Hard to say goodbye to the one you love!!

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I wrote in Spikeluva's thread about breaking up and writing it made me think about it more, so all day durring classes I was sad.
The school year is half done and in a few months two of the most important people in my life are graduating. My boyfriend and my brother. My boyfriend is going to a private school in Europe and my brother is going to Ming Chuan Univerity in Taiwan and there leving me. ::crying2:
Im now thinking about how I have to let go of my boyfriend and now Im not sure if I can. We havent talked aobut it much and we try not to think about it much. But its hitting me hard. Im scared I will lose contact with him, or even see him again. Im moving to Taiwan after High School and its gonna be hard to see him and talk to him.
I love him and being with him is the best thing in the world, but its gonna be hard.
What should I do ir say?? Expecialy when the time comes?
 
I think you should talk to him...Tell him that you don't want to loose him, but its bound to happen...I know for a fact that long distance relationships rarely work...But maybe i'm wrong....Maybe it could work.But if i were you i'd say something like "I love you more then anything...But you going to europe and me not just wont work...And i dont wanna keep you here if you don't want.Do you get what i'm saying?"And about your brother, he is leaving, but he'll always be your brother!(thats a good thing!)

But i can be extremley mental so...
 
im gonna have to but im scared to. Nick is everything to me. and so is Hunter (my brother) Its gonna be lonley, but Hunt is always there...I can visit him....but Nick is another story....But he is sooooo exited to go to europe and I dont want to try and stop him. But I dont ever want what we have to end.....and im afraid now 🙁 I want to be a senior and I want to go with him!
 
Well. that pretty much sucks....is this the same guys who said...well I cant remember how to say it but I think it was 'I love you' or 'I see you' or 'I miss you' in Chinese?

anyway, maybe send messages, call, hotmail, msn, whatever means of communication you can manage? maybe take an oath not to....'get with' someone else.

as for what to say?

dont say anything. If you stay in contact, your still in a way 'together'. don't think of it as goodbye, think of it as a vacation or something like that.

now, not to be rude, but you might try and remember that some things arn't meant to be.

then again. some things are.
 
no lol that guy was in 7th grade a few years back... um no this is nick my bf of 1 and a half years....ever since homecomming of my freshman year.

other then that zand you are right!!
 
Sure...Zander gets a "You are so right" and i get...what?Lol kidding...Zanders advise was better...Don't say anything...That might make him want to skip out on what ever it is he wants..Then neather of yall would be happy...And stay in contact..
 
"So this is where I say goodbye
This is where my story ends
And if there's one thing I've learned from life
It's that it gets you in the end
So goodbye my friend
Goodbye
So goodbye my friend
Goodbye"

Goodbye, by Stabbing Westward
 
It all depends on what the both of you are prepared to do. I mean if you try the long distance kick then you have to realize that one day one of you may end it to move on. Now, that could be LESS painfull in a way because then you have been apart for awhile and have eased into life without one another there...but again, it all depends on you. Definately tell him how you feel and discuss where you both are in the relationship and what you both can handle. The way I see it you have 3 options and it's just a matter of deciding which road would lead to the lesser of the evils...
1. Break it off and say good buy and let the pain pass with time
2. Stay friends and keep writing and see where things end up down the road
3. Try the long distance relationship and hope for the best
 
why?
Im not moving till I graduate (2 more years), See my grandparents are well known there and they can get me in to a good college (no mater what) since my grades are well BAD!!! My brother is going there when he graduates this year and Im coming later. I want to get in to entertamet there and it wont be as hard there then it would here, I have a good chance since my grandpa was an actor/model when he was in his 20-30s (about 30-40 years ago lol) and was pretty big in Hong Kong. Thats what Im gonna try to do, and Im gonna stay....sooo yeah.
 
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