All your reasons and:
1)*relationship:''connection,what there is between one person(thing,idea,ect)and others(anothers)''~spike loved buffy,he was in love with her,..a relationship is a conncetion between two(or more) ppl(not just one<ie.spike>),...what their connection was?,..sex does not count,prostitutes have sex,do these girls have a connection with the guys they sleep with?,I don't think so,...that's just a physical connection.----Love is crucial in a relationship(at least if you are compearing it with bangel),there wasn't mutual love,...spike loved buffy,true,..completely in love with her,..she was probably the love of his life,...didn't happen the same with buffy,buffy wasn't in love with him,she may loved him,but not in the way he loved her...she felt for him,but feel soemthing isn't the same as love someone---xander felt for cordelia,but you can clearly tell the difference between his feelings towards her and towards anya...xander felt for cordy,yeah,he did,she was his girlfriend and he had feelings for her,..now,think about anya,he loved her,more than anything and anyone else on earth,he told her he loved her,..why wouldn't you tell to the person you lvoe what you feel?,what's wrong with that?---If buffy really loved spike,why didn't she tell him she did?,he had no curse,no intentions to hurt her,..he just loved her and wanted the best for her...,why didn't buffy just say 'i love you'?(chosen does not count,she was laying and spike knew it),..talking about chosen...you see your exboyfriend.,do you go to kiss him?,...hmmm,that's weird....except if you're still feeling for him and loving him...,why would you kiss your ex if you dont want him anymore?---im a bit off topic,the subject is spuffy....i don't like spuffy cuz it wasn't real,spike can't replace angel---the other day i heard a song,it is in spanish,it's about a girl,she says sometimes the first love is the true love and the next ones are just to forget(the first one)...i think that's pretty much buffy's case...she tried everything to go on with her life,...did it work?,considerating she broke up with riley,never gave spike a real chance and told angel the sometimes and the cookie dough anology,...,I guess it didn't...I think buffy's still feeling the same she felt a few years ago...love...for angel
i love you so much.and i tried to make you go away.i killed you and that didn't help
----->no matter how hard she tried,she still loves him...how can spuffy work if bangel is still being the truth?
2)spuffy doesn't have a sweet and romantic song
3)spike doesn't give buffy romantic presents for her birthday
4)buffy doesn't want to be with spike!
5)how can i like spuffy if i like bangel??!
6)it's over...in fact,it never really started
7)buffy treated spike as a lap dog(s6) and then she just told him 'hey,save the world,burn your ass,im gonna go europe to buy shoes...btw,yeah,i know you love me,...and believe,i lvoe you too,but what can i say?angel's lips are so sexy,i just had to tell hello!....there was no tongues spike,how much times do i have to tell that?...dont you understand i love you?,do i not show my feelings towards you?dont i tell everyday how much i love you?,dont i kiss you passionately?,dont i cry when you left the city or die?(yeah,i know you didn't ..but believe,im not gonna cry,im just going to let you burn and save mysefl)..and spike,didnt i mention
i would give everything to be with you cuz i love you more than what i will ever love anything in this life?'...at least,that's my super imagination,...she didn't exactly tell him that,but tell me im not right!
8)why i dont like spike?...BECAUSE!
