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I guess I'm a little thrown by your choice of words. Spikes not the first character that comes to mind when I hear nice and gentle. For sure that would be Tara. But I chose sometimes because Spike had tendencies toward Buffy that were gentle and sincere. Especially after he was ensouled. But for the most part I think Spike is rude, self-centered, sarcastic, and brutal...and honestly, thats what I liked about him. What can I say, I've got a sweet spot for bad boys. :doctor: