ana8
Missing you....
I agree..Akasha you and your taste in men😉
carlych-don't worry..I'm sure someone special is waiting there just for you🙂
carlych-don't worry..I'm sure someone special is waiting there just for you🙂
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Akasha
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carlyh
Slave to angels passion
oh yes we are most definetly better than them. :: tu ::Akasha said:Yeah your right its there loss...we are better than them 😀
destructo_girl said:im sorry..
all men are pigs.. they say they love you, but the thing i think is they cant just stay with one person and be in a relationship... they need to see different women.. and hurt anyone on the way..
For the hundreth time I must stick up for my gender again. ALL OF US ARE NOT LIKE THAT!!! There a lot of decent guys out there would never do that to a woman, I wouldn't and I'm sure a lot of the other guy sat Buffy-Boards wouldn't do that to a woman either. I know you're upset for whatever reason you have, but it's really stupid for you to say that all men are pigs because that means your saying that your dad is a pig and so is your future son if you have one.
Carlyh - I agree with everyone else on the board, there is definatly someone out there for you. It's just a matter of when and where you find him. You're probably a beautiful intellegent girl and some guy who deserves you will see that and ask you out. No one likes to get their heart broken, no matter if you're a guy or a girl. You should try not to let it get to you. He's already hurt you enough, you don't deserve to suffer through the morning of loosing this guy. You're probably so much better than him. Think of this in a bump in the road towards finding your future husband, if you plan to get married. The pain of getting your heart broken will go away. It may seem hard now, but in a short time it will feel a lot better. I don't know what advice to give you. Don't let it get to you and don't let him know that you're hurt about it. Some people get off on that I guess. Feel better.
carlyh
Slave to angels passion
Hero said:For the hundreth time I must stick up for my gender again. ALL OF US ARE NOT LIKE THAT!!! There a lot of decent guys out there would never do that to a woman, I wouldn't and I'm sure a lot of the other guy sat Buffy-Boards wouldn't do that to a woman either. I know you're upset for whatever reason you have, but it's really stupid for you to say that all men are pigs because that means your saying that your dad is a pig and so is your future son if you have one.
Carlyh - I agree with everyone else on the board, there is definatly someone out there for you. It's just a matter of when and where you find him. You're probably a beautiful intellegent girl and some guy who deserves you will see that and ask you out. No one likes to get their heart broken, no matter if you're a guy or a girl. You should try not to let it get to you. He's already hurt you enough, you don't deserve to suffer through the morning of loosing this guy. You're probably so much better than him. Think of this in a bump in the road towards finding your future husband, if you plan to get married. The pain of getting your heart broken will go away. It may seem hard now, but in a short time it will feel a lot better. I don't know what advice to give you. Don't let it get to you and don't let him know that you're hurt about it. Some people get off on that I guess. Feel better.
good advice, yes i was thinking that maybe if i txted him again asking him why, but then he might get off on that, i think it just best to ignore him.
carlyh
Slave to angels passion
Hero said:Yeah, kinda like he wants you to be at his ever wim. Your best bet would be to ignore him and try not to let the situation bother you. Go party or something, LoL.
Hehe party, lol i have my sights on someone else now and he's no rebound skank lol i need fun
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rene
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elmo-ok its not the mans fault exactly you should not have slept with him on the first date he probably thinks your trashy now for doin that and you coulda gotten a STD and carlyh- i hope everything works out
carlyh
Slave to angels passion
Frenchy Faith
WMMWM *poke* :)
I'm soz for you carlyh, Akasha & elmo that really sounds sad to meet that kind of guy.
I know that all guys are not like that, like Hero said, but that's true that many men are using girls. Btw, there are bitches as well, & I'm not sure whether men or female are the worst, but since we're talking about men here.
That's really pissing to feel that you got used by a man, but I think that the thing with them is that you'd better not to hope to have a long relationship if you sleep with him at the first night. It's like it's clear that he just wants a one-night stand if he gets you to have sex at the first date.
Not sure whether it's right or not though, lol
I know that all guys are not like that, like Hero said, but that's true that many men are using girls. Btw, there are bitches as well, & I'm not sure whether men or female are the worst, but since we're talking about men here.
That's really pissing to feel that you got used by a man, but I think that the thing with them is that you'd better not to hope to have a long relationship if you sleep with him at the first night. It's like it's clear that he just wants a one-night stand if he gets you to have sex at the first date.
Not sure whether it's right or not though, lol
elmo
Anyone here speak Whale?!
rene said:elmo-ok its not the mans fault exactly you should not have slept with him on the first date he probably thinks your trashy now for doin that and you coulda gotten a STD and carlyh- i hope everything works out
I'm not blaming him... I did what I wanted at the time. We used a condom so there wasn't that much chance of me getting an STD. He's nice enough not to think I'm trashy, or tell anyone else I'm trashy. But my point is that I didn't blame him for using me although my friends said I should have.
*Lost Angel*
NYA! NYA!
uhhhh (shivers remembering) that hapend to me 2years ago (before I went out with my curent bf...before HS started) I went to a club with this guy Kade (He was my brothers best friend then) and he snuck me in (it was 16 and over and I was only 14) Well we had a great time and I loved dirty dancing with him and I felt very sexy and mature around him that I got caught in the moment and after the club we sat in his car and he asked me if I ever gave a guy a blow-job and I said no, so he asked me why I had my tounge pearced and I told him because my brother had it. So he just started kissing me and getting on my neck that (stupid me) he asked me to give him one and guess what...I DID (Egh!!) I felt so dirty and I hated my self for it. I told my brother and he beat the **** out of Kade and well there no longer friends....But he started spreading crap (he was a junior and I was in 8th grade) when I got to my school now there was a tab on me already and he told everyone he had sex with me and ****.....but now hes gone and graduated but people still ask me about having sex with him....it was bad I hate him now...as far as I know (from other people) he got a girl pregnant and hes in to drugs.
But all in all I felt dirty and used and I was only 14!!!
But all in all I felt dirty and used and I was only 14!!!
Niobe Kaftan
Potential
i have. it sucks but you got to realise if they do it they are the insecure ones. i feel sorry for them becuase they will never be able to let anyone in and when they finally realise what they've done it will be too late.
but you have a chance to more on you desever so much better. no one has the right to make you feel bad. so be damned with them they arnt good enough for you. you can do better!!!
but you have a chance to more on you desever so much better. no one has the right to make you feel bad. so be damned with them they arnt good enough for you. you can do better!!!