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Soulgasm

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I don't speack chick...so i need gurls on this board to help me out a bit...no males will give there two sense...i only want female translation...


hey there kaipo! it's me...tiff. thank you so much for your very
sweet e-mail. it was very thoughtful of you and it really means a lot to me. i never had anyone send me an e-mail like that before and i thought it was very sweet of you. 😀 thank you for expressing your feelings to me and i know that it must have took a lot of courage. ummm...i have a boyfriend. i'm sorry that i never told you before, but it just never really seem to come up and i didn't really think it mattered. but now that i know how you feel, it does. i'm so sorry. but i think you're a really sweet guy and you're HELLA funny! you're the reason that everyone has fun in class! 😀 wells, thank you again for telling me how you feel. don't worry...i don't think you're a stalker...but i think you'd make a really good friend. so...this is what i'm going to do...i'll leave you my cell # and you can give me a call anytime if you want to talk or do something. even to hang-out or something. plus...i'm going to need a GOOD english major to help me review my crappy papers in the future, right? =P yes...i know i'm
right. maybe we can get together and you can help me review my papers because i'm aiming to become a PRO like you! and i'm bound to have you again in one of my classes...unfortunately, i have to take 7 more english classes! =( so...don't be a stranger, kays? again...thank you for everything and remember to smile because everyone knows that you're such a sweet guy! take care and keep in touch, kays? byes! =P
luv-luv,
tiff =P

lol...i know she shut me down...but that's all i know...lol😀 😀 😀
 
Well, that one's hard to say...kinda have to know the girl but...if you guys were talking a lot and she never mentioned a boyfriend then I'm sorry but that just says tease with a capital T! If you want to be friends then go for it if it isn't too difficult...I really don't know how much you like her but I'm assuming quite a bit... Just make sure that you don't let her lead you around by the go-nads keeping you on the back burner! Friendship is hanging out, talking and going out places. If all she wants is to be study buddies...well...THAT would be up to you...but hon, I'd move on to greener pastures...lol...you seem to niffty to be wasting your time beyond that...😉
 
yeah, wow, it sounds like you both talked alot and she never mentioned that she had a boyfriend?? hmmm, like rayne says she sounds like a tease, and if you want to help her thats up to you...
and yeah, also like rayne i'd move on..
 
I think if you ask me...SHE NEEDS HELP WITH HER PAPERS!!! LMAO gasm I luv u soooo much- but take it from me....Shes not for ya...chase a girl who is single and MAKE SURE before you fall for her.....that SHE IS SINGLE!!!!

That girl is a tease like rayne said and I think she wants to be ur friend so you can do her homework for her.....I dont know her and dont know her pesonality (dont get mad at me for saying this) but stay away from people like that....they might just walk all over you!!!

PS::: I LUV U GASM....dont get mad at me...just looking out for ya buddy!!!
 
lol...i'd never get angry LA at your for being honest...

lol...i knew you gals were good...i didn't suspect she was a tease...but come to think of it...she was...always bending over in front me and shiz...always striking the conversation...lol...

lol...i really don't want to invest anymore time into her...so you gals don't have to worry bout me getting dragged by my man spheres...

lol...its just that she was the whole package....lol...one of the few i've encountered this semester...guess i'mma have to find greener pastures like rayne said...

thanx for the translating yall...
 
Hmm, I don't know if she's a tease so much.... I think that (from what I've been able to gather) that the two of you obviously get along well together. Maybe she didn't tell you about her boyfriend because she likes you. That could just upset the chemistry... I think she finally told you because it became necessary (not that she shouldn't have been honest from the begining).

She clearly wants to have some kind of relationship with you. I think that if she didn't have a boyfriend, things might be different.

~Kindred
 
From what I gather(not real expert) she really likes you and she dosent want to dump her b/f cause she didnt know if you liked her so she wants to be freinds so she can get closer to you. but it might be a tease, I'm not sure. But I rekon she isnt worth it if she always lies to you and stuff.

Also Hidden Track - you say lol a hell of a lot!
 
lol...that's hidden tracks shiz..he lol allot...lol

lol...i initially thought that alyson...but the whole email is i'm sorry repeating about 4 times...i think she just wanted to avoid hurting me....plus she didn't say she liked me allot...so...i think this road goes to nowhere...

shiz...now i'm all confused...2 said tease...2 said it was possible...lol...come on gals..i'm a simple man here!!...lol

eventhough i'm pretty confused...i know what i must do...i must dust my self off and try to tame a wild mare...lol...i wish i had a horse...
 
lol, I pretty much agree with everyone on the tease, but it'd help to be able to know her more. But I also agree with Alyson that maybe she does like you but because she has a boyfriend already she wants to be friends for awhile and figure out who she likes more or something....who knows but I'd say if you want to be friends with her...be friends.....if not then move on....
 
Not sure what i can say here as i don't know her BUT if i was you, SG i would be VERY careful around her. I wouldn't go so far as to say she is a tease but if you really like her and she has a boyfriend then you are going to be the one to end up being hurt.........its not right to string people along or lead them on and i think (just from reading the email) that this could happen to you. I think she wants to be friends with you and have the occassional flirting session, but that gives out mixed feelings. She wants her cake and to eat it too.

