Have you ever been hit by anyone?

Well, ana8-Just remember that the sooner you talk to someone, the more support you have when you're ready to take action. NOONE deserves to be hit-it's not a matter of being stupid. It's usually a matter of trusting someone that doesn't deserve it...and there is no way of knowing that in advance.
 
No...I haven't ever been...and I'm thankful for it...I'm truely soory for anyone who has to go through this or something like it...and ana8...there's so many people who would be willing to listen to you here...all you have to do is start talking to someone, sometimes the best way is to talk to someone instead of bottling it all up...
 
Whoa...to all of you out there that have had such experiences, I totally admire how all of you have dealt with it and come or are coming through. I can't really imagine how to deal with something like that. You all are truly admirable and strong individuals.

I have never been physically abused by anyone nor verbally abused. The only horrible I can think of is that my ex (of five years) bit me on the cheek once and left a bruise. I don't think it was right but I don't think it was physical abuse.
 
I have to give my respect to all of you that have gone through these ordeals. With the exception of some fights at school I haven't been involved in the situations. I respect all of you so much. Please if any of you need anything pm me.
 
I havnt been,so I count myself lucky,apart from fights at school with people that I used to trust and people that I didnt trust.I feel sorry for anyone who has had to go through something like this,and I respect you all for being so strong,and ana,if you need anyone to talk to,you know where I am 🙂
 
Hit by relative- My dad once for being a pain while on a road trip and not puting on my seat belt!
By my brother- Like all the males in my family--- he hits girls! Hhe thinks the whole 'never hit a girl' thing is shiz!! But he hardly has to! But i gen an ocational back hand here and there. My mom doesnt hit me much only when I make her mad!

By a friend-- I slapped my friend once for cauzing my life to have hell in it (expecialy my relationship with my bf) She hit me soooooo hard back my lip was bleading and I had a big bruze on the corner of my lip! My brother got her back!!

By my partner-- I was backhanded by one of my ex-bf's cuz I refused to have 'fun' with him (this was in 8th grade) then my friend (that slapped me) took him away from me and when I slapped her he came after me and hit me again (hes japanese and my brothers girlfriend says all japanese boys she knows hit girls) My brother beat the crap put of him and the girl!
 
Man...kudos to all you superbly strong people out there. For those of you still going through that stuff...I feel for you. I can't even begin to imagine what it must be like.

The only kind of "abuse" I've experienced is the occasional fight back in my younger days. This chick called my name out on the playground in 2nd grade, so I turned around. Next thing I know, this huge log of a branch is hurtling at my face. Caught me just to the right of my eye. I had blood coming down my face, but that didn't hinder me from running her down. I was groped at a club once, which I consider just as bad, not to mention gross and disrespectful, as a guy hitting you, so I turned around and decked the jerk.
 
Rarely I got into a lil spat with my sister or bro (which for lil kids, they hit hard 🙁) but really hit? Nopes...Like Cordelia, my mom yelling at me is far more than enough. She's a very sweet person, I just really don't ever want to be on her bad side. Thats all...and its lot more fun being spoiled than getting one of those looks. Dun like them.
but its not your fault. tis an important thing to remember, and there really isn't any that would make someone deserve to be hit.
I quite agree with what everyone else has said. Suberbly strong people round these parts. And they're wicked cool too. 😀 I can't begin to imagine what it's like, and I hope no one has to go through it again.
and taking up Jacklyn's, elmo's or anyone else's offer to talk can't hurt. I'm a good listener, but I can't do the advice thing. but if you or anyone else wants, I'm always willing to talk about just bout everything.
and its not much help, but sometimes I make people grin, which...but...talk to someone, its amazing the wonders it does for you. even if its just weird thoughts, it helps to at least write it out, sometimes all ya need is a sounding board, sometimes just someone who will listen and won't judge.
but....quite admire everyone's thats gone through this sorta stuff, and proud to know you. can't imagine it being any shade of easy. I was already all impressed with how cool and nice and good you guys were, but...this...makes you more special, cuz you've gone through something like that, and come out this strong, and..you're the way you are. which...not everyone can do what you guys do and have done.
I'm not very good at this stuff (more like i suck at it) but...you guys are great. and smart, so...should listen to their advice. and take them up on their offers, at the worst, it can't hurt. and if that's the worst...
 
xtrustno1x said:
Man...kudos to all you superbly strong people out there. For those of you still going through that stuff...I feel for you. I can't even begin to imagine what it must be like.

