or Spike is a 'special snowflake demon', and then he really does not need a soul to be 'good'.
It's this one--the "special snowflake" being both his underlying humanity and the chip. And he isn't entirely good without the soul, (as you pointed out re: end of 6), which is
why he gets one.
Besides, 'got a soul to get into the girl's pants' was not written by me.
True, it was spoken by Angel who was essentially battling with Spike to the death in a fit of extreme rage and with the prospect of losing something he held dear, (the Shanshu prophecy hung in the balance). He spat that remark out at Spike like any enraged, threatened ex lover would. How could he have even truly known what Spike's intentions had been? Had he calmed down (or maybe just not been in love with Buffy), I'm sure he'd admit that.
Also, note that Spike has not gotten into Buffy's pants since his soul was acquired.
Instead of resenting her for it or resenting the very fact that he got a soul in the first place, he is still by her side.
I imagine a 'desire' type demon is more attractive and appealing to younger audience though - it takes different set of mind to appreciate austerity of pride and realize that desires are equally deadly.
Hmm this feels like quite a knock down to all of us who appreciate Spike. Rather than engage in this exchange, I'll simply point out that the older I got, the more I preferred Spike to Angel. If others have had the opposite experience, that is equally valid and I respect that as well.
One does not need to feel he is 'good enough to be loved' - if they are capable of loving. The whole getting a soul turns into a travesty.
Actually, scores of psychiatrists would scramble to disagree with that point. It is quite common for people to love without feeling as though they deserve love in return. In any case, it seems reasonable enough to me, (and quite rational), that a
vampire would conclude that his horrific deeds make him unworthy or a heroine's love. Especially when she's essentially told him so.
So, the above listed responses serve to exhibit why it was that Spike was inspired to get his soul. Regarding Angel:
He didn't actually know he had a loophole to his curse until Surprise/Innocence. Afterwards, I don't think he believed he deserved an easy route. He wanted to earn his humanity and make amends. Happiness wasn't really on his agenda, redemption was.
I think this sums it up well. My one issue with this however, is that I can't understand why Angel, (and the Fang Gang for goodness sake), wouldn't want to seek out more of a permanent solution to this whole soul having/not having business. We know that some witch can say the magic words and Angel can become Angelus again. "Orpheus" showed us that the soul doesn't have to be nearby, (ok it was in that episode but Willow didn't know that), when it's put back in. That suggests that a powerful being can be anywhere and remove the soul from him as well, without so much as ever meeting Angel. For safety's sake, I'd have thought that he would want to do something about that. You know, considering the number of enemies he has...