are even blogs that close. I find all of this a bit depressing. But I discovered here Bangel fans who share the same passion for me for this couple and I love it. I also thank you because it's nice to finally find people who share the same vision of things as me, who does not think that Bangel is only for teenagers or that it is an immature love. It's reconforting !
It gives me back a little of esteem and suddenly I do not feel guilty anymore to love a so-called idealistic couple, depressive and boring. Before that, forced to hear all the time the same things, I felt guilty to love the couple. So thanks Bangel Fandom.

I would also like to thank everyone who participated in this challenge .. It was great, we start again when you want 😉
 
EarthLogic
EarthLogic
That first gif is just beautiful!
Day 30: What do you think about the Buffy/Angel fandom?

One thing I appreciate about this fandom is that it is not all that evangelical. The Buffy / Angel standpoint is described, people say why they like it but no one tries to coerce anyone else into it. Not all loves are intended to last forever nor do they require a lot of explanation. My previous experience with fandom was the Rockstar INXS and Rockstar Supernova boards (and I met my favourites from both seasons) but those boards were exceptionally vicious. By contrast, this fandom will defend its views but not disrupt the rest of the fandom.
 
Day 30 What do you think about the Buffy/Angel forum?
I love it. It is a perfect fit for me and I like reading different perspectives from different posters. It is a great fandom to belong to and I like being a part of something so wonderful. I have stuck with it and love seeing familiar names. I love Bangel and being with people who share the same passion for it that I have. Bangel is interesting and full of potential to change as Buffy and Angel do, but the love they have for each other never changes. It endures and grows stronger even while being apart. When they come together after being apart it is like they never spent a second away from each other. I will always be a Bangel.
 
Day 30: What do you think about the Bangel fandom?

Just thinking about the Bangel fandom gives me the warm fuzzies! Everyone has been so welcoming and kind. If you had told me last year when I was mainlining B/A fic that some of my favorite writers would take the time to read, review and even beta (!) my own stories, I would have been blown away. I still am blown away. I love the Close Your Eyes community we have here as well. Thanks to all of you for being wonderful!
 
Favourite Buffy's quote about Angel and vice versa?
People have said mine but here they are! 🙂
"I loved him more than I will ever love anything in this life"
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What do you think about the Bangel fandom ?

Well we all seem like very intelligent and kind people!
 
Bangel is interesting and full of potential to change as Buffy and Angel do, but the love they have for each other never changes.

Truth!

Day 30: What do you think about the Bangel fandom?

I think its a wonderful community. I love learning the different reasons and perspectives that you all support the relationship and even enjoy when we discuss differing perspectives on the couple - because variety is the spice of life! And I love venting with you all when I read something that puts me in a bad mood. 😉 It has been great to see the increase in activity we have had on the boards in this section over the past few months, the enthusiasm is exciting for me because it's nice to feel part of a community. At the end of the day, I feel a kinship with you all because it feels like we have a somewhat common idea of what love is and what love should be about for our two heroes. 🙂

I had alot of fun with the IWRY marathon too. And I think its great that we had more participation this year than last. I hope that trend keeps going!

I'm kind of sad to answer this question because I know it's the end of our 30 days of Bangel journey. 🙁 But thank you so much to @Antho for putting this together! I had alot of fun. We'll have to drum something else up to keep our Bangel creative juices flowing. I'm thinking something along the lines of Hot Topics?
 
EarthLogic
EarthLogic
I'm still waiting for your thoughts in the 'Spuffy Question' thread - don't keep me in suspense! :p
Grace
Grace
I'm up for brainstorming questions!
Day 28: Favorite Buffy's quote about Angel?
I just know that when you're around, whether I see you or not, - I feel you - inside - and it throws me.

Day 29 : Favorite Angel's quote about Buffy ?
In two-hundred-forty-three years, I've loved exactly one person.

Day 30 : What do you think about the Bangel fandom?
Small but intense and beautiful - like a sonnet.
I also love that we're advocates for brooding as a perfectly valid personal hobby.
 
Well, I fell super behind on this! But as of today my classes are done for 2017 so all I have are exams and I finally have more free time. Yay!