SG, just be really careful, you don't want to get hurt.
 
I have absolutely no idea with this one. If it was me and I liked a lad but didn't fancy him as a boyfriend I would have left it at the boyfriend part but with this girl giving you her number and saying you should meet up, that would indicate that she likes you more than a friend....in my opinion anyway.
 
'Gasm,
I know you wanted advice from girls but something struck me as blindingly obvious when I read your post.
"...i thought it was very sweet of you...

...i think you're a really sweet guy...

...everyone knows that you're such a sweet guy...
"

When a woman says that to a man it's not your body she's after, my friend, sorry. She likes you "as a friend"🙁 It sounds to me like she wants you for your academic skills or to play you off against the current beau - perhaps that's unfair to her (I don't know this girl and I've only heard your side of it)

I think it's similar to when men say "she's got a great personality" - you know what I mean?😉

I speak as an older guy who has heard those or similar words more often than I care for. I'm so glad I met Mrs Pointy 😀
 
Maybe I'm looking on the positive side but maybe she truly didn't realise that you felt that way about her and so didn't see reason to mention she'd got a boyfriend as if she never saw you in that light then it probably never even occurred to her. I mean, I don't know the girl and can't judge her and I still hold firm by the 'can't judge a book by it's cover' so without knowing all the ins and outs of your friendship then it's not for me to comment on the sort of person she is, as that would be unfair.

Judging by her email to you though I would say that she does want to be your friend, and maybe it's not just for all the help with her papers that you'd be able to give - does she really seem that shallow to you?- I think she values the friendship and is trying to be nice about letting you down gently and not leading you on now that you have let her know how you feel.

Like I say, I do like to look for the good in people and I think maybe her email would have been different if she didn't care at least some way about your feelings, maybe what others have took to be her being a 'tease', is just her way of trying to make an uncomfortable situation more comfortable and to lighten the whole thing? You know, so that next time you guys see each other there would be no awkwardness.

I don't know but whatever her true intentions are I'm sure you'll find out soon enough!
 
lol...thanx yall for the comments...seems to be two camps...

i'm just going to forget about her...not to hard for me...seeing that i can fall for any hot chick just passing by...lol..
 
I think you're deeper than that...in fact I think you're a VERY deep guy. You seem to almost try to hide the fact but it ain't workin'! LOL! Look, wether she's a manipulative tease or a sweet girl that's just very blind to boys with crushes she is taken. She said she want's to be friends so that's the only real question that I can see here. Do you wish to be her friend. Even if she is a total sweetheart, looks like ya gotta look elsewhere for love SG. In fact I think it's gonna find YOU...and when you least expect it...

And when it does, she will be very lucky. 😉
 
lol...thanks rayne...that was hella beautiful...

but you know what...sometimes i feel like its my destiny....to be solo....don't know why....just does...doesn't bother me...but i don't know...maybe i'll be eating those words tomorrow...ahh...now i'm all confused again...lol...

you know how like buff was always the center of the scoobs...but always detached from it...like she was always solo...
 
wait...hold on you gals...

i remember why i thought i had a falkin chance...

i remember this one time in class...she told me how my story was great...and then she told me that her mom really liked it...so i was like...??...why would she show her mom a story of one of her classmates...so i don't know if that changes any thing...
 
hmmm, she likes you, or maybe likes the idea of you.. BUT she's got a boy, so she's probably not looking to hook up, but she either, just told you that her mom liked it to flatter you, cause she wants you to like her.. Or did show her mom, and is probably flirting with the idea of hooking up with you, but won't cause she has a boyfriend. Either way, run!! lol.. She doesn't know what she wants, or she is just being a tease to get what she wants. Both situations equal bad news for you. And IF she does like you, and you walk away, she'll know that your not going to play puppy dog for her, and she will have to respect that. Wether she likes you enough to leave her b/f, is something you won't ever know if she thinks she can string you along and basically have you both.
 
lol...damn you faithy...can't you let me even sleep on with my fantasies...lol


nah...great insight...i gotta drop her...but i can't until i get to school tomorrow and let the eyes start falling once more...
 
Originally posted by Mr. Pointy
'Gasm,
I know you wanted advice from girls but something struck me as blindingly obvious when I read your post.
"...i thought it was very sweet of you...

...i think you're a really sweet guy...

...everyone knows that you're such a sweet guy...
"

When a woman says that to a man it's not your body she's after, my friend, sorry. She likes you "as a friend"🙁 It sounds to me like she wants you for your academic skills or to play you off against the current beau - perhaps that's unfair to her (I don't know this girl and I've only heard your side of it)


I'M VERY SRRY SG! really.

MR.pointy, i was just going to point out that i think she might just be after his english paper skills. but i'm alittle paranoid so i might just be looking for sighns of betrayl... but i do thinks that she likes you in general though(i know that's not too much omfort 🙁) but i don't really know on the whole tease thing, cos i haven't met the girl, and i have never seen her around!

but i'm sorry she had a guy and stuff! your such a good guy! you do deserve someone who you like and who like you back!!!
 
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