Do you miss school?

USA College style that gets shown on the television etc, it was though it was a completely different world to what it was here lol.

Yeah US tv school is way different to my schooling. We all had uniforms for starters haha. And I think aussie teens start drinking earlier, sexing later and are more environmentally competent, but far less articulate. PS sorry about my spelling! Having a low day today.


The other thing that spins me out is the age the US leave highschool. What is the leaving age in other countries? We were all finished highschool by age 17. Myself and a few others finished Teritary enterance exams by 16, just by being born later in the year. I was independent from my family, renting and working by 17. Then supporting myself finacially and at uni by 18. I now realise that is not the norm by world standards, it makes me jealous of those who got an easy ride, and question what my life would be like with that sort of support.

I know people who got to age 26 before learning how to do their own washing. I had zero respect for them at the time, but their jobs now pay 6 figures, so I guess thats success.

I am doing some free online learning now. There are loads of tafe courses I am interested in, but cannot afford them unless work pays and have no idea how to access support that doesnt insist on drugging me. Soz, bad day. So cold, so hungry, so bored!
 
Yeah US tv school is way different to my schooling. We all had uniforms for starters haha. And I think aussie teens start drinking earlier, sexing later and are more environmentally competent, but far less articulate. PS sorry about my spelling! Having a low day today.


The other thing that spins me out is the age the US leave highschool. What is the leaving age in other countries? We were all finished highschool by age 17. Myself and a few others finished Teritary enterance exams by 16, just by being born later in the year. I was independent from my family, renting and working by 17. Then supporting myself finacially and at uni by 18. I now realise that is not the norm by world standards, it makes me jealous of those who got an easy ride, and question what my life would be like with that sort of support.

I know people who got to age 26 before learning how to do their own washing. I had zero respect for them at the time, but their jobs now pay 6 figures, so I guess thats success.

I am doing some free online learning now. There are loads of tafe courses I am interested in, but cannot afford them unless work pays and have no idea how to access support that doesnt insist on drugging me. Soz, bad day. So cold, so hungry, so bored!


I was 16 when I finished high school and started working a few weeks later, it's now 18 here in the UK , unless you get an apprenticeship at 16. This happened a few years ago now .

The online learning is something I'm interested in as well, but as you said , money lol
 
I've never had much of a work ethic so I miss school in the sense that it beats working. Less hours, more holidays. Also it was easier to get people out and about. When we were younger it was football and games, then college and uni it was more drinking and parties. Now people have commitments it's harder work.
 
I'm grateful for facebook etc in that it helped me to connect with a lot of friends from school who I hadn't seen or spoke to for a good 6 years or more, but a lot of their lives have changed a lot, and some people who I went to school with who made every day a hard time for others , they are doing as expected even in prison or no job to date etc and things like that
 
I don't want to be a teenager again at all, but I've always loved school. Personal stuff was hard at that age, but school life was mostly a blast. Whenever I say that, especially about high school, I tend to get a "oh... you're one of those people" comments 😛 Basically, I wouldn't mind going back to school and there's not that much I would do differently.

I'm currently going to uni at the same time as I'm working. 🙂 My one real regret in life is not going to college in the US when I had the chance and was young. I got into a school I really wanted to go to, but life stuff and financials got in the way and I had to give up on that dream. So what I miss is that lost experience, that I wish I could get to go "back to" and do. Now I'm too old to hang out at a campus or live at a dorm, *shudders* I'd be Giles tormented surrounded by an endless amount of Buffies and Willows.
 
No way, I was just not suited for it. While in school there was only one teacher I recall getting along with (who didn't mind my questions and seemed to enjoy it when I found answers and shared them with her, though I'd later find out the Texas History textbook was less than honest, but that was after I dropped out). I was 12 when one teacher--a male one at that--said he found me scary (and I wasn't trying to be). Though my retelling of a Baba Yaga faerie tale was well received.

