Carrie Hopewell
Little girl lost in the woods
One of the most significant arcs of BtVS and AtS concerns the hero/champion's journey of the titular characters.
Buffy's arc in s7 was very much about her isolating herself, becoming more imune to everyone else's opinions/feelings ("I am the law."), essentially as a way to face the battle ahead of her. Her often inconsiderate behavior led to a "revolt" in Empty Places, her lack of empathy toward Xander (an act mostly) and unreasonable empathy toward Spike alienated her friends and seemed OOC, her "handling" of the potentials was far more cruel than it had to be, the activating spell would have horrified Buffy just two seasons before.
An unfortunate part of Buffy's story was how she started seeing "the mission" more as her responsibility and less as a choice to do good. Actually, while Buffy takes saving the world seriously, it was always a bit more about slaying something if it came her way - because she's the slayer. She also had a black and white view of her slaying duties: killing humans was off limits even when killing Ben would have been the right thing to do, Spike had a chip so she couldn't kill him despite the danger he presented. "Because it's wrong" was pretty much Buffy's moto. The grayer her world became, the less empathy she seemed to feel toward the people she was meant to save. In Prophecy Girl, she faced death because Willow made her realize what she had to do, in Becoming, she killed Angel to save the world, in The Gift, she decided to save Dawn because she was an innocent with no one else to protect her. Empathy and love drove her decisions far more than responsibility did.
Yet, in s7, she was willing to kill Dawn if it would've saved the world. I know this statement was supposed to be reassuring or something, but what kind of hero would it have made her? Heroes are supposed to fight for humanity and good. Her sister was a teenaged girl with no one else in her corner. Fighting for Dawn's life while risking her own and everything else that was dear to her was imo, one of her most heroic acts. However, in season 7, duty and her own selfish desires (Spike) were all that interested her. (In Chosen, we got a glimpse of old Buffy but it was too late at that point).
Buffy's story is, in my opinion, a truly tragic one. She became like all other slayers the minute she stopped letting her "irrational" emotions (like love) lead her. She was not like Nikki Wood who chose the mission over her son. She was the slayer who had chosen her sister over the world. Her sacrifice had been one of love and not loyalty to the Watcher's Academy. That should have been the end of her journey.
Angel, similarly, became tougher with time - more demanding, questionable and aggressive. He started off in season 1 (of Ats) intent on fighting for humanity without connecting to it. He was torn between fighting for atonement and fighting for humanity itself. His decision in IWRY, the cases he took on, the friends he made, all brought him closer to the world he was fighting for. However, the Shanshu Prophecy and Darla's reappearance tipped the scale the other way. One of Angel's biggest realizations was that "the smallest act of kindness is the greatest thing in the world". Doing good isn't about some reward or redemption, but rather a desire to help.
Angel's suffered and brought suffering onto others, he knows how people feel and wants to make it better. With the kidnapping of his son, Cordelia's ascension and being under water for months, Angel toughened up quite a bit though. He became more impatient, violent, jealous, toxic. He often showed little compassion for Cordy and his own son. Yet, in the end, it was his concern for the victims of The Beast and Jasmine that got him through. Compassion is always a big part of him, no matter how detached he seems - he forgave Wesley everyday he saw Connor and everyday he lived without Connor; he didn't stop worrying about Wesley despite his own grief, his visited Gunn when no one else did after Wes stabbed him.
In the end, the quality that inspired Angel to work for the PTB and to make amends is still there five seasons later. Angel would have made the decision to fight W&H the way he did - Shanshu Prophecy be damned - in every season of the show. His words to Lindsey in Not Fade Away were not unlike his words to Buffy in Gingerbread ("Maybe they're [W&H] not there to be beat. Maybe they're there to be fought. Maybe fighting them is what makes human beings so remarkably strong." / "We never win. We never will. That's not why we fight. We do it 'cause there's things worth fighting for.").
Maybe it's an unfair comparison, but I doubt s3 Buffy would have allowed the activating spell. And this isn't even a question about "growing up". I can't help but think that Angel's journey was, by far, the most satisfying one. There's a sense of integrity and humanity that he held on to, in a way no one else did. It's one of the reasons why I love his character and am proud of his journey despite the vulnerability and playfulness he lost in the later seasons. I think the opposite of Buffy.
