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ashley*marie

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At the TB (transending bliss message board)this guy named Alex edited my signature WITHOUT MY PERMISSION to make it say, "Thanks to whoever for making this hell in my siggy!!!". And now everyone's mad at me and won't believe me that I never did that (i would never say the h word). So, now everyone hates me. Oh, and when i say everyone i mean that literally and if you dont believe me i have proof. anyways, so now i lost all of my friends and like, what's a girl to do?
 
The H word? As in hell? Why would anyone get mad about saying that, its not even a swear word! AM, I would tell them to get on with it if they are mad because you sig said that, I personally don't find that offensive. Why don't you get this alex to admit to it? It all sounds a little over the top, people aren't talking to you because of that? Seems a little petty.
 
Is there any way you can prove it was him? I hate people who do petty things like this to other people. It's really childish. Unfortunately I hate to say it but if your friends are unwilling to believe you then they're not really friends. At least you have everyone here. Don't be made to grovel especially when you've done nothing wrong. Let me know how you get on.😀 😀
 
Well, I don't wanna bring the drama into here, but it started 6 months ago and it started with me. I did some pretty immature stuff for attention and to just shake things up (don't ask what I did). And what Alex and a whole lot of others are doing is I guess what they would call payback. Oh, and there is no way I can *prove* it was him. Oh, and he did admit it and everyone's taking his side (he's an administrator).
 
Originally posted by ashley*marie
I did some pretty immature stuff for attention and to just shake things up (don't ask what I did). And what Alex and a whole lot of others are doing is I guess what they would call payback
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Well I think their behaviour is pretty nasty. When I first got the internet a few years ago I got carried away with it and did many weird and stupid things because I thought it was funny, plus I didn't really think that there were people at the other end, I was pretty new to it all. So don't worry bout things you did in the past, if you said sorry and now realise it was wrong then I don't see why they should be treating you like that. Everybody does stupid things. Thats not fair to you. Grr this guy is an admin? Thats pretty low. ::thumb:: Don't let them get to you and definitely don't let them make you leave! Good luck with it all.
 
Umm just one question; if *everyone* has turned against you, for one simple comment which you didn't even make, were they ever true friends in the first place? I don't think what they have done to you is fair, but I'm just questioning how nice these people are as friends if they're so willing to turn 🙂
 
Well, if you guys really want the *whole* story then I'll give it to you...

I came to a message board just like this one and i lied about 1) being a model 2)saying i was suicidal 3) posting a picture of myself and saying it was me when it isnt 4)i'm too tired to type out the rest of the 100 things. the 3 things were just the main things. So, since I'm known as being a liar they think I lie and blame stuff on other people. And they dislike me for other reasons too. All this s*** has been going on for 6 months. Or maybe 7. I've lost count. But they dislike me for A LOT of reasons and even after the months that i've stopped they dont believe me cuz I used to lie.
 
From what you've said in this thread it doesn't seem like the people on that board are your friends so why do you care what they think. If there is no way they will ever change there minds about you, even after you've apologized, it doesn't seem like they are worth your time.

Everyone does stupid things, don't be too hard on yourself. You've tried to make up for what you did and you changed, they should accept it and move on.

As for the admin changing your sig without telling you, I find that extremely offensive. Why do you want to continue posting on his board? If he will do something as immature as changing your sig, what's to say he wont do something else more harmful to you?
 
We all know that you wouldn't say something like that.. Maybe it was your evil twin. You know, like Vamp Ashley-Marie or something?
 
Good for you girl. They are so obviously not worth your time 🙂
Love always, xx Cordy xx
 
the date when i 1st posted this was may 26th and now it is june ???, but it's been near a month. i was actually surprised that one of my old posts was brought up, but yet i feel so special. hehehehe....well, on may 27th (the day after i posted this) i left those message boards permanently. i never explained anything since i know they wouldnt listen and i dont like wasting my breath when i could be using it for something important. so yeah, everything's fine. thank u guys!!! *group hug*
 
so are you permanently on this board now? i know you were debating whether to leave this board cos people were being nasty are you o.k. now?😀
 
i'm ok. well, except for the fact that i burnt my finger two days ago when baking...but that has nothing to do with the situation so yah i'm fine.
 
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