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Soulgasm

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humans are visual creatures...what initially attracts us to a person is their looks...

but what keeps us attracted for years...personality...

what personality traits do you like....any invisible traits...


closed openess...the ability to open up to people...but not everyone...i love it...i love contradictions...
 
I got you.

I tend to be attracted to more maternal types, for some reason. Without knowing it beforehand, all of my relationships are with women who feel the need to be all protective and caring, in abundance.

That, and a sense of humor. Seriously, if a woman's got snark, I'm all for it.

-DD
 
for some weird reason, i always end up digging troubled girls, you know, weird personalities, emotional problems, life full of suffering... and the weirdest part is that it's not like i start liking them after i get to know them... it's more like i see em, i'm like "whoa, she's hot" and then she turns out all psychotic... funny-unfunny stuff if you get what i mean
 
its funny...cause both the type of chicks you mentioned...i can't stand...

if i ever find myself in a relationship in which my chick is dressing me....i'm falkin out of there....

or if i ever find a chick who has mental problems...like being violent and shiz...i'm out....

i also hate chicks who got alot of pride...falkin pisses me off...to me its a sign of weakness...rather than strength...

last tuesday at work we were going to have a water fight for all the kids...so we start walking down...getting ready....and i notice this chick has like a janitor's bucket filled with water ballons and water...must weigh like 50+ lbs....even though i had a cane...i asked if she needed help...cause she looked like she needed it...even though she's one of those heavy set chicks...

to my chagrin...she says "i don't need any help from a man"....lol...i was like whatever....she ends up getting almost to the field when she figures out that she can't carry the bucket down like 20 stairs...so instead of asking me or another person to help...she leaves it up the stairs...lol...

you know what i ended up doing...i took like 3 of her unguarded water ballons and nailed her....nailed her bad....lol...but it was all fun though...cause she got me a couple of times as well...but then after..she's all salty....over me nailing her with stolen water balloons...falk...it was only a falkin water fight...why you gettin angry over some stupid shiz like that...
 
I like blokes who are quietly confident, not braggers just having some pride without it being arrogant. I like emotionally accessible guys who don't have a problem admitting their feelings and showing you that they care without looking weak, I HATE baby voices and demeaning talk like that. A wicked sense of humour and an outgoing personality is really important, I love someone who can make me laugh 😀
 
Mostly, have to have a good sense of humor. He has to know when I'm joking around and when I'm serious, and can't be to incredibly boring and not joke around with me. I'd also hafta say honesty, but most people aren't incredibly honest..so honesty's more of a bonus.
 
i know...allot of the people i know are ungrateful bitches...and rarely...i'm one of them...

eh trust....from a gurl's perspective...does the soulgasm have a sense of humor...or just is he just immature....
 
Humor, Humor, Humor! If someone can make me laugh it is the biggest turnon! Confidence is also another one. Oh and good shoes! 😀
 
Originally posted by Soulgasm
trust....from a gurl's perspective...does the soulgasm have a sense of humor...or just is he just immature....
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::idea:: I'd hafta say sense of humor, sometimes a sick sense of humor, but it's all the same.
 
I'm gonna agree with trust, soulgasm...you've got a sick sense of humor, but would an immature person start up a topic like this?

I like a sense of humor more than anything...you've gotta be just as crazy (fun crazy) as me or i just won't want to bother. If i start singing on my terrace at top volume at 12AM, he can't tell me to stop cuz we'll get in trouble...he's got to join me 😀
 
Humor S'gasm.

I like em with iniciative, I tend to be a lil dominant so I like someone I don't have to tell what to do, that when I'm about to do so, he has already done it.
Smarts , humor
 
definately humour and someone who can take things seriously but can still laugh at themselves.
 
Originally posted by Jacklyn
I like a sense of humor more than anything...you've gotta be just as crazy (fun crazy) as me or i just won't want to bother. If i start singing on my terrace at top volume at 12AM, he can't tell me to stop cuz we'll get in trouble...he's got to join me 😀
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lol! Yep, that's exactly what I mean!
 
hahahaha....

you know whats funny...i can let loose with the full gasm humor around dudes i know....but once a chick comes....the well seems to run dry....don't know why...

i hate chicks with no sense of humor...

i've only met one chick that i could let loose like a do on this board...one out of hundreds...not a good sign...

talk about humor....the kelly hu look alike....has no sense of humor...and she's hella gay...she acts like she knows the underground sounds...but she doesn't...lol...damn her for her big boobies....
 
Originally posted by Soulgasm
hahahaha....

you know whats funny...i can let loose with the full gasm humor around dudes i know....but once a chick comes....the well seems to run dry....don't know why...
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your not the only one with that problem. as a matter of fact that problem defined my years at high school (or should I say what it really was living hell!)
 
another problem is that at work....there's only one guy my age... and i can't hang with him....we cool...but we can't just shoot the shiz man...lol...that's a funny saying....
 
Originally posted by Soulgasm
you know whats funny...i can let loose with the full gasm humor around dudes i know....but once a chick comes....the well seems to run dry....don't know why...
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maybe you're trying too hard to impress her
 
i don't even like most of the gurls at work...just with gurls in general...

like as in tolerate...not in trying to mack....
 
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