Argh, boys!! nice 1min.. jerks the nxt!

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Argh, boys!! nice 1min.. jerks the next!

ok so im in a mood as y'all might have guessed lol and its mainly down to the fact that the guy i like is acting like a major jerk. Hes in the year below.. very shy (or so he wrote in the note he sent me.. and from what his mates said).. my mates told him i liked him, since then i've spoken to him three times.. (twice last week) it took me 3 months though cause i was so shy lol but anyways.. he was sooo amazingly sweet last week 1st/2nd time i spoke 2him and i had such a great time with him and his mates cuz they started betting on us sayin we'd be goin out by the end of lunch, lol! all his mates were telin me to ask him out.. sayin he liked me too and that he talks bout me all the time.. i just said "well.. i dont know him" (which is true, i wanna get to know him better) but i had a laugh with him and got on really well with his mates... (that was friday) now yesterday (monday) i went over to speak to him again and he was bein a c*cky jerk! he went "what, again?" when my mate said i wanted speak to him ::huh1:: (he was in a crowd and he doesnt know i heard) but that kinda peeved me off cuz last week he'd told one of my mates he was p*ssed off cuz i dont talk to him.. and his best mate told my mate "You know your mate, he really likes her.. he wants to go out with her" but yesterday he was acting like a jerk.. he walked off in the middle of a conversation (when i was with him and his mates) and his mate went "You gonna take that? he just walked off!" n i went "well, i dont care, unless you want him back over here" and hes like "no, no, im good im ok" and we started laughing.. and then my crush came back over. He was also taking the p*ss out of his mates (which was unfair, esp. on one cuz he was very depressed) but i dunno.. i just wanna know what the "real him" is like - is he the sweet boy he was acting like last week? or is he the jerk i was around yesterday?.. i got told to try and speak to him on his own but he wont leave his mates, he went to and then doubled back to them.. and to be honest if he is as much of a jerk as he was acting like yesterday.. then i dont wanna even bother getting to know him, im wasting my time.. but the thing is i dont know 🙁 what do u guys think? why's he started acting like a jerk, what'd I do? 🙁
 
Well sweetie, it's quite simple...no more using go betweens...no more friends talking to friends talking to you talking to him...that's never going to get you anywhere. If you really like this guy and you want to know the real him and have any kind of respectable, mature relationship YOU have to talk to him one on one. Walk right up to him and pull him aside. Say something like "Hey, things have been kind of wierd with us and it's kinda making me nuts. Look, I'm into you and I want to get to know you one on one. If you feel the same lets get together and hang out without everybody around complicating things." Seriously, if this guy is the type that will stand on his own and talk to YOU then he's worth a shot. If you can't even talk to eachother without your friends in the middle then I don't see that working out. Just cut the B.S. and comunicate with EACH OTHER. I think that will get you the answers you seek. Just my oppinion though...
 
I'm a boy and I'm not a jerk...

I don't know. If I understand the story completely, he gets all weird when you try to talk to him? Well, you've been talking back and forth with his friends, and I suspect you're in high school, correct? Sometimes high schoolers can be vicious and say things that aren't true, just to get a reaction out of someone. Maybe they are just playing a trick on you. However, I hope that's not case. But I agree with Rayne. Just try talking to him by yourself and see what happens. If he's still weird then...I dunno...
 
You probably didn't do anything, his friends probably told him you're not cool enough. Guys are jerks like that, my advice, go lesbian 😀
 
I agree with Rayne! If you want answers then you need to talk to him alone! I mean, if you do end up seeing him then you don't want his mates with you the whole time. And if he doesn't want to speak to you alone then he's not worth it. Do the mature thing and take him aside... speak to him and find out where you stand. He obviously likes you but is too immature to show it. Boys are also different when they are round their friends. Try to act cool and stuff but it's just immature! But if he acts like a jerk again... I'd go with Allycat's suggestion! LoL!
 
Definately get him on his own before you talk to him abou things 🙂 Guys have a tendancy to go all macho when in front of their friends lol
If that fails...as Allycat said..go Lesbian 🙂
 
I know exactly what you mean...the exact same thing just happened to me...try talking to him on your own 🙂 it might work..or go with Allycats advice!
 
thanks for all the replies guys 🙂 hehe so the general advice/opinion seems to be to talk to him on his own.. right, I'll try that again lol 🙂 thanks everyone. I really do hate boys showing-off/acting macho around their friends though *sighs*

learn to type with out this stupid txtspk so we all know what your saying
^ sorry about that, its a really bad habit of mine.. I often chat to my friends on msn and quick convos means I tend to abbreviate things alot, and now i dont think I just do it.. sorry! im trying to kick the habit.
 
Allycat said:
You probably didn't do anything, his friends probably told him you're not cool enough. Guys are jerks like that, my advice, go lesbian 😀
LOL ally cat LOL!

YEAH! I WISH YOU GOOD LUCK!! 😉
 
Allycat said:
Guys are jerks like that, my advice, go lesbian 😀

LOL :: tu :: ...I had a really abusive boyfriend (long time ago) so believe me I have thought about following that advice many times....I always end up looking at the greedy evil sex again though

:: shrug ::
 
If guys were just like girls then everything would be just peachy. Well, they could still have a smidge of manliness left in them lol
 
Lol..I just can't imagine boys being like girls..Talkig for hours on the phone etc.

Some girls are also no angels..
 
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