The only kind of "abuse" I've experienced is the occasional fight back in my younger days. This chick called my name out on the playground in 2nd grade, so I turned around. Next thing I know, this huge log of a branch is hurtling at my face. Caught me just to the right of my eye. I had blood coming down my face, but that didn't hinder me from running her down. I was groped at a club once, which I consider just as bad, not to mention gross and disrespectful, as a guy hitting you, so I turned around and decked the jerk.
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Oh my! That's terrible. I would've been on the floor after having something like that hurtled at me. There would be no question of me decking her. But my friends wouldn't have had a problem. And you're right... no man has the right to touch you if you don't give them permission. I would've done the same. My sister had exactly the same thing happen to her... and she decked the guy too. A guy grabbed my ass in a club when I was walking past. His mistake was that my bf was walking behind me. He grabbed the guy and said "Keep your hands of my woman. Do that again and I'll give you a kick in!". I felt so special... LoL.
 
That's soo sweet elmo..You're a really lucky girl to have such a wonderful boyfriend..I envy you...
 
I know I'm lucky! I wonder sometimes whether he thinks he's lucky. But I'm just thankful for having him around. Remember Ana8... good things come to those who wait. And God knows I've waited long enough for him to come along and save me. LoL. 😀 Believe me... life is not all about having bad luck. You've had your bad times... it'll only be a matter of time before you welcome in the good times.

*hugs*
 
elmo said:
😀 Believe me... life is not all about having bad luck. You've had your bad times... it'll only be a matter of time before you welcome in the good times.
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She is so wise, listen to that, that's just so true. Hard to believe sometimes but still true!!!
 
i have never been hit by anyone, like right in the face or so... once i was pushed, and another time i was throughn around and into the ground(that sound a bit wierd, and the whole situation was wierd, this kidd grabed my watergun and he sorta draged me around and then he sorta threw me down in to the ground... *confusing my self*) so no i've never been hit! luckely!!! but a person very close to me had a very abusiv person in her family.... and i really afdmire how that person has dealed with that.. and my dad was hit and shot after by his father(who we don't talk to cause he's a as swhole!!!)

yeah, there sertainly are some VERY strong people in the BB!! i really admire how you have survived that... (for exs; elmo and jacklyn...)
 
As a hockey player and a guy who used to have a short fuse (and still does sometimes) I've probably been in more scraps than I care to think about right now. The only time Mrs. D hit me, we were just play-sparring and she was showing me a new Karate technique. I moved the wrong way, and she cracked a rib...not on purpose, or I mighta had a caved in chest...It was kinda funny, too, and I got lotsa good smoochies... ::love:: .

All you strong ladies know how I feel about this issue...y'all rock! No touchie unless the OK is given...one hit should be the last one...no one has the right, and it's not your fault!
 
I meant to ask you KD... why have you got a sad face in your sig?

ok... back on topic... Mrs D must have quite a punch to do that much damage... lol. I wouldn't be able to get a punch in never mind crack any of Mike's ribs. Well... it's good you got lots a smoochies... they make up for a lot! 😀
 
elmo said:
I meant to ask you KD... why have you got a sad face in your sig?

ok... back on topic... Mrs D must have quite a punch to do that much damage... lol. I wouldn't be able to get a punch in never mind crack any of Mike's ribs. Well... it's good you got lots a smoochies... they make up for a lot! 😀
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My sad face is for my Calgary Flames, who gave it a valiant effort, but lost out to Tampa Bay in the Stanley Cup finals (it's a Canadian hockey thing...for more info, go to the All-Canadian thread in Caritas).

And Mrs. D was very apologetic...and promised never to whack me in anger, lest she kill me...😉
 
Wow i never realised so many of us on here had so much in common! most of you know about my problems i have had..i was sexually abused and beaten by my step brother when i was six years old for like 2 years...got beaten up by four of my so called best friends when i was at school, it was so bad i was told i could never have children cus they kicked me in the stomach..and the last one was my ex b/f who as most of you know actually cut my face up cus he didnt want me modelling anymore, after i eventually split up with him he threatened to get me killed!...but that was now 6 months ago and i have not heard from or seen him for 5 months. Luckily im still modelling and i met someone else and have been with him for 2 months now, and although its still early days i know he would never hurt me..i trust him soo much which is hard for me to do! i have never met anyone like him, he is actually one of the good guy's..but anyway before i start rambling on about how great he is i will shut up 😀

Oh and ana, you have my number now if you need someone to talk to..and i wont regret giving you my number.. lol
 
As "taboo" as it is to agree with previous posters around here (I hope Faldor isn't watching.... 😛 ), I DO concur with what a few of you said.....the fortitude exhibited by so many of you is remarkable.

In my stint as member here on the BB, I have observed that, despite a less than ideal home life, or whatever other difficulties a lot of you experience on a day to day basis....you all possess an amazing strength, a will to rise above your situation and, ultimately, keep your mind and soul in the right place.
It is heartening to behold. Something to be most admired.

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And to answer the question posed at the top of this thread.....yes, I have been hit, mostly when I was a child. It was not parental or familial abuse, or anything of the sort....no.....it was at school. I was constantly the target of bullies, and hit often. I won't go into it anymore here....as that is a story for another thread.
 
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