How do I deal with this one?

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Ok, well, I like to help people. Although I'm only 15, I like helping people, even if it means sticking my head where it shouldn't be and sticking my ass on the line for people. I've helped a woman get her and her child away from an abusive husband. Helped a girl from her family that wanted to force her into a cult. Helped deliver food to poor people on thanksgiving and christmas. If I see people in the hallways getting picked on, I stick up for them. I'm our schools "class protector".

Well, my half sister (Jessica) has been dating someone for over a year now. Well, on thursday they broke up. He's a mental case. He's been in and out of the mental hospital 4 times for suicide attempts. She wanted to break up with him in May, but was afraid of what he would do. ANyway, they broke up on thursday, and he refused to let her go. He stalks her, he goes everywhere she is, he threatens her friends, he calls her ever 5 minutes. Well, today she left school crying. I've never seen her cry in the 15 years I've known her. (we're freshmen by the way). After talking to a friend who was there, I heard what happened. She was walking in the hallway and that he grabbed her to kiss her and she said "no" and tried to walk away. And he grabbed her and threw her up against a locker and forced her to make out with him and he copped feels and what not.

Not sure how to deal with this one, seeing how it has to do with family. Anyone got any suggestions?
 
Dial 991.

Seriously, call the cop, have him locked him, he's a danger to society and to himself, he should be taken into a mental institution right away. It's for his own good.
 
Allycat is right, get your half sister to press charges. Just get this guy behind bars so that he won't harm anyone else. Even if your half sister doesn't want to press charges, then call the cops yourself.
 
I agree. I don't want to scare you, but I've seen things like this before. These things lead from molestation to rape to murder. You have to get your sister out of this situation before it gets worse. The police HAVE to get involved.
 
I don't know what she's doing, but I know some people were notified. She went home crying cuz she was upset, so teachers know. And... our grandparents know. I don't know if she told our parents, but I don't wanna be the ones to tell them. So, I hope she does soon.
 
If she doesn't say sth to your parents soon I think you'll have to do it..It's a hard situation, but something has to be done...
 
call some police officers to beat his ass...stalking is a crime in this state..what that dude did was sexual harassment...

lol...if i seen anybody forcing themselves like that to my family...i would've redded out...you must've had amazing restraint man...cheers...
 
Parker i have to agree! cos your sis needs help, so does this guy! he needs some therapy! really, and alot of it! you should talk to your sis.. i don't know how good you comunicate, but you should just sit down with her and tell her that for his and her own good, she should go to the police and get him back into the hopital NOW before he comits a bad crime, a crime far worse then sexualharrasment, well crimes that jacklyn talked off! (prison won't help this guy!!! cos if he's a mental case... well...)

if your sis won't go to the police, then you should, or you should tel smeone who can help you with this! like a teacher, or your parents! Parents are her to help you and to take care of you.. so you should go and get their help if your sis won't!
 
call for help buddy!!! police is the first place to go!!! Thats bad REAL bad!!! Tell his parents, tell the school principal...tell your parents.. Dont try to figure this on your own!! this is a sereous matter and it could turn worse if you dont get help from somone who could lock that kid away....
Or you could just move ^_^
 
Originally posted by Soulgasm
call some police officers to beat his ass...stalking is a crime in this state..what that dude did was sexual harassment...

lol...if i seen anybody forcing themselves like that to my family...i would've redded out...you must've had amazing restraint man...cheers...
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Violence is never the answer!

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But if something like this was pulled on my gals, violence would sure make me feel better!
 
even if you dont want to be the first to tell someone dont wait until she does, youll regret it forever if its too late when you finally tell someone

btw i think its great what you are willing to do for people!
 
Violence is never the answer!
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BULL! Allycat, I disagree. Kick the crap outta him! make a citizens arrest or soemthing. Knock his ass out, tie him up and bring him to the cops. If you cant do that (not strong enough or not enough guts), get some friends to help you, or Ya, get your butt down to the PD and get some help! If possible stay with your sister at most times.

sometimes all anyone needs is a good ass kicking.

