~boyz......

Male friends are sometimes just as complicated as boyfriends..I really dunno, but I seem to meet just b*startds..
 
i do meet rarelly (one or two times) good, nice guys..but i only like them as friends..i guess i have a crush on the "bad boy" thing..although that always ends up screwing my life.. ::dead::
 
lol i used to be that way always crushing on the bad boys... then i got over that after getting used, cheated on, and one guy hit me once and that was the end of that i decided to look for the good sweet guys and still ended up getting cheated on a couple times.... then came my ex fiance who was the sweetest guy you think you'd ever meet... he'd send you roses just because he loved you... or send you emails and e-cards every day to read before school he was the perfect guy at least for me anyways.. he never cheated, never broke my heart on purpose... but he passed away then there was my other ex who was sweet and all he spent nites over here days over here hung out with the family we went places all that kinda thing it got serious too fast and his parents didn't like him being 21 and me being 15 so they made us split till i'm 18 so that heart break wasn't his fault either... and the logic on get the sweet guys isn't always true cause sweet guys will cheat on a girl too...
 
AshSan said:
In defence of some guys, we're not all bad. Yes there are some that are but they're just generally bad.

Anywho, I get on with a lot of women because I'm not big with the bravado and the ones I've dated I got on fine with, before after and during. I pride myself on not being an arsehole but I wont deny it, guys do want something (but so do girls, dont pretend 😉) but it depends how much they want it.

So true. Most men aren't all that bad... the few that I've dated have been really sweet and honest, except for my first boyfriend. Ended horrible!

I'm kinda like you Ash. I get along with men better than I do women. I see a lot of what men talking about in women, and vice versa.
 
Allycat said:
Only problem I ever get is, that when I don't fall into the evil men category, I get I could never date you, 'cause you're like a brother to me :s which is pretty annoying to hear like ten times... not that I'd want to date those girls in particular, but you get the point.

I hear you, bro. Been there, heard that...and I got dumped for being to "predictable" (read: boring, not 'bad', whatever). We've covered some of this stuff over in SG's "gurls" thread, so I won't be boring old tell-the-same-story guy, but all you girls wanting the baddies keep this in mind: women pick guys and think they'll change, be more this or that , or that they can be taught to do this or that...and usually (99%)they don't. Guys choose girls thinking they won't change, that they'll stay just the way they are, and they won't grow, or whatever...and they usually do! So pick wisely, grasshoppers! And by all means, be yourselves...the only route to true happiness is to be true to yourself, and not what anyone else thinks or wants you to be. Someone will love you for being you, guaranteed!
 
Well... I gotta say... they're not all bad! I found a good one... and sometimes he does things I don't understand but I'm sure I'm the same! I know I'm far from perfect and he's not perfect either and that's what makes us a good match! There are some good guys out there... i think it just takes them a while to mature and realise this for themselves! 😀
 
boys aren't all that bad as some girls think, but sometimes they got hurt by some girl and they decide not to put up with that cra anymore and become different, like real b*astars....
but they are good, nice guys, who can like girls withouth thinking thinking about sex all the time *cought* like me*cought* lol but seriouly, guys are just like girls, they are good ones and they are some *ssholes, you just gotta look--
 
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