Friends: I would definitely get along with Willow, Fred, Lorne, Xander, and possibly high school-aged Buffy. Willow and Fred are a LOT like me...we're dorky and we ramble on too much. I'm not quite as smart as they are, though, but they could always teach me! Lorne is just adorable, and we could talk about music for so long. Plus, he just seems like he'd be so much fun to hang out with! Xander, particularly in his high school days, was just a goofball, and I would love to hang out with him. And Buffy just seemed like fun to hang out with before she got all depressed.
I'd include Tara and Oz in the mix, but I'm really quiet, and I'm worried that, if we hung out, it would result in a number of awkward silences. I do think that, if I got to know Tara better, we'd get along really well. Giles and I would get along okay, too, but I see him more as a father figure than a friend. I can't see myself getting along with Anya, high school Cordelia, Harmony, or Faith. As much as I love Anya as a character, she's just waay too in-your-face, and it would definitely get on my last nerve. The same goes for Cordelia and Harmony. As for Faith, I'm very far from the rock 'em, soc 'em type.
Lovers: I'd really like to say Spike. Why? Well, he's gorgeous! But I'm not sure how well we'd fit together. He's cool, I'm, uh, not so cool...we'd sort of have trouble getting along. I can see myself going out with Xander, though. Wesley and Angel could be potential love interests, too...they're both very sweet and lovable. And I actually had a dream where I went on a date with Gunn, and I really enjoyed myself, so throw Gunn in the mix, too.