How do I deal with this one?

lol...for all you guys who says to beat the dude up...don't you think parker would've done it already if he could've...the dude is probably bigger than him or a badass or something...
 
Ok, well, she doesn't wanna tell anyone because They are back together now! I was playing around with her today and I was pushing her playfully and he grabs my hand and goes "if you touch her again I'll break your arm". Now she doesn't talk to me anymore. People know, so, I don't know why anything hasn't happened yet.
 
Okay, i am truly shocked. She's back with him? Wasn't his previous behaviour adequate warning or what? And what he said to you is proof enough that he's dangerous. I'd still tell someone, someone has to keep a very close eye on this character, because leopards never change their spots, it won't be long before she does something to annoy him and it all kicks off again. Maybe she'll come to her senses before that happens.
 
KICK HIS ASS! Get the cops on him! Tie him up and force him sane!

Something bads gonna happen to your sis if she stays with him!

maybe try and drug his drinks? ...its easier then you think.
 
I don't know what her problem is! He knows that I'm the only one who can 'save' her, so now he doesn't leave her alone for 2 seconds. I can't get near her or anything. I'm gunna see what my grandparents are gunna do about it, cuz they seem to be the authority in the subject. She hates me enough as it is... but ::sigh:: I guess I'll just tell them to call the cops if they haven't already.
 
Yeah, keep us updated...I know you care for her and getting that P.O.S. away from her should not be so hard...what is she thinking? There are movie of the week's that deal with this stuff and where it leads...you should tie HER down and make her watch some...or seriously, talk to a cop and explain the situation and see if they can't show her. No one ever thinks it will happen to them and she needs to realize that she doesn't have a special pass as the exception to the rule...
 
South Plainfield, The Soap Opera, Episode 3

LoL. It's like a soap opera, I swear. Ok, so today. We were sitting down during lunch (Jessica M, Jessica H, Tina, Stephanie, Nick, and I) and we heard my sister yell "let go of me!" and we turned around and he wouldn't let her leave and then she got up and left. Then she came back and was all lovey dovey with him. Then when I tried to talk to her about it she ran away from me. I talked to Jessica M and she said that she is afraid of what he'll do to her, so that's why she 'lets him do stuff to her'.

PS: she's my half sister, but I'm older than her by 3 months! we're both 15.
 
I can't believe she went back to him.....that's just plain stupidity. She really should do something about it. I was once harassed by a guy in my school and I was like her, afraid to do anything because I figured it'd get worst or people would laugh in my face or what the guy would actually do if and when I told anyone, but when I finally told my friends, most of my friends were supportive and when I finally got up the guts to tell someone(other than my friends) about what was going on, I was an emotional wreck. She needs to do something, or else it'll probably ruin her in the long run, take it from someone who knows.
 
If it was a friend, I'd do the same thing. She just refuses to talk to me because I'm trying to help her. I don't know if she's told, who's she's told, or anything. I just want my sister back and for her to be ok again.
 
Do your parents know? because this needs to be sorted out right now!. Maybe this will make your sister even madder at you but she's not seeing sense at all. Her boyfriend is a psycho in the making... she needs to have that pointed out to her. He won't get better, she can't change him... the situation will go downhill steadily from now. The sooner she is out of that abusive situation and is made to see that it IS an abusive situation, the better. He can't be allowed to get away with this and her allowing him to behave like he is means that he is!.
 
Yeah, Parker, I think it's past the time for an intervention. Stop trying to talk to her. Just get the family in on it and start talking restraining order...this is just sick. She is going to end up raped, beaten or dead if this guy is what you say he is. I don't mean to sound harsh but someone needs to light a serious fire under this situation...either she is too scared or too sick to know to get away but I think it's time you pulled out all the big guns and brought EVERYONE into it...it needs to stop. For her sake. I mean she's so scared she lets him "do stuff" to her? What stuff? That is way beyond wrong and unhealthy...if this were my kid I'd go straight to the cops and do everything in my power to keep that psycho away from her. (Well, that's the right thing to do...not necessarily what I would do but I can't give THAT as advice...) Please help her. Even if you have to betray her confidence to do so. Wouldn't you rather have your sister around to yell at you then...well...not?
 
I dunno. I'm gunna get some help on it. I'm just not looking to loose my sister more than I already have. I dunno. I know her mother knows. That's the thing about being half siblings. We have to sets of parents. She lives with her mom and step dad, I live with our dad and my mom. I guess I'll tell our father, and leave the rest up to her mother.
 
Oh, I'm sorry sweetie, I know you're in a horrible position...it's really easy for us to sit here and go on about it since we're outside of it...do your best to get her help. That's really all you can do. I really REALLY hope she gets through this safe...I'll keep my fingers crossed for ya! Keep us updated! GOOD LUCK! You're a great brother! 🙂
 
I don't know what to do anymore. We've all given up. Since I told and got people envolved, nothing has happened. If anything, she's gotten worse. We were eating during lunch today and we hear her screaming "GET AWAY FROM ME!" and when we turned around she was bleeding. Turns out he tried to cut his wrists with a knife, and she tried to get the knife, and she cut her hand somehow... maybe he did it...? I don't know. She... Like... URGH! I don't even know how to explain it. She's so afraid of him, that she has herself in a wacked mental state and is afraid to not be around him. Like, she HAS to be around him all the time even though they are broke up. Today I told her that "you can tell me anything, cuz i care what happens to you" and she told me to "shut up and stop saying that!" and then she ran off. she's never been this stupid, she's walking into danger and the relationship is not healthy at all. No matter if she tells him no, or if he does something to her, or if he does something to himself, or if he does something to me, she always gets back with him. I guess it's not my descission, I just wish I could help her...
 
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