Guy Leaving

Captain Malcolm Reynolds

Captain Malcolm Reynolds

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Hey guys. My guy is leaving our school because the place he lives is kicking him out. He won't be going anymore to our school and I really don't know what to do about it. I love him but if he doesn't come back to the school like our clinicin is trying to do, I won't be able to keep up our relationship.:: broken I started to cry when I found out today and I don't know what to do about it. We love eachother :: inlove but... What should I do? I really can't do this. :: broken He told me that he was going to call everyday to see how i was but it's not the same as having him right there and being able to hold and kiss him.::crying2: ::crying::
 
Hey, you're thinking about this all wrong! I think you should give it a try!

Is he going to be far away from you? You could visit each other!
I had a long distance thing once and it wasn't what either of us wanted but we weren't in love! You guys are!

I know what it's like to need your boyfriend there and want to hold him or be held! But i'm sure you're stronger than you make out! I'm sure that if it's meant to be then it'll last!

If you give it a chance and it doesn't work out then tell him!

Good luck to ya! ::wave::
 
Well I live in suffern and he will be across the hudson river so it's not close enough to see eachother. My parents hate him besides.
 
You should give it more of a chance then you are giving it. Sure its upsetting that he is going away but if you love him like you say you do, you'll try your best to make it work. It will be hard to do the long distance thing, but its always worth a shot.
 
I am sorry to hear that you hurting and upset right now. Its obvious you cannot change the circumstances. Try to keep in touch as much as possible through the ways that you can. As elmo has stated, if it is meant to be then it will..be. Words can be such a powerful and effective tool in a relationship. If the two of you can keep the communication and heart going you will have a chance.

Surround yourself around those who you love where you are at and that will help you not to hurt so much when he is gone.
 
ohhhhhhhhh sorry.........I cant understand your situation, my boyfriend lives a 2 min walt to the boys building of our school dorms but I hope it will turn out ok......how far away is he going to be???🙁
 
Pretty far. I do love him so I will keep in touch so I won't forget him. He told me something today. People are never really gone untill you forget them. I really felt better after that. I will write more tomorrow.
 
if he got kicked out for criminal activity then i'd let him slide...easier said then done but the smart thing to do..even if your heart wants him

but if he got kicked out for ****ty reason...then find a place for him to stay...then get him to go back to school...not at your house though...your dad will go ballistic...maybe at one of his friends' houses...
 
Spikeluva-poor you,if you like him that much you should try and stay in touch as much as youcan,try and make your parents like him,try telling them all the good stuff about him
 
well he got kicked out becasue they have no room for him. My parents wouldn't listen even if i told them all the good stuff about him becasue they say he is mental. some of my friends at school already told him that he could stay at thier houses but i don't know what he wants to do. I am going to try to stay in touch as much as possible as soon as he calls me and tells me his new number. After that I will call him like everyday and tell him how much i love him. I love him always have and always will. We were together 2 days but before that we were on and off for a while.
 
yeah....as long as he treats you well and is a good man...than help him out by finding a place for him to stay...with the understanding that he'll continue his schooling...cause if he doesn't continue going to school...than he's going down a path of hella hardship..
 
Originally posted by Soulgasm
yeah....as long as he treats you well and is a good man...than help him out by finding a place for him to stay...with the understanding that he'll continue his schooling...cause if he doesn't continue going to school...than he's going down a path of hella hardship..
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you have a really good point there!

Spikeluva... i'm sorry to hear that you won't be able to see him! That will make things a lot harder! But if he treats you good and he makes you feel better (which he sounds like he does) then it's worth it! You could do what soulgasm said and try and help him find a place to stay! Then he can go to your school and everyone will be happy! Well... except your parents it seems... that doesn't really make things very easy!
 
yeah their a problem in our relationship. He does make me feel good about myself. He has a good heart for someone who was abused as a kid. His father abused him and he has had a hard life. In and out of foster homes and group homes since he was 5. He's 19 now. I will ask around and see if anyone will let him live with them. I think my ex will do it. His parents were ready and willing to adopt my bf. lol. I really hope they take him in because then he could ride the bus with my ex and end up at our school.
 
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