Cool, so I've always been 100% honest and un-bias on every front in the boards...and so I'll just add my opinion to this board in the same manner. I own all the Seasons of Angel, Buffy & as of today all seasons of Charmed. I really enjoy sitting down and watching Charmed, but with that said I do believe it to be kind of fluffy. There are certain things that I like better about Charmed than I do the Buff. With that said, I love Buffy & Angel, and to be honest, I find the story lines in the Buffyverse way better than Charmed, and maybe all of the television programming I've ever watched. BUT the thing that I really love about Charmed, is how casual and cutesy the banter is between the sisters. By far the best part of watching Charmed is the relationships between Piper, Phoebe, & Paige (and in it's day, Prue). There is never any real problems between the characters. Minus the best ever storyline in Charmed, the Cole storyline. In that storyline I did feel there were similarities to Buffy. The whole falling for a demon thing, like Buffy fell for a Vampire. There were of course major differences between Cole & Angel, but the story was similar.
But with no real conflict between the main characters, the story never really gets to that "juicy" point. You love the way that season six works all the characters in Buffy against each other. Not to mention season 4! There are always huge conflicting views between the Scoobies, which gives it these realistic gritty and amazing plots that just blow my mind.
So in the end although I love to put on Charmed when I'm in a silly mood, because it's very warm, and fluffy and usually each episode ends with "hugs & puppies"...for me the better show will be the amazing twists and turns the Buffyverse takes me on every time I pop in a DVD. I do feel more for the characters in Buffy & Angel, than I do in Charmed. Charmed is my guilty pleasure, and the Buffyverse is kind of my home.
Does any of that make sense?