Black Eye Guy
Taking over the World!
Buffy had super powers, shes bound to have a little more confidence.Like I said before, this was a military situation, it was their DUTY to fall in line. They didn't choose to be potentials, well Buffy didn't chose to be a slayer, it was thrust apon her and she just had to deal.
But she gave a choice in Chosen not in Empty places.Like you said Buffy asked them to decide when she told them her plan, she gave them a chioce that she didn't get.
No they were agreeing to be protected, the girls wern't expecting to have to fight, this comes across pretty clear. It's only once they get there that the gang decides they can use them.By agreeing to go with Giles they were agreeing to everything that comes with being 'chosen'.
I mean even the scoobies were given a choice in season 1, Buffy didn't want them to be helping cuz they could get hurt, but they choose to fight. But with the potentials they were being demanded to.