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since gasm baby started that gurlz thread i was thinking of starting a boys one!

Why do boys use girls? Why do they build them up and just tare them down? Is it true that most boys are only in it for the one thing? is there a true explanation??
 
That's an interesting point of view on boys....I never have understood guys, from my experience, guys think they know everything, they have to be the one that have "the floor",they only want what they can't have, they're only happy when they're chasing "waterfalls", once the chase is over, they're bored, & look for another "rainbow" to go chasing...however, they are great to talk to about things you don't want to talk to w/ your girly-friends, & it's nice to have a guy's point-of-view once in awhile....but most of the time I live by this, " Guys: can't live w/ them, can't live w/out them, but you can't kill them....unless you have no witnesses"...lol....you know they say that women are complicated, I think men are in some ways more complicated than women.
 
lol...noyce thread LA...

alright...lemme break it down...

all guys...unless their eunochs...have an underlying urge to procreate...i'm sure this isn't a revelation...

but...there's two types of guys...the guys that will lie and say anything to get it as fast as possible..or...the guys that will let it come and be hella open and honest bout it...like your b/f LA

yall should go for the shy guys...i know that gurls get hot by confidence...but...those shy guys got it...just gotta make them show it...
 
i actually dont understand guys at all and i've had my fair share of them most being heartbreaking mofos lol but i've also had some good ones... and they were the sweet kind... they still ended up breaking my heart but one broke my heart cause he passed away and the other spent 5 hours crying with me after we broke up cause of his parents...so guys are confusing cause you really can't tell who are the playa's and who are the generally sweet and caring ones.... I dunno i dont get them
 
ehh...101 babe...i can sniff out players...its all about confidence...and body language....i know that gurls can look at a guy and know if he's confidant or not...just know that the confidant ones....are most likely players...you got exceptions...like yours truly...but...most of the time...they are players...
 
Soulgasm: I'd have to agree with you, the shy guys are USUALLY the good guys( there are always exceptions to the rule), & there's a diff. between confidence, & super-ficial-narcissticism, the ones w/ confidence(most anyways) are over-all alright, good guys(at least from my experience), but the super-ficial-narcissistic guys are the ones i defienietly steer clear of.....Angels baby101:We've all had our share of dealing with mofos(unfortunately), but I guess with everything in life, we've got to take the bad w/ the good,& sometimes you have to walk through the darkness to get to the bright side.....LA:Nice thread by the way!!!
 
Lol... well,guys are so confusing..I really cant undertsnad them,sometimes they're nice and other times they're mean...so I've really given up on trying to figure them out
 
i guess boys and girls are not meant to understand each other
but i think if i understood them i wouldn't interested in them that much anymore

i think the worst thing bout guys is them not knowin what they want...
 
Yvbaby...i use to think the same thing bout gurls...but more and more...i think its just people...don't know what they want...

i think instead of not knowing what they want...i think its people afraid to believe in something and commit...cause once you commit...and it doesn't pan out...it sucks...

shell...same deal...just know this...from my experience...most guys are cool...to certain degrees...but most guys don't cross the threshold into womanization...it matters where you look to...go into a bar...and take your chances in a shark tank...go into a church...take your chances with a dude that believes males should be dominant in a relationship...go to the gym...there's a good chance you'll get a narcissit...no real place to find a type of guy...gotta feel it out...

La....Put It in My Pocket??...ehh...if you ever watched trigun LA...you'll know who i resemble...vash and me got allot in common...
 
In defence of some guys, we're not all bad. Yes there are some that are but they're just generally bad.

Anywho, I get on with a lot of women because I'm not big with the bravado and the ones I've dated I got on fine with, before after and during. I pride myself on not being an arsehole but I wont deny it, guys do want something (but so do girls, dont pretend 😉) but it depends how much they want it.
 
Only problem I ever get is, that when I don't fall into the evil men category, I get I could never date you, 'cause you're like a brother to me :s which is pretty annoying to hear like ten times... not that I'd want to date those girls in particular, but you get the point.
 
Hey Allycat at least you get along with girls....

Boys for me are like a complete mistery and frankly I'm not sure whether I even want to know what are their true motives( besides sex that is)
 
@soulgasm
think instead of not knowing what they want...i think its people afraid to believe in something and commit.
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that is so true...but it's just not clear if it is not knowing or being afraid most of the time
cause u know I'm the real "relationship-run-away-type". as soon as you say commitment/relationship I'm gone lol... but you know i'm letting the person that wants to have a relationship with me know that i'm afraid and that this is the reason why I'm hestitating....
but most guys i know are jus saying i don't know or just changing topic and stuff...
 
Huh, another guys are evil type of deal, don't hear that too often on these boards. Here's the deal, the reason girls don't find a nice guy is because, although they say they want a nice guy (most nice guys do lack confidence, but would defintely treat the girl like a queen), they really want a bad boy. Plain and Simple: EVERYBODY included want what they think are unattainable, that's why girls want the jerks who don't care and nice guys want the girls who only see them as a brother. It's a very vicious cycle people. And may I just say that I have met ALOT of girls who are just as good of players as the guys.
 
I've always wanted a bad guy I've never said that I want a nice guy .....he just has to know how to treat a lady right, but also to be bad :: vampire lol
 
Ummm, first of all lol at that. Another huge misconception is that guys can be both a good guy or a bad guy at the same time. Guys aren't like girls in that respect, they are either one or the other, the player or the played. I mean they can balance it for a while, but it would just an act until you found out their true color. Deep down inside, a guys either one or the other and acting like a bad guy or a good guy can only hide who they truly are for so long.
 
my ex-boyfriend was perfect at that....being how he should be at the perfect moment.
treated me right but also was a bad guy.......like a intelligent lady said she wanted a bad guy in public but a pussycat at home....that is a kind of true
 
there are some good nice guys out theres...you just have to look.. but there is also the ones who pretend to be like that, nice romantic, etc...and then they are real b*astards! i've only had 2boyfrieds..the first one, first love and all..disdn't work out because we were too diferent and always arguing..guess i could say it was a year of both heaven and hell..but he was a nice guy..at the time..now i'm realizing he has became a real jerk to his current girlfriend..the second one, i dated him, because wanted to forget the previus one, and he seemed a cool, nice, romantic guy..wrong move..it only lasted 4monts and he reaveal to be a real b*stard, that althoug i know he did like me, i don't tolerate anyone w/ a jeolus/demanding crap.. ::rm:: so not so lucky w/ the boyfriends.. but w/friends, i have 2 male frieds, and they are really good boys, and great frieds..
 
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