I was 10-11 when a teacher called my parents because some artwork of mine had her concerned. Both my parents mocked her, which is better than them punishing me for drawing attention to my home life. I wasn't trying to be disturbing then, either (though the artwork was inspired by nightmares I had which got interwoven with a picture of home life, and most abusive homes would've said whatever to the teacher and punished the child, so I'm glad the idiot teacher was mocked rather than me getting into trouble). My dad did tell me not to scare that teacher anymore because he didn't want to get anymore phone calls from her, but it was clear he thought the teacher was the one with problems rather than me.

Interesting enough, when I transferred to another school hundreds of miles away (when I stayed several months with Granny while the 'rents were divorcing), the teachers ended up taking up the same practice of not calling on me when they could help it, and allowing me to read or write even when others weren't allowed to (as in other kids pointed out I was allowed when the rest weren't). This makes me think that one of the teachers at the school called the last school I went to to ask how to deal with me and were given that advice, because otherwise that was a remarkable situation that they'd adopt the same practice so fast.

I could share a lot more, from the good like the time I went from making an F in math to scoring a 110 on the semester exam (and the ONLY one to get the bonus question right) which then had me assigned by the math tutor to other kids, to the bad like when a school psychologist collected a bounty on me by tricking my dad into sending me to a mental hospital (he'd get busted for it later as the insurance companies don't tolerate that and keep private investigators to use when that goes on too often).

High school faculty worshiped the jocks (so did the community), and were more blatant than even in the Buffy episode of Go Fish. It wasn't just the male jocks, either.

I only did 2 years in high school, and not full years. I ran away with my best friend toward the end of our freshman years because she was going to flunk the grade and was terrified how her alcoholic abusive dad would react (and she did try to get help against her dad which was a disaster, the only saving grace being that the high school counselor--who was either an idiot or malicious, I'm not sure which--couldn't reach her dad directly as he was temporarily without a phone at the time) and so ran away, and I ran with her, having my own troubles at home and very bitter about my situation.

I'd return after the school year started and the counselor put me through a bunch of tests (without calling any child protection service or anything of that nature) and got put into ABC (Adaptive Behavior Class). This was actually good in that for the first time I wasn't the weird girl. Like me, my classmates were of above average intelligence but having dysfunctional lives. Many had been locked up in the same mental hospital I'd been a few years before that, were in broken homes, and some had also been runaways. I fit right in and we were tight (it probably helped that I was 1 in 3 girls of a class of nearly 20). We were essentially quarantined from the rest of the school (having to eat lunch in between the 2 lunch periods, for example, and stuck to the same room for all our classes). In some ways it was better because we got bribed to behave (which meant we got to see movies, for example) but we were also closely monitored with the stick being used as much as the carrot (and corporal punishment is still used in Texas).

One time a teacher dug her nails into my arm hard enough to leave bruises for which I shoved her into the wall and warned her to never do that again unless she wanted me to beat the crap out of her (and meant it) which got the principal to threaten me with the cops, but it was a bluff because I had bruises while she did not. While I'm not certain the cops would've taken my side, if I had it to do over again, I'd call his bluff and call the cops myself. I'd have to do it with my current mind as back then I didn't know how to work the system and the idea that the cops could ever be on my side was an alien concept to me at the time.

Shortly after that I'd runaway for the second time, and that time I didn't contact anyone in my family until I was 21, though I got my GED when I was 18. I'm sure the school faculty breathed a sigh of relief when I vanished and hoped I never return, and my not returning is one good thing for them I didn't mind doing as it was also one of the best things I ever did for myself.

