Sarah is known for keeping her private life and work seperate. There was interview recenltly with Amber who said about Sarah :
Professionalism and/or/versus Inspiration. From what I hear about Sarah Michelle Gellar, she's about as professional as you can get "“ very Jodie Foster. Is that a role model for you, what do you think about professionalism?
Look at Sarah, she's very analytical, and she admits it. She walks into a set and she knows where her light is, she knows her lines, she has them down cold. She knows where everything is in relation to her, she knows how to get it done so you don't have to do ten takes. You do two takes and that's it. Some actors, they don't know their lines, they don't know what they're doing, they're searching for their marks and it takes forever. Sarah always is on top of things and I'm so respectful of that. That's how I try to be in a working environment, because you have too many people depending, relying on what you're doing to goof off. Sarah's professionalism can be very intimidating to some people. But if they looked at it realistically and would think about why people are that way "“ because they're trying to do their job, so they're not there for twenty hours, which sometimes you could be at "Buffy". We could be there all day.
Non-actors probably can't imagine what several takes can do to your motiviation. When it's emotionally wrenching, you don't want to be on the verge of tears for hours.
Sarah's amazing, I'm in awe of her. She comes, does good work and then she goes home. I think that's wonderful, I respect that so much. For me, I'm an amalgamation, I have a little bit of both: I always know my lines, but sometimes I also get lost in the creative side. If you get sucked into the moment, you don't think analytically. But that can be when people start the journey with you.
That explains a lot about Sarah.
James Marsters said once when they first met that she said to him that she doesn't like to mix private life/work. So that if she doesn't invite him or something like that, it doesn't mean that she doesn't like him.
I found the fact that she told a magazine season 7 would be the last season before she told Joss or the rest of the cast very rude. If I was Joss I would be pissed.
Joss knew it. He was interviewed for that magazine too. Sarah told her boss/Joss that she was quiting.
''It would be difficult to overemphasize Sarah's value to the show.'' Adds ''Buffy'' creator Joss Whedon: ''There've been times that we didn't get along. There have been times when we've palled around. But no matter what, she was the other half of 'Buffy.' In seven years, she never let me down.''
At the beginning of this season, Joss and I had a conversation outside my trailer. We both kind of felt that this was the end, that we should make that decision and say it publicly. And then...we didn't. We didn't even talk about it for a while...
The magazine interview-Ew