Cordelia doesn't hate the Scoobies

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It has already occurred to me on previous rewatches but...I think Cordelia has a funny attitude with the Scoobies. Even before hanging out with them because of, say, Xander, or to help with the mystical stuff, she doesn't seem to actually hate the Scoobies.
In the first episode, she definitely is a bitch (like when she's mocking Willow).
She's all popular and stuff, but it seems she can't help but to have interactions with them. The first time I ticked was in The Witch, when she's actually talking to Willow during the try-outs. Just one sentence, and to complain about someone else, but still, she talks to Willow without insulting her. In Nightmares, she randomly says to Buffy "I hope you studied for the history test". And there are a few occurences where she just talks to the Scoobies. Or she's mean to them but it sometimes looks like she mocks them in a affectionate way, like if she wasn't that popular she would actually get along with them, like them.
I sometimes feel that she's happy with her clique but feels connected to the Scoobies in a way, and a part of them, even tough she'll never admit it.

She even bounds with Willow when she's dating Xander.
I think deep down, she envies the Scoobies and wants to be friendish with them, and have more interactions that "I so agree with you Cordelia you are so awesome you are the Queen".

My point is: I sometimes think when I see her: "You know you want to be part of that, don't lie to yourself 😀".

What do you guys think? Did you ever have the impression Cordelia actually liked the Scoobies?
 
She wanted to be a part of the Scoobies but the problem was that she wanted to keep her high school popularity.

So she felt her popularity was more important then the Scoobies.
 
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Ripper666
sure about the last thing?
I think Cordy was completely envious of the Scoobies and what they had together. I don't think for a second she hated them.
 
I don;t think she hated them I think that she wanted to be a part of them. I can't remember that episode that she says that she's lonely amongst her friends, and I think the Scoobies, when she was with Xander anyway, made her feel differently
 
I don't think she hated them either. I never saw evidence of that. Sure she said/did things that weren't nice... but I never saw hate with her at all. I never saw hate ever in her character's whole existence.
 
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Bingo!
I don't think she hated them, but she was wary of making herself look like a fool (which Buffy et al clearly weren't). I think she just wanted to be in a group where she was able to let her guard down a bit and not have to worry about popularity as much. She wasn't as bad as Harmony was.
 
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I think Cordy was completely envious of the Scoobies and what they had together. I don't think for a second she hated them.

This... I think Cordelia longed for the kinda of friendship Buffy, Xander, and Willow had with each other, but she also longed for popularity as well. She was really torn and it was sad.
 
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I don't think she hated them, but she was wary of making herself look like a fool (which Buffy et al clearly weren't). I think she just wanted to be in a group where she was able to let her guard down a bit and not have to worry about popularity as much.

Exactly. That's part of the reason she was so hurt when she saw Xander kissing Willow and never really reintegrated herself into the Scoobies after that. She had let her guard down around them and then felt like an outcast because no matter what Buffy,Willow and Xander will always stand by each other (okay maybe not Xander when it comes to Spike or Angel but..)

Anya experienced the same thing after Xander left her at the altar. She didn't really feel like the Scoobies supported her outside her relationship with Xander.

I love the Scoobies but they can be incredibly cliquey (although unintentionally) themselves because of everything they've been through together. Tara had trouble fitting in before "Family" and no one really checked up on her when she and Willow broke up. She had to take the initiative to contact Dawn etc.

I always got the feeling that Jonathan wanted to be part of the group but didn't really know how. Dawn is shown in numerous episodes to be, unintentionally, ignored, as has Riley and even Joyce.

Oz and Cordy have their own social circles outside the Scoobies so they never seemed to mind quite as much. But I always think of that scene in Dead Man's Party where the Scoobies all rush upstairs and don't notice that Oz has been grabbed by a zombie. It's Cordelia that actually hangs back to rescue him.
 
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Yes I agree all the guys said that she did NOT hate the Scoobie gang. She had to choose between her popularity on school and the gang.

She decided for Xander and so for the Gang but then Xander cheated on her ... and we all know what happened...
 
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