And frankly, I'd have done better if I'd been let loose in a library. I'm not sure how I managed it but I taught myself to read when I was 5, and about the same time I mastered multiplication and division (flash card stuff anyway) years before it was taught in school. I got into trouble once because I corrected a history teacher, though actually he was a high school coach given a teaching position because Texas law demanded it. He mocked me, but I brought both school and public library books that proved me right and him (and the textbook) wrong, and of course I got into trouble because that undermined his authority. When I got put through the tests by the counselor I scored college level in everything but math (I presume that came from all the reading I did), something that surprised me as much as the counselor, and I actually missed some questions on purpose in the hopes of getting put into Resource (where many of my friends from the previous year were in, and was for those slower than the rest, and I made the mistake of thinking myself average). Sometimes I did my homework as soon as I got to class and was able to turn it in for a good grade, and the reason I read and wrote so much was because I finished my assignments so fast.

I have zero doubt that had I been able to learn at my own pace rather than according to the normal progression level that I could've passe the GED with flying colors when I was 12 rather than when I was 18. But then I do believe schools are more for teaching obedience as their primary objective with actual education of secondary importance (and sports also trumps scholastic concerns).
 
It was a weird one for me.

At the beginning of high school it all changed for me but there was no like, defining thing that happened for me to change. I literally just lost the will to keep going back to school. My school wasn't the best, there were a lot of the bullying type, a lot of people who were very "entitled" and everyone else in between, and I think if anything, the likes of Buffy/Angel and other shows at the time, I just drifted off to a place where people could actually be good friends, helped each other and things like that, and there was nothing like that in my area at all. Crime was pretty high, drugs etc, if you were outside in a group, you would often end up smoking,drinking,drugs, or all 3 by the time you were 14.

I isolated myself a lot to my room and literally started to self teach and watch television shows, and that went on for a good 3/4 years, I'd still go out, but my routine would be I stopped going to school pretty much all together, but I would wake up at the same time, then I would research things such as history for a few hours, science, biology, animal studies etc, while watching Buffy/Angel or other things, and I think that gave me the sense that I knew there would be someone else doing more or less the same thing (maybe haha).

But since then, most of my learning has all been self taught, and it's helped me massively when it's come to doing further learning (online etc). My biggest regret is I wish I had stayed on to do animal work, I love animals and can do an open college course for about 800 pound which gets you to your level 3 but obviously it's all theory and no practical.

I have no regrets over it though, I like to think I'm a nice person, I try to help others when I can and help out with various animal charities etc, and I think I got a lot of who I am simply from watching shows like Buffy & Angel, and looked at them at how to be and to not be frightened of new things or to let others put you down because you think differently to them etc.
 
I have more freedom and lack of responsibility now. Its boring. I miss challenge and results. I was treated fairly and respected as a student. Now, I am disabled, I am actively encouraged NOT to try, constantly told I am not capable and patronized when I try to discuss new ideas or goals.

Ah, the flip side of the coin...I was thinking more along the lines of financial responsibility and financial burdens. Bills are way more now than they were in school, at least for me. And I guess socially, while I have the freedom to do what I want when I want, I just don't have the same amount of time (because of work, bills, etc.) as I did back then to hang out or go out with friends. I totally agree with you on missing the challenge and results. I miss it, and have a feeling I would appreciate it so much more now than I did when I was younger.

And UGHHH to the people discouraging you from trying things because of your disabilities. That's wrong. I wish things like that didn't happen, humans can be so ugly.

I am glad I finished school before social media. Facebook hate groups years later were my first experience of bullying. Just didnt seem so wide spread at my schools. Maybe its because the schools were small and selective? I know the general public have never been so nasty to my face. (Which is currently looking like a teenagers face. When do you grow out of pimples? Lol)

ME TOO! I can't imagine having to go through middle school or high school with social media. I think it makes bullying significantly worse because you don't have to say it to someones face or whisper it behind their back....you can do it all from a safe distance and anonymously.
 
I'm still in school and I'm never leaving!
 
