Cancer (I'm french)

CaraLéza

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Hello
I'm sorry but I'm french, and my english is not terrible !
So I must speak in french !!

My mother have the cancer ! she was opered 4 !! she have 45, and I'm scared if she dead !! What can I do ??::thumb::
 
oh my god, I think I'm not good for the english, because I haven't understand all what you need ! but thanks
 
thanks you ! in really, I'm scared because tot day, she go for do a "traitement" very dangerous !
 
thanks you very mutch.
is there someone to have a person in his family who have the cancer ?? just me ?
 
Have you thought about joining a support group? Maybe there's a forum online for kids with parents with cancer. It is a scary thing, and I can only imagine what you're going through. It might help to talk to others who are going through the same thing. It might even be helpful to talk to a counselor.

I'm sorry I don't speak french, but I wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you. Maybe if you can't understand this, someone can translate it.
 
I have understand, but not all ! lol
heu of course i want to rejoin the cancer group, but what we must do ?? because i'm just 14 so ....
 
I don't think you're age matters. If I were you, I'd do a search on the Web. Put in words like "cancer" "support" "children" (In French. A French forum would be ideal.)

If that doesn't work, can you talk to your parents? Do they know how scared you are, and that you would like to talk to other kids with parents who have cancer? If you can't talk to them, is there someone at school, like a teacher or a counselor that knows about your mom? Maybe they could help you find a support group.

It's OK to be scared, it's normal, and it's ok to ask for help. I know a couple people that lost a parent to cancer when they were kids. It is hard, and I really believe that it's important to talk about what you're feeling and going through to someone.

Good luck. 🙂
 
Is there another adult you can talk to? I know it's scary, but I think it would help if you found someone to talk to.

I really hope your able to find a support group. It seems like you could really use it.
 
SALIUT CaraLéza !

I'm Ariadna... and i guess that it's pretty hard to be in this situation... a friend of mine had cancer but thanks God she's great now... so don't lose our hopes... and u'll see that everything is gonna be ok.

The ideas of I'llBeYourAngel are really good... so u should try to do them... and if u feel like to talk to some one u can contact
me ... Whit all my prears

Good luck... and kisses~

@ri
 
My mom is just going through her second bout of breat cancer. I was 12 when she first got cancer and I was really scared. She had radiotherary and she had her 10 year all clear in 2001. Just before Christmas 2002 we found out she had cancer again. It scared me that I might lose her and that she may not live to see Izzy (my daughter) grow up. This time she has had to have chemotherapy. Its really hard on her and it is making her sick but my mom is a fighter and I know she won't let this beat her.

CaraLeza be strong for your mom. Some people do not like to talk about cancer as talking about it makes it real. try to talk about it with your parents, the more you understand the less scary things are.
pm me if you need to talk.
 
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