Not sure how good my advice is, so you might wanna try the cops first, but if it happened to my sister I'd risk getting suspended or even expelled to make sure the guy knows not to do it again.
 
yeah, i think you should definetly tell someone, your parents...the police? tell us how it goes!
 
Yeah I think you should tell someone too. This is a very serious matter. Good luck with it and I hope all goes well.
 
Kick his butt all the way to mexico(or somewhere far away) he needs soemone to teach him a lesson and since im not there its gonna have to be you!(not the most girl like thing to say..i like fighting!Its a gift) thats your sister(well half one anyways) and if she isnt gonna stick up for herself, you should!I am sorry if im being weird but it bugs me massivley when a guy can't accept that someone has moved on....That they realize they are too good for them..Sorry if that was a lil harsh but your sis is way too good for that dumb ******....Okay i just had to get that out...The truth is if you kick his #$# then you are just as bad as him.....Not in the sexual harrasment way, but in the jerk-ness factor...So lets make the beating up a no go!Unless you want to!
 
Yep, truly, u should call cops or I donno if it's like here there, but if there r some center who r dealing with helping ppl who have those kind of probs, u should go there, they really can help.
 
Ok, first of all...if she is still having trouble with this guy...is it happening mainly in school? If he assulted her IN SCHOOL she needs to go to the office/ councelor and talk to them and file a complaint. The counselors can help not only set her on the right path but make everyone aware of what is going on. She also needs to file a report with the poliece department. That will make THEM aware and she can get some answers there as well...From there she can get him by the balls if you'll excuse the expression...she'll be fine. TELL YOUR PARENTS! They need to know. She shpuld have told them already! I know you have some kind of loyalty to her but what matters more? Her confidence or her safety? You can't be too sure with someone that desperate. I haven't been there PERSONALLY but I have seen it...and it isn't pretty... Now I could tell you what I would do aside from the advice already given but that might get me in trouble. You just need to push in this kind of situation...if this guy is as dangerous as he seems...you need to get her to inform as many people as possible! Then, please, find out what it is about you two that makes you seem to fall for nut bags! Then let me know because I have the same problem! LOL! 😉 Everything is going to be ok...just keep us informed...I'm glad you're such a great guy...😉
 
I'm going with the majority here.

Get the authorities involved, this guy is dangerous. Tell your parents, tell the head teacher. He needs help and right now. God only knows what could happen next if he tries again.

Hope it all gets sorted out ASAP 🙂
 
Originally posted by Parker Summers
Well, my half sister (Jessica) has been dating someone for over a year now. Well, on thursday they broke up. He's a mental case. He's been in and out of the mental hospital 4 times for suicide attempts. She wanted to break up with him in May, but was afraid of what he would do. ANyway, they broke up on thursday, and he refused to let her go. He stalks her, he goes everywhere she is, he threatens her friends, he calls her ever 5 minutes. Well, today she left school crying. I've never seen her cry in the 15 years I've known her. (we're freshmen by the way). After talking to a friend who was there, I heard what happened. She was walking in the hallway and that he grabbed her to kiss her and she said "no" and tried to walk away. And he grabbed her and threw her up against a locker and forced her to make out with him and he copped feels and what not.
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wow, that reminds me of what happened w/ my sister, only her boyfriend had began yelling at her when he called and she wasn't home, and she broke up with him, and a few days later(it was x-mas break) he came over to talk things over with her, and she told him no, I'm not getting back together with you and he hit her(right infront of my mom and dad) they ran out and chased him, told him he better leave her alone or he's going to call the cops, and he went home, my mom called his parents and told them what happened and his mom said "he only does what he sees at home" well, my mom drove my sis to school the next day, went to the principle and told him what happened and the principle escorted her to class for the next few weeks, but during lunch he shoved her up against the lockers and tried to hit her again when her present boyfriend beat him up, and we got the cops involved and he never came around again.......I mean, I would do what my mom did and let the principles know so someone's looking out for her, and if it comes down to it, get the cops involved.
 
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