Even though I have no dislike towards either SMG or Buffy, I've got to go with FaithFan2005 on the deer thing. The scene is horrible to bear, no matter how often I see it; and the contrast with the soft lighting may be unsubtle, but it's damn effective. The killing was wrong, and deeply dark.
Consider this:
- Buffy was at peace with dying, willingly offered herself in the place of her sister. Wherever she may have gone after death: bringing her back demeans the sacrifice she's made.
- I don't see it as a logical assumption at all that she would be trapped in Hell; that would have made PERFECT sense if no body had ever been found, but that obviously wasn't the case, now was it? Thus I'd go for "she went wherever she deserved to go". And if that were Hell for Buffy, you'd have to assuming she was "evil". Would they bring back any other "evil" person just because they miss them?
- I don't buy into the "her life is worth mor than that of a wild deer" line either. We need a Slayer? Why? One dies, another is called. Fixed in the system already. And if you leave that out, you're stuck with "what's one life taken compared to hundreds saved", and when Faith argued this way, everyone seemed to consider that a sign that she was on a downward spiral. (And the food analogy is off. Taking another life for food is ok, because it's demonstrated by thousands of nonhuman species to be natural. Taking a life in self-defense will probably also raise little argument from most people. Taking a life for any other reason: hello Darkside.) And no, I would abso-f***ing-lutely NOT kill a stray cat even if that gave me a chance of seeing my dead Grandpa again, and I loved that man to bits.
So, what it boils down to is, this is the same unnatural and selfish thing Dawn went into trying to bring back Joyce, plus some slaughter of innocent life put on top. I wonder how they EVER got Tara to go with the plan? I can see Willow's line of thinking there (though I don't agree with her at all, she did more or less hand Dawn that book after Joyce died, and she was "it sucks, so I fix it with magic" as early as S4, so it's absolutely in character), and I can see her drawing Xander and Anya on her side, but Tara? Gaping plot hole for me, she's acting WAY out of character in this ep.
Nonetheless, I like the ep. It succesfully sets the mood for a depressingly dark season dealing with the scariest Big Bad of all - the Abyss Within.