And once more, compare this to what Angel did to Caleb in Season 7, and you see a complete contradiction. Yes, he slugged Caleb, but he didn't "beat the crap" out of him, even though Caleb's intent was to kill Buffy. He stood back and let her fight her own battles.
There is a major difference between Angel walking into a situation where Buffy is slaying, which is her birthright, standing back from the fight, per her request, and Angel walking into that bathroom and seeing Spike pinning Buffy to the ground and trying to tear her clothes off while Buffy is begging him to stop. No one short of Angelus would walk into that room and do nothing. Sheer instinct dictates that Angel react to that situation.
Either Angel accepts the fact that Buffy is a big girl now, perfectly capable of fighting her own battles, and neither wants, nor needs, his help in doing so, or he sees her as the helpless damsel in distress which we all know absolutely that she is not. It can't be both ways.
So Buffy can never need help ever in her life? Is she weak or being taken advantage of if ever she needs support? Lets be real here, the hypotetical situation we are discussing here is Angel walking in on Spike trying to rape Buffy. There is no time for a Q&A in this situation. You see someone being attacked in the manner which Buffy was being attacked, you step in. Simple as. It is absolutely ludicrous to suggest that
Angel is the wrong one in this scenario.
Angel knows that Buffy can beat the crap out of him whenever she wants to, he believes that he can do the same to Spike, therefore he would have no doubt that Buffy would have no problem believing that Spike would present no problem for her.
In that scene Buffy was not the slayer being attacked by a vampire, she was a woman being sexually assaulted. Her reactions were human, not supernatural. She was terrified. She was traumatised. If it was just the slayer being attacked Spike would have been kicked across the room a Hell of a lot sooner than he was.
This whole scenario is not about Angel riding in to save the helpless girl, it is about someone seeing something wrong happening and reacting to it.
That's what she would want.
How could you possibly know that?
But time and again, we have seen that Buffy does not like or need Angel, or anyone else, meddling in her life uninvited, and I see nothing to indicate that this situation would be any different.
Do you honestly think that in the middle of that situation, what Buffy would have been worried about is that someone had to help her out? The only thing we know that Buffy did not want in that bathroom was Spike forcing himself on her. She is emphatic about
that.
We aren't talking here about a normal ex boyfriend interrupting the latest lover's attempted assault on a normal ex cheerleader, we're talking about the equivalent of superheroes. Does anyone honestly think that Wonder Woman would either need, desire, or appreciate Superman's help in handling the Red Dragon?
Buffy is a person. She was under attack in the most personal and invasive of ways. I can't imagine there was anyone's help she wouldn't have accepted in that moment.
Just do me a favour, imagine it was Angel who was trying to rape Buffy. Who had her pinned to the floor while she cried and begged him to stop. Now imagine Spike walks in; what do you think he would do? What do you think he should do? I know you and if you say you would want him to not intervene you are lying through your teeth.
which was the entire reason that this episode was written in the first place.
Which is appalling on so many levels.
In terms of consequences, since it's clear that there was no intent present, then add to that the fact that there was no rape, I'm fairly certain that this would not so much as come to court in the US. But even when there is rape, if there is no actual intent, (which I and many others believe was the case here), the consequences are very different. Just wanted to point that out.
I mean absolutely no disrespect to you, or anyone else here on this board, but quite frankly that says more about the state of US judicial system than it does about what Spike nearly did in that bathroom. If Buffy hadn't stopped him he would have forced sexual intercourse on her and it would have been rape. The fact that she stopped him makes it attempted rape. Consent can be taken away at any point during intercourse. The fact that Spike ignored Buffy's dissent and then protestations, well there is your intent. Buffy couldn't have been more clear about it. She wasn't consenting, she protested vigorously and he continued to initiate a sexual act against her will.
Well, when Buffy beat Spike nearly to death in an alley and didn't so much as make sure he could get home before sunlight, the issue was clearly settled without the involvement of another, (or perhaps was never settled, but in any case, it was between them). That is at the very least a parallel to the bathroom scene, and arguably much worse. Do you think a third party should have been involved? Personally I'd have liked to see a conversation about it, but I think there was no need for anyone else to know/contribute anything.
There is a stigma with rape and sexual assault in society. Because of this over 60% of all sexual assaults go unreported. There is a culture of silence and I believe this is part of that. Why should other people know about it? To support the victim/survivor. To help them in any capacity they can. Maybe to ensure the attacker doesn't get away with it? All of the above?
Yes but remember that no one realized that as much as Spike. It completely devastated him that he could have come so close to hurting her, and he changed his life around as a result. While it'd be completely reasonable for Angel to point out the "wrongness" of his deed, I hardly think it would be necessary.
But how is Angel to know that? We're talking about a conversation happening within minutes (possibly hours) of the attack. The OP asked what Angel would do, this is what I believe he would do. He would know nothing of Spike's (apparent) good deeds. All he would see is a ruthless, soulless vampire attacking people. To be honest, I find it almost negligent of Angel to not stake Spike, given what he would have known at the time. Nobody knew Spike was getting a soul until we saw it.