Advice needed on my love life or lack of it!

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Akasha

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Hey guys i need some advice..i joined up with a kind of internet dating thing (i know its sad but it was only for a laugh) but i met a guy on there who is absolutely gorgeous and is a male model..anyway we have been emailing each other and i gave him my phone number and we have talked a couple of times...the thing is he lives in California and is working in Italy and greece at the moment and has suggested coming to England to meet me on his way home.. i really like him but i dont even know if its really him in the pictures or not and i want to trust him but am very wary about the whole situation...i have asked him to send me more pictures of him but he hasnt yet only the ones that are on his modelling page thing...
Do you think i should meet him? or just ignore his messages, emails etc..its just that if i do meet him and its not the guy from the pictures what then... although i have feelings for him anyway without even meeting him he would have lied to me...god help me what should i do?
 
Well, if I were you I would be very cautious about meeting him. If you do, choose a public place and take a friend with you until you;re sure he'e legit.
 
If I were you then I wouldn't meet him. You're right, you haven't met this guy and you don't know if he's really like the guy you are talking to..Did that make sence? But he could be a murderer or a perv! Or maybe he's just some lonely old guy with no friends...No telling but I say no don't meet him!
 
I think it's way too dangerous. You shouldn't have to join an internet dating service just because you don't have a boyfriend.
 
Yeah i guess your both right but curiosity has got the better of me and i need to know now...so if i do meet him it will definately be in a public place...he is also going to send me other pictures of himself and if he doesnt i will know he's lying and if he does then i'll know he's not..because the guy who he says he is has only got a certain number of pictures in his portfolio and ive seen them all now...so hopefully he will send some others of him like at home or something not when he's modeling.

Slayerpower... thats not why i joined. a friend and i did for a laugh one day its not just for dating its for meeting new friends etc
 
Buffy Summers is dead right on this one. If you must see this guy - public place, friend close by and pre-arranged call from said friend on mobile after 20-30 mins to give you a get-out if need be (eg. take call and if things going wrong you can say "The twins are doing what! Sorry, Mr ? I've really got to go and sort this out"...if things are OK you can just have a normal matey chat...) Don't be afraid to walk away to friend if it turns strange...
 
Ooh, good plan Mr. Pointy. Also, I'd show up late and scope him out first from far.
 
Thanks Mr Pointy thats good advice from you and buffy i'll definately have a friend standing by and if things get out of hand i'll kick him in the bollocks and run 😀
 
Does he know what you look like? If so, I think that you should arrange to meet him in a public place. Somewhere that you are already familiar with. Take a friend with you and get there pretty early so that you can find a place that you will be able to see the door(s) from, but that he hopefuly can't see you. That way you can scope out the situation. I suggest this because, even if the guy you think you are supposed to see doesn't show up, there's no guarantee that the guy you've been talking to won't, and if he recognizes you but you don't recognize him... It could be unpleasant.

~Kindred
 
Grrarrg and kindred...yeah i thought about that too...he does know what i look like though..but i will find a place to meet him and get there early if i cant see him then i will ring his phone and if some 90 year old bloke answers it then i will know 😀
 
I agree with Kindred. Go find a place, like a cafe or something, and maybe ask if a freind or sister can eat at that place aswell to see if its ok but it could turn out good, I think the modelling thing might be a bit fishy but i think you shoudl go for it!
 
If it is the guy then he is definately a model from the pictures he has shown me.. but its just are they really his pictures...if he doesnt send me a normal picture soon instead of one that looks like it came out of a catalogue then i probably wont meet him..but if it is him then god he is so sexy and from what i know of his personality so far he is amazing he's sweet intelligent and caring..and it makes me think well even if he's not the guy in the pictures would it matter but yeah it would because it means he is a liar..
He looks like Desmond Harrington the guy in Wrong Turn...has anyone seen it?
 
I dont know if I would meet him or not. If you do, be very cautious. But I've heard enough stories about internet relationships gone wrong. However, my brothers married to someone he met online.
 
If you're curious then meet with him..In public place as many said before..You can always hide there..Good luck!!
 
I'd be cautious too,but if you decide to go meet him,go with Mr. Pointy's plan!
 
Thanks guys...i have an update on the whole situation.
I had a phone call from him today saying that he has been in a car accident and he cant move and is covered in bandages and the hospital wont tell him anything (its in macedonia) and he cant remember what happened...but then he said oh they have told me im paralyzed and my face is burnt and i will not look the same...now i could hear what sounded like nurses in the background and he seemed to be genuinly crying...he then texted me and said will you still like me so i replied and said of course i will its your personality im interested in not your looks the only reason i wouldnt like someone was if they lied to me!! that was about an hour ago and i havent had a reply...now he's either the biggest liar in the world or he has genuinley been hurt and ive upset him even more...i really dont know what to do now???
 
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