ILLYRIAN
ILLYRIAN
Glad to hear it, glad you won't be upset when it becomes apparent that you are never going to be allowed to leave .. bwahahahaa.
High school was great, I learnt to stand up for my beliefs, mind you I also learnt how to get disliked. Specifically religion, I was a Quaker in those days with a Quakers values. Having a go at the Education dept in my town because I was forced to go to their church and complaining to the schools for only teaching Church of England stuff, kids in the class were Quaker and Hindu. Six months after leaving school I became a pagan. That didn't help my social standing at school or afterwards.

Many folk have said of the effect facebook and online media had on them at school -oh dear- when I was at school people didn't have home computers. And the age kids left school at HA! I'm guessing none of you youngsters left school at a young age to work in the mines tee hee.
My dad worked on computerised telephone exchanges that could repair itself. Twenty odd years later a film made big about computers that could repair themselves, Terminator, big joke that.

About that discouraging folk from trying new things because they are disabled, that would depend entirely on the disability.
 
My God, I can't even IMAGINE what high school would've been like if Facebook and Instagram had been around!! Not to mention the fact that EVERYONE has a camera on them now...life would be HELL!!!
 
I think people miss the freedom and lack of responsibility more than the schooling.
This is true for me. I miss all the free time I had back then mostly.

Not to mention the fact that EVERYONE has a camera on them now...life would be HELL!!!
Also true. I think the camera thing is much worse than social media.

/SK
 
There were some bad incidents in my school with social media, one very serious incident where a girl in the first year of high school, would have been 14? I think? anyway, she decided to send someone a very "personal" video, it was around the entire school the next day, school tried to sweep it under the carpet and not much else was said or done.
 
I dont miss school since work yesterday. I have had some awesome fun jobs. My jobs have mostly been easier on the brain and schedule than schooling was. Now I just need more jobs so I dont have to keep subtracting things from the budget! Would be nice to add a little sport in too once I cross the poverty line.
 
It's crazy what people have to do in jobs just to make enough to make ends meet now. Times were a lot simpler in school but as I said before, plenty of things I wanted etc and could never afford, but now I can afford them I don't have any time from work to enjoy them lol.
 
The other thing that spins me out is the age the US leave highschool. What is the leaving age in other countries? We were all finished highschool by age 17. Myself and a few others finished Teritary enterance exams by 16, just by being born later in the year. I was independent from my family, renting and working by 17. Then supporting myself finacially and at uni by 18. I now realise that is not the norm by world standards, it makes me jealous of those who got an easy ride, and question what my life would be like with that sort of support.

When I left school the UK had just raised the school leaving age from 15 to 16, so I had to do an extra year in highschool. But by 16 I had left home & was starting an apprenticeship, so I had to fend for myself.
As for school, I have mixed feelings. As a kid I was stupidly shy. If I didn't know someone I couldn't look them in the eye (which kinda makes it hard to get to know people) so I was a real loner. Then one day something happened, really can't remember what triggered it, but I thought....I just can't go on living like this! So I did a Xander & started hiding behind my sense of humour....became the class joker almost overnight! So I actually enjoyed my last few years at school (The others were a nightmare as I used to sit & daydream in class & never did any work....seems I was very close to being put in a special school as they thought I was retarded!).
Guess that's why I've never been a fan of Xander....too close to home.........

Computers & social media simply didn't exist when I was at school. Can't imagine what it would have been like with everyone having a camera at all times.....
With all the crazy sh*t we did, half of us would have ended up in Juve.........
 
HowiMetdaSlayer
HowiMetdaSlayer
bet you're still grounded :p
Yeah I wouldn't mind studying again, but it's the time and money factor.
 
Steven123
Steven123
Even online study has a high price these days
Do I miss school? Hell no.

As to school systems. No clue as to how it works today in terms of age. We had 3 tiers, 2 finished at grade 10 and the third at grade 12. The third was needed if you wanted to go into college/university. Generally most jobs only needed the lower 2 grade educations, except in some areas (like sciences) most companies preferred people who had the highest grade. Not everyone who did the third tier went to college/university after.
 
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