Angel always thinks he knows what is best. He thinks that he has the patent on redemption and guilt. I don't think it ever occurs to him that someone else might be better at handling a situation or has more of a personal stake in it. He was still in his "not in my town" mode of thinking and acting.
Well, it is the town he's trying to protect. Buffy is in Scotland, a half a world away, and one of the ramifications of her spell is wrecking havoc and killing innocent people, so of course he feels like he has jurisdiction. Buffy just proved that she wasn't fully capable of handing everything she set in motion with that spell.
Angel will never truly know what it means to be a Chosen One. To be a human female with that shadow spirit inside. Being undead, having the memories of Angelus, and sharing a body with a vampiric energy is very different. He can relate to Slayers but he couldn't understand what it's like to be one any more than a human would know what it's like to be an immortal bloodsucker or a man would know what it's like to be a woman.
I don't see how that is relevant, really. Slayer or not, Dana murdered people. That shouldn't be excused because Angel is a guy, or not a Slayer. And, when you think about it, beyond Giles, Angel probably knows more about Slayers than any non-Slayer in the world, after his work with Buffy, Faith and now Dana. And if anyone understands the word "chosen", it's Angel. He's a vampire with a soul, and there are exactly two of those. Two in all the world. Sounds kind of familiar.
Plus, Angel proved beyond much doubt that he understands Slayers, and how to help people. Look at his relationship with Faith. He did more for helping her rehabilitation than any Slayer, including Buffy, ever did (I know Buffy had cause not to help). To say that Angel isn't capable of understanding women or Slayers because he isn't one after what he did for Faith sounds, to me, pretty sexist.
The very fact that activating the Potentials was Buffy's idea, her scythe was used, and it was Willow's magick that let it come to pass, is why they should be the first called in on any and everything Slayer related. For good or ill, it was their domino effect or spreading ripples. If it is a mess than it's their mess to clean up. Even if she had remained a Potential, she would still be a member of their family.
I'm sorry, but I don't see the reasoning in this. I understand why Buffy and Willow had to do the spell to save the world (kinda...I'm getting there), but just because they did it, and clearly by Dana's example didn't have much of a plan to deal with the consequences, doesn't give them ultimate authority over any Slayer situation. The fact is, and this can't be disputed, Dana didn't have superpowers before that spell. She didn't. It was those powers, given to her by Buffy and Willow, that allowed her to go out and kill people. That's a pretty huge mess if you ask me, and it was Angel and Spike who mopped it up. They did the leg work, and then got shafted for it.
I do not think that Angel & Spike cleaned up anybody's mess. Any girl at any time in any part of the world could've been the next activated (had Faith died). It could've been Dana. I doubt that her frame of mind would've been different in a year or five years. At least being activated now she had a real support system of fellow Potentials turned Slayers instead of a few men and their still kinda evil lawfirm.
Well sure, but instead of any one Potential being activated, all of them were. So instead of a very slim chance of the next Dana or Faith being called, all of them were, and there was little followup to deal with that reality (I'm sorry, but if Dana was allowed to run amok and butcher people, that's a major screw up. I don't know why people can't see that). Angel and Spike completely cleaned that up. It was only because of them that Dana didn't kill more innocent people. And Angel has proven, pretty conclusively, that he understands people in trouble, including Slayers. He was the one, more than anyone else, who helped rehabilitate Faith.
We still do not even know if Buffy gave Andrew a message outside of "Yes. Bring that poor girl into the family. We'll take care of her." We have the word of a guy that is being groomed by Giles---a Watcher that has kept the Twilight Prophecy from his Slayer and searched the globe for a totem to kill her if the need arose---and flat out lied in The girl in question because he thought it was funny, he might have stupidly thought Angel & Spike weren't on the needs-to-know list about the decoy Slayers, or at Giles' insistance wanted to keep either of Buffy's possible Twilight mate from getting too close to her. From Buffy's dreams in S8, it definitely seemed like she still trusted both souled vampires. The only Scooby we know for sure---thanks to his refusal to help save Fred later in S5---didn't trust them is Giles.
Yes! One we agree on
🙂. I liked everything [MENTION=6758]white avenger[/MENTION] said in his post. I don't think there's anyway it makes sense for Buffy not to trust Angel and Spike. If she was so paranoid about them being at Wolfram & Hart, she would have confronted them about it. It makes far more sense to think that Xander or Giles is behind it.
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Also, I forgot to mention but should say it, I'm a obviously a huge Angel guy. Overall, he's probably my favorite character of the entire Buffyverse, and this was always a scene that bugged me.