Do you like what you see when you look in the mirror?

Chosen Enemy

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Do you like what you see when you look in the mirror? If not, what don't you like as opposed to what you do like?
 
yes, i'm comfortable and happy with who i am and what i do for a living lol

ok, so there are a few things i'd like to change overall, but pretty much i'm happy and content with being who i am 😀

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Hmm.. Well, I guess I like what I see.. I just wanna reach my ideal weight, so no matter how many pounds I lose, I think I'm fat 🙂
 
short answer - no.

I don't think I'm ugly, but I wish I was skinnier, prettier, more together etc. I see so many girls around that have the time, energy, money,or genetics to look stunning and yeah, I guess I get jealous occassionally...
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No. I would like to see tall, skiny, green eyed girl with blonde hair that is little curly on the ends. Yeah, I'm superficial like that. That's because I don't look myself at the mirror that often.
 
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Goldilocks
Oh sweetie.. You look just good as you are right now :)
I like myself. Not arrogant - I'm just content with where I am in life. I'm happily married, okay with my job, love my little boy, and I'm okay with my looks...especially now that I have my beard back.
 
Joan the Vampire Slayer
Joan the Vampire Slayer
You sound very blessed :)
Sort of. I want to be one-dress size smaller, heh. I don't ever want to be super-skinny, but if I could reach that one size I'd be happy.

I'd also like smaller boobs, lol.

But overall I'm not unhappy. I know I'm not an ogre or anything, lol. I could look worse, ha.
 
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faeriegrrl27
I want smaller boobs, too! So few understand the problems they give.
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What's not to love about looking back at that every day?

Seriously though, I don't love how I look. But at the end of the day to change it would be as big-a part of changing myself as erasing my obsession with Pixar. I'm not talking about going to the gym and stuff, that's cool, but I'd never want (even if I could afford it) cosmetic surgery or anything, unless it was to put things back how they used to be (like, if someone offered me a boob uplift after I have kids, I wouldn't turn them down!) but at the end of the day, I'm happy with who I am.
 
Kean
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randiann
And you should be! You are beautiful.
Sometimes, I think I could be a bit thinner though.

I'm very androgynous which I actually love about myself 😀 but often, well always when I met people I've never met before they have a hard time figuring out what I am, sometimes it gets awkward but I try to joke it off so they don't feel bad. I'm used to it cos it's happened to me for as long as I can remember, "are you a boy or a girl?" I don't even know how many times I've had to answer that question 😉 haha
 
I'm fairly pleased with how I look as I'm quite thin (a relief after being labelled the fat one in my family when I was younger) and I like my hair. What I really hate though is the dark circles under my eyes. I'm pretty sure people my age shouldn't get them and they make me feel really self conscious.

I don't generally look in the mirror though.
 
As I spend more and more time with my personal trainer I like what I see staring back more and more. But I believe you should love yourself warts and all. Not that I have warts...😱...well I put my picture in my profile; didn't I? Must not be that ugly if no one's reported a bear sighting.
 
I'm pretty happy with how I look. I know I could be in better shape, though. I keep meaning to join the Y but for some reason, it never seems to happen. I am on this low-cab diet thing and trying to lose ten pounds.

The only thing that gets me sometimes is how young I look. I think people don't take me as seriously sometimes because of it. Bus drivers ask me why I'm not paying youth fare -
I'm 25, for God's sake! lol

Seriously, if you didn't know me, how old would you think I was? (I'm on the left)
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=6180990&l=0230084847&id=541430727
 
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Big Damn Hero
I'd say 20-22ish. :)
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Brydee
THIS.
ashsummers
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Tillow4ever
Tillow4ever
awww,you're pretty :)
I know I can't look at myself in the mirror when I need to dye my roots. And every time my hair looks bad, which is easy to acheive since it's full and thick. I hate it. I hate that I'm short with big boobs. I think though that besides all that, I'm my own taste, most of me look like I'd want myself to look.
 
Joan the Vampire Slayer
Joan the Vampire Slayer
My roots always bother me too.
I do from certain angles. Not all the time though. Sometimes I look in the mirror and I get annoyed at the ugly mug staring back at me. And sometimes I get really excited because I'm kinda pretty.
 
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Spikefan31
You look pretty in your Twitter avatar pic thingy :)
Well that's curious: I don't hate my reflection at all, I even sometimes think "Yeah, you are fat and you have a baby face and Hagrid's hair, but really, it's not that bad". Then I see a picture of myself and I have a huge "EEEEW"reaction. So I don't hate my mirror-image but I really have issues with my-picture image!
 
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zobothehobo
Oh my god, same here! I look decent in the mirror. Not great, but not bad... and then I take a picture and I look like a short troll.
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Spikefan31
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It makes me sad that so many of you aren't happy about yourself because of your weight. I used to have a eating disorder, and believe me, nothing good comes from focusing on things like that. If you want to work out to be strong or healthy, by all means, but I think far to many people work or are on diet because they feel fat. Sadly, it is something our society teaches girls, so it's really hard to break that selfhating habit and trying to love yourself. But I promise, it's totally worth it, so try! :heart:

I'm happy about the way I look. Sure, I could find a lot of flaws and focus on all the things I'm not, like tall or super skinny, but that's not going to make me any happier. I rather think about that I'm cute, have a hourglass figure, nice eyes and the fact that I'm funny and smart and kind. 🙂 I'm also happy about where I am in life. I've been doing a lot of changes this last year and I'm really proud of myself. It can only get better and better from here on.
 
What bothers me is not really that I'm fat, it's more that I'm not healthy enough. I wish I moved faster, I wish I wasn't tired when I climb the (many) stairs of my school. So when I look at myself, I'm more bothered by "I don't look healthy like that" than by "I look fat". When I was doing hoola-hoop 45minutes/day, I was still...Chubby but I looked more firm, you know?
 
brinkster130
brinkster130
I took a hula hoop dance/workout class a couple weeks ago and it was so fun!
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