fitting in

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i've said this before I think...in high school I was a bitchy princess...like in 'mean girls'. It was fun for a while, then it got empty and boring. Being like that is toxic.
 
I didn't really have a stereotype, but I was very badly bullied, so I didn't really fit in anywhere. I was somewhat famous in school for all the wrong reasons. It seemed to be cool to be cruel to me. I guess it was just because I didn't care what people thought of me and refused to be a sheep and follow the herd.
 
I got really lucky in school in that I kinda fell in with all the crowds without trying. Technically I was with the rockers/goths but I was good enough at sports to get on with the footie team, intelligent enough to get on with the less nerdy brains and good looking enough to never have to struggle to find a girlfriend.

Okay, that all sounds really humble, doesn't it?!? 😛 That wasn't me being really arrogant, honest, but the fact is that I think I was lucky enough to miss out on a lot of the suffering that so many kids have to go through because I was able to adapt to pretty much all the various groups.

Always be a rocker at heart though!
 
I don't really fit in any sterotype...I've never been bullied, I can talk with the nerds, play the guitar with the rockers etc...the only group I can't stand is the preps...I won't tell you what I think of those persons but...
Even though after school I pretty much hang out with the same friends since I started high school, at school I try not to be stuck in a group.
 
I guess I got it pretty good. I was never bullied, if people ever pushed me around, I pushed back. I got lucky, going to a school with only about 60 people in it, everyone knows everyone. As a few of you know, I pretty much hate 99% of the people I come across, but people still like me, I don't even try to understand that. Nearly all my friends are boys, most of them are 'gothic'. I'm nearly the only girl in my school, which means I'm the only one to hit on, really makes me mad. I'm pretty smart, nearly 4.0 GPA, so people like to take advantage of that as much as possible.
 
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I was a horse of a different color....I ate lunch with the gearheads and the nerds, and after school hung with the preps and the jocks...Sometimes I'd walk the halls with a gothy or two. I pretty much got along with everone. There were a few cheerleader types that I had to bi***-slap a time or two. But other than that, I was a peaceful type. And I pretty much had my own style...Hell, my first day senior year I remember walking in with my hair in pig tails and a skin tight tee on that had a glittery red tractor on the front of it, torn jeans, and a pair of mary janes. It turned a few heads, got a few strange stares...But who cares...I did my own thing.
 
I pretty much fit in with everyone... I didn't get along with the football jocks, but that's only because they didn't like the drama club taking over the school. I even managed to keep clear of the drama/techie wars... I did both sides while in school, but I was the drama club president, so I tried to keep things peaceful. There wasn't really any segregation in my school. Everyone pretty much got along, or else just left each other alone. :biggrin:
 
I was never really a stereotype and I never fit into one social group. I was never picked on in a mean way, I was never bullied. I was never really an outcast. After moving in tenth grade, people at my new school seemed to like me but I didn't really act as friendly as I should've, I was going through a weird time so I wasn't popular or anything but I was able to talk to people.

I fitted in and at the same time I didn't. It always seems like I'm too different from others to truly "fit in" and feel comfortable around them, yet I'm always on good terms with them. I could have more friends if I wanted, it's just that I can't find people I would WANT to be best friends with, with a few exceptions.
 
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