I do somewhat get the 'outsider' thing, though, loathe as I am to agree with Dora. I won't go into it too much, this being a Bangel thread and all, but a writer has to be really good to convince me about a crossover pairing (despite my love of crossover stories and TTH).Well, if you don't want her with people outside the show, and don't want her with Angel or Spike, then that leaves who? Xander or Riley... or some other minor show character? Wood? Hmmm. Not sure about weird, but poor Buffy sounds kinda lonely...