Alittle help please

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sweet-n-sour

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Hi... Most of you probley haven't seen me around and thats 'cause i haven't been since my friend moved she had the computer i used to sign up with and post...Anyways i got my own so i can post more starting with this...My friend got raped today by someone she lives with and she is to scared to tell anyone but her friends who can't tell anyone cause they live no where near her...Some of us figure it best if she hears other peoples opinions she doesn't mind me posting this but she doesn't want everyone to know who she is although some of you may please please please give all your thoughts cause she needs help to deside on things.... Thanks,

~Kim~
 
It's pretty clear to me, that she should turn in whoever did this. And even more so, not stay to live with that guy. But I do think that if this only happened today, you might want to give her a little time, to realise what had happened.
 
I agree with both. My best friend was raped by her boyfriend and out of fear, she didn't report it until 2 months later. Since she hadn't gone to the hospital and had (against all our objections) stayed with the guy for a little while afterwards, her case didn't make it to court. This has to be reported right away. If the person doesn't want to do this for themselves, they have to do it for the other people who could be in this guys path in the future.
 
yeah, your friend should go to the hospital and ghave a rape kit(i think that's what it's called) done!!! And then she should go to the police!(or go t the police and then to the hospital)

i agree with the ones above!!

do you have an ER of some sorts that are especialy for rape victims?? cos if you do than you should go there, and you might get some help!(that is if she doesn't feel so comfortable going to the police right away!)

if it happened today.. or right now, she should go to the hospital! with tyhe name of the rapist and pysical evidence it makes it alot better for her!(well, legaly!!)

GOOD LUCK!!!
 
She must see a doctor!!!It's not safe for her to live with that b@astard....Just be there for her and talk with her...
 
i dont know how things work where you live but if you need any advice or she want to talk to someone then just pm me, i have been raped in the past but i dont want to talk in detail about it on the main boards🙂

feel free to contact me..

Nikki
 
Originally posted by ana8
She must see a doctor!!!It's not safe for her to live with that b@astard....Just be there for her and talk with her...
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I know that this is a very sensitive subject which tends to get people very passionate but can you please try not to swear on the boards, we have the censor for a reason.
 
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