help with a guy

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hi, i need help. there is a guy at college i really, really like. i dont think he knows am into guys and girls, but i think he might. i havent spoken to him yet but i really, really like him.
 
::huh:: That's nice dear......Did you have a question or am missing something??😉
 
Well i say go for it and ask him out or something if you really like him.....I mean the worst he can do is turn you down but at least you can be happy you tried...
 
Yeah,Id say the same,he'll never know how you feel if you dont tell him so take a chance 🙂
 
ask him if he's gay...if he is...then go for it...but if he isn't...then say one of your gurl friends said he looked gay and you were just asking...lol
 
what would you expect from the gasm....i'm an expert in sexual preferance reconaissance...lol..i'm a gay scout...
 
i think you should do what SG said 😉 or you could just ask him out... you aint got nothing too lose really... the worse thing kan be a bit of a heart brun, but that'll pas ... good luck btw!!
 
I'm not really 'gay' gay. I mean I can find other men 'Hot' but I don't like them anymore then that. Anyway, do what I do Lee. Get to know the guy. Its really weird when you ask someone out if they don't know you. Plus alot of other guys don't like being called gay so Soulgasms idea may not work. (depending on the guy). After spending a little time with him or talking to him you should find out if he likes you (or any other guys for that matter). If so, pop the question. If not.... keep on looking?

oh yeah and I normally get to know the 'girl'. Just so theres no confusion.....
 
Yep Yep Gasm said it....Im gonna use that next time too lol (if there is a next time, my boyfriend is a keeper) Bu I will remember that ^_^

But what worked for me is acidentaly clutzing out and falling on him on the stairs lol. LOL but do get to know him, and if your friends know him thats always a pluss to get introduced!
 
lol my last boyfriend I got from being a clutz to Lost Angel, those are always the best ones 😉

Yeah I'd definatly go with some of the advice above. Get to know him a little if you haven't talked to him yet its hard to tell if you really like him. I'd save the asking him if he's gay for after you've talked to him a little bit, you might end up making him feel insulted if you just walk up to him and thats the first thing from your mouth.
 
I agreree with Zander. Feel out the situation first. Get to know him and use your best judgment before you say anything to him. And hey, don't seem to eager. It might scare him away. I know it scares me away. Makes me think I'm gonna end up in a ditch! 😛
 
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