Anger Management lol

[Angels baby101]

Ok so I dunno CDB's post in the energy drink thread kinda made me wanna start this thread cause yeah...

Ok so I gotta boyfriend who is completely amazing as everyone probley already knows cause i talk bout him alot anyways he has problems with his mom and sometimes feels the need to get away well i was telling my mom how i felt bad that when he talks about this i cant do anything like invite him to stay the night because my step dad has a stick up his @ss and wont let me have ANYONE even my best girl friend who i aint seen in 3 years stay the night even if she does ahve to drive an hr to come see me. Well That like got me seriously upset and then the fact he basically told my mom she had no say and then also the fact that he's always telling me we have no room for things like when i wanted to bring my computer up from alabama we didn't have room but that same week he went and bought a brand new computer for himself, or how we didn't have room for a cat but we have room for two rats who eventually are going to get too big for the little aquarium tank they are in now and will require this huge cage we have. Anyways i've been dealing with this since september and finally today i snapped and when i say snapped i really snapped i came like 3 inches away from knocking him on his lazy crapper!

I mean i do everything they ask, I got a job, I'm paying some money to them for "rent" and i'm buying gas every other week 40 bucks but i'm treated like i'm a kid half the time I'm even sleeping in the damn living room on a stupid pull out couch for god sakes but heaven forbid if i have anyone over after 10 o'clock.... but i completely realized today i mean i got so angry so hateful and i never get that way wether i'm PMSing or not NEVER have i gotten that bad and like i went from being angry for 6 hours to just breaking down crying then back to angry 2 minutes later. then about 5 minutes later i was laughing over a movie...

So yeah anyone else have that happen to them to wear they snap really really bad lol and what do you do to get unangry?

 

[Randy Giles]

Ah well I do have another story where I snapped for reasons other than energy drink overload, lol. It's going to require a lot of background info for me to get to the point though, so sorry.

Alright, as you may know, I work as a valet. We don't pool tips or anything, we can keep whatever we make, so everyone there tries to get as many as possible. Unlike a lot of valet areas, we have one parking lot across the street which only holds 30 cars and then the other one is on a hill behind the hospital, it takes about FIVE minutes to walk up there almost. And when people come out with their tickets, the person who brings their car back is supposed to be the person who parked it, if they're there. When the person whose initials are on the key stub isn't there, you're supposed to hang the keys up for about a minute unless we're busy, and give the person a chance to get back. Most of us follow that, but this one guy there will go bring the car back no matter what. He often will take them when you're standing right there, and the boss wouldn't do anything about it, and it's hard to say anything and actually be able to stop it, unless you recognize EVERY single person whose car you parked, which is impossible as a lot of times we get backed up and don't see the people.

So this guy and a few other workers were constantly taking everyone else's retrievals, which meant we were making a lot less in tips (and trust me, most of NEED that money really bad for bills and everything). I was getting pretty fed up but I didn't want to get dramatic about it, because that's just not the type of person I am. But after a few weeks, there was one day when the guy who is always taking cars had a retrieval come out. It was on "The Hill", as we call it, so he didn't want to walk up there to get it. I knew who the woman was, who had the car, and she was really old and mean to me, so I definitely didn't want to get it, so I told the guy I was not going to get his car, because he knew the woman wouldn't tip, and that her car was really nasty. He got upset with ME even though it was HIS retrieval and called me a lazy bastard and said I would have retrieved if it had been closer. This pissed me off as basically he was accusing me of everything he was guilty of, so I snapped and started yelling at him.

Let me insert here that he is a black guy from the ghetto, and I'm just a little white guy.

Anyway, I started yelling at him and told him not to dare ever accuse me of shit like that again and called him all sorts of names, and said he was a dishonest bastard and all that, and I picked up this huge metal key thing (I don't know how to spell its name, lol, carrabeener or something like that?) and tried to hit him with it.

I've never yelled at someone like that before, and I was BEYOND angry. I just walked off after a while and went to the hospital cafeteria to chill out. lol

But the guy did stop stealing my retrievals as often.

I had a similar thing happen last week but I won't get into that, it's almost longer than this story. lol

 

[Schillaci]

So yeah anyone else have that happen to them to wear they snap really really bad lol and what do you do to get unangry?

The best way to deal with anger is to totally take it out on other people.

Unchecked it just turns into a mind numbing migraine and what use it that to anyone.

 

[Old Master 3.0]

I haven't been quite that angry in many, many years. The last time I was, I shot my fist into a supervisor's mouth. Yeah, I didn't handle anger very well when I was in my early twenties. 😛

what do you do to get unangry?

In my younger days, I would hurl furniture....but I don't recommend that.

Nowadays I just use a punching bag, it's the best thing, believe me. Now all you have to do is convince your dad to let you have a punching bag. 😛

 

[Angels baby101]

Psh i can bet anyone on here 20 bucks that this will be his answer "We dont have room for it."

lol I guess i just gotta get a gym membership or something cause i punched the wall the other day which was better then hittign my step dad