Day 20: Imagine the scene between Buffy and Angel during season 6 of Buffy and 3 of Angel

I really don't know... neither show gives me a good sense of what happened during their meeting because it's so vague -- which was obviously the point as it allows for everyone to imagine the meeting for themselves. I like to imagine Buffy told Angel she was in heaven, I mean who better could relate to her situation? Angel would insist on staying with her or helping her in some way, but he says "I have my own show on a different network to lead." 🙁

Day 21: What is the most important thing that one has learned to the other

This is definitely one of my favourite things to think/read about with regard to Buffy/Angel, especially from Buffy's side just because it's a lot easier to pick out Buffy's influence on Angel.

Angel learned how to believe in humanity through Buffy; when he first got his soul, Angel was rejected by both humans and vampires so he spends nearly 100 years alone with zero ties to humanity. Then she comes along. To me, this is a great summation of what Angel learned from Buffy: "Time was, I thought humans existed just to hurt each other. But then I came here. And I found out that there were other kinds of people. People who genuinely wanted to do right. They still make mistakes. They fall down. But they keep trying. Keep caring." When Angel first saw Buffy and declared he wanted to help her, he didn't have any sort of long-term plan, he just wanted to help. This moment shows who he could be and that he is fully capable of becoming that person; it shows Angel, at his core, is good and that he doesn't change for Buffy but because of Buffy.

As for what Buffy learned from Angel, I really like what @Taaroko mentioned:
Buffy learned both that being the Slayer isn't something she can walk away from AND that her value as a person isn't defined by being the Slayer
It's interesting how Angel challenges her view of vampires early on and Buffy goes on to challenge the traditional views of what The Slayer should be.

It reminded me of an old gifset I made...
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Day 22: Was Angelus in love with Buffy

I have no doubts that Angelus was obsessed with Buffy and that it may have gone even deeper than obsession, but I don't believe he was in love with her nor do I think he is capable of love.

Day 23: Favourite Bangelus scene

I don't really have a favourite scene in the sense that I don't like the dynamic, so this is more because of Buffy:

"You can't do it. You can't kill me."
"Give me time."


Day 24: Most underrated Bangel episode

Oddly, I find that the episode "Angel" doesn't get enough love! Maybe it's just because it's season 1 and it often gets dismissed? Anyway, the episode is full of so many great moments: "When he is around, it's like the lights dim everywhere else."; "Maybe I like you."; "Do you snore?"; the first kiss; the foreshadowing during the Darla and Angel scenes; "I can walk like a man, but I'm not one."; the scene with Buffy setting down the crossbow and them just looking at each other "not as easy as it looks" and smiling is also an underrated scene; the entire last scene.

Day 25: Which character supports Bangel the most

Willow for sure. I'd say there weren't too many characters who support B/A, including the universe.

Day 26: Name the thing you admire the most about them

Probably just how comfortable and at ease they are around each other; no matter how long it's been since they last saw each other, or even what terms they left off on, they can usually speak very openly around each other and be vulnerable in a way that very few other people get to see. They can't stay mad at each other and I think that comes down to the respect and genuine like for each other. ((I love you and I like you))

Day 27: Do you think you could stop loving Bangel or become a Spuffy fan

No, I'm far too stubborn for that 🙄 I've loved Bangel for so long, so I can't imagine that changing after all this time; for reasons I detailed on day 16 I wouldn't become a Spuffy fan. I never used to dislike Spike/Spuffy so much, but the dislike grows with every rewatch which means I really doubt I could ever become a fan.

Day 28: Favourite Buffy quote about Angel

"You're the one freaky thing in my freaky world that still makes sense to me."

Day 29: Favourite Angel quote about Buffy

"In all those years, no one ever mattered. Not like she did."

Day 30: What do you think about the Bangel fandom

Sometimes it feels like Bangel don't get enough attention, just generally speaking, but the fandom is a quaint, wonderful place full of well-spoken and talented individuals! 🙂
 
@Jam ’s lovely video has many of my favorite quotes of the two about each other.



There is still a quote out there that I really like no one has said but I’ll wait until day over so as not to steal it. 🙂

Fun fact: the "Making out like it's the end of the world" line in the song is what convinced me to make this video 😛
 
Antho
Antho
Awesome Post :)
Taake
Taake
"including the universe", actually lol'ed at that. So true.
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