[Yes, I know I'm biased but I still want to hear your opinions 😛]
Buffy's arc in s7 was very much about her isolating herself, becoming more imune to everyone else's opinions/feelings ("I am the law."), essentially as a way to face the battle ahead of her. Her often inconsiderate behavior led to a "revolt" in Empty Places, her lack of empathy toward Xander (an act mostly) and unreasonable empathy toward Spike alienated her friends and seemed OOC, her "handling" of the potentials was far more cruel than it had to be, the activating spell would have horrified Buffy just two seasons before.
An unfortunate part of Buffy's story was how she started seeing "the mission" more as her responsibility and less as a choice to do good. Actually, while Buffy takes saving the world seriously, it was always a bit more about slaying something if it came her way - because she's the slayer. She also had a black and white view of her slaying duties: killing humans was off limits even when killing Ben would have been the right thing to do, Spike had a chip so she couldn't kill him despite the danger he presented. "Because it's wrong" was pretty much Buffy's moto. The grayer her world became, the less empathy she seemed to feel toward the people she was meant to save. In Prophecy Girl, she faced death because Willow made her realize what she had to do, in Becoming, she killed Angel to save the world, in The Gift, she decided to save Dawn because she was an innocent with no one else to protect her. Empathy and love drove her decisions far more than responsibility did.
Yet, in s7, she was willing to kill Dawn if it would've saved the world. I know this statement was supposed to be reassuring or something, but what kind of hero would it have made her? Heroes are supposed to fight for humanity and good. Her sister was a teenaged girl with no one else in her corner. Fighting for Dawn's life while risking her own and everything else that was dear to her was imo, one of her most heroic acts. However, in season 7, duty and her own selfish desires (Spike) were all that interested her. (In Chosen, we got a glimpse of old Buffy but it was too late at that point).
Buffy's story is, in my opinion, a truly tragic one. She became like all other slayers the minute she stopped letting her "irrational" emotions (like love) lead her. She was not like Nikki Wood who chose the mission over her son. She was the slayer who had chosen her sister over the world. Her sacrifice had been one of love and not loyalty to the Watcher's Academy. That should have been the end of her journey.
Angel, similarly, became tougher with time - more demanding, questionable and aggressive. He started off in season 1 (of Ats) intent on fighting for humanity without connecting to it. He was torn between fighting for atonement and fighting for humanity itself. His decision in IWRY, the cases he took on, the friends he made, all brought him closer to the world he was fighting for. However, the Shanshu Prophecy and Darla's reappearance tipped the scale the other way. One of Angel's biggest realizations was that "the smallest act of kindness is the greatest thing in the world". Doing good isn't about some reward or redemption, but rather a desire to help.
Angel's suffered and brought suffering onto others, he knows how people feel and wants to make it better. With the kidnapping of his son, Cordelia's ascension and being under water for months, Angel toughened up quite a bit though. He became more impatient, violent, jealous, toxic. He often showed little compassion for Cordy and his own son. Yet, in the end, it was his concern for the victims of The Beast and Jasmine that got him through. Compassion is always a big part of him, no matter how detached he seems - he forgave Wesley everyday he saw Connor and everyday he lived without Connor; he didn't stop worrying about Wesley despite his own grief, his visited Gunn when no one else did after Wes stabbed him.
In the end, the quality that inspired Angel to work for the PTB and to make amends is still there five seasons later. Angel would have made the decision to fight W&H the way he did - Shanshu Prophecy be damned - in every season of the show. His words to Lindsey in Not Fade Away were not unlike his words to Buffy in Gingerbread ("Maybe they're [W&H] not there to be beat. Maybe they're there to be fought. Maybe fighting them is what makes human beings so remarkably strong." / "We never win. We never will. That's not why we fight. We do it 'cause there's things worth fighting for.").
Maybe it's an unfair comparison, but I doubt s3 Buffy would have allowed the activating spell. And this isn't even a question about "growing up". I can't help but think that Angel's journey was, by far, the most satisfying one. There's a sense of integrity and humanity that he held on to, in a way no one else did. It's one of the reasons why I love his character and am proud of his journey despite the vulnerability and playfulness he lost in the later seasons. I think the opposite of Buffy.
[Yes, I know I'm biased but I still want to hear your opinions 😛]