How far would you go for the person you love?

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If you were between the age of 15 to 18 and in a relationship with somone you love sooooo much. But now they want to do more than kiss and make out and play pet games....the want to take it to the last level, and you made a promice to your self that you would wait till the right person....but your not sure if he/she is?
What would every one do. Take it to the final level or wait??
 
true lol Im not sure though ( i guess you can tell by now that it's me that im talking about) My boyfriend wants us to go all the way but in not sure if im ready (hes waited a whole year and he never said anything) I mean hes not presuring me.....he barely mentiond it but it made me think...... This is the last year I spend with him before he goes to college in europe and i wont see him exept on holydays. And pluss i still have 2 years left of High School and Im going to UCLA and......I dont know.....how old were some of you when u lost it??? (mods Im not trying to sound inapropriate)
 
I'd screw the whole waiting thing, but that's me, very few morals :d ... I recommend you to wait, if he really loves you, he'll understand, won't he ... and maybe when he comes back on holiday from Europe, maybe you missed him soo much then, that you're certain he is the right person.
 
lol...good advice allykat...lol...

this is what i know...he wants that ass LA...he may be nice about it...but ultimately...he wants it... i know...its what drives us...you know me LA...i never lie...or hold anything back

so what do you do?...you have two choices...one...give him the nani...you risk getting pregged...or getting some nasty STD....and risk being known as a dirty gurl for giving it up

second...you tell him that you aren't ready...and you steadfastly hold to it...no matter what...even if he threatens to leave you....don't give in...cause if you give in...he knows he has the power in the relationship and you'll be his bitch...

let me tell you this right now...you are in the crossroads of your life path....choose with your mind....not with your heart...cause this relationship will end when he goes away to college...you may think that he will stay loyal...and you won't feel attracted to anyone else...but there is major nani in college...and you will grow and feel attracted to other people...there is NO WAY THIS WILL LAST...lol...pretty heavy...but...i hope you choose wisely...
 
one...give him the nani...you risk getting pregged...or getting some nasty STD
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One word: condom.

let me tell you this right now...you are in the crossroads of your life path....choose with your mind....not with your heart...cause this relationship will end when he goes away to college...you may think that he will stay loyal...and you won't feel attracted to anyone else...but there is major nani in college...and you will grow and feel attracted to other people...there is NO WAY THIS WILL LAST...lol...pretty heavy...but...i hope you choose wisely...
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Very true. On that point, I want to add, you might aswell dump him, instead of waiting 'till he cheated on him. But that's up to you offcourse!
 
Originally posted by Angels baby101
If he were really the one he'd wait...... so i'd wait unless i really thought it right...
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Angel's baby is right! I'd wait! If he loves you as much as you love him then he'll be willing to wait as well! You will know when you're ready! noone else! Don't be pressured into it cos i was and i regretted it cos it wasn't the right guy!
 
No, but they do 99.99999999999% ... have you ever seen how a condom factory works? Every single one is tested three times, and if in a shipment one is wrong, the others in that shipment are destroyed aswell ... I think you can rely on them.
 
My sister-in-law was using condoms as well as the pill. We are expecting the little bundle of joy November 16th!

Oh and she is a nurse, so she was using it properly. Nothing is 100%.

And I have to agree, if you are not comfortable, wait. If he is worth is, he will wait for you. If he isn't, you've found out now and saved yourself alot of trouble and heartache later on.
 
*Lost Angel*definitely wait!!!!Don't make sth that you're gonna regret.Wait 1,2,3.... years to check if you feel you need to.
But it's of course your private decision....
 
if you really truly love him i would go for it.. but then if youre even guessing about going for it its bcos that you might not love him as much as you think you do, bcos believe me when the opportunity comes and youre with the man you love... you just cant help urself 😉
 
Originally posted by Angels baby101
If he were really the one he'd wait...... so i'd wait unless i really thought it right...
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My sentiments exactly! My husband and I were together for 3 years going on 4 when I finally decided that it was the right time for us and he waited patiently until I told him it was time....
 
Think about what everyone has already told you. If YOU feel like you would like to share something so intimate and sacred with him even if you are very unlikely to end up together then you should.

Personally I don't think it is worth it. Sex/making luv (however you refer to it) is the MOST special gift you have to offer to somebody else, save your heart of course. It is a way of saying that "I love you and you are special, I would like to share my whole self with you-there is nobody else THIS special." I regret nothing that I have done in my life, BUT I do sometimes wish that my future husband could be the first person to have received that gift from me.

If you find yourself feeling this way and have any reservations, I will advise you to wait until you are absolutely sure. Look inside yourself and you will find what you are in search of.
 
WOW THANX U GUYS ^_^

I want to wait but Im note sure what im giving up, he gave his away his freshman year and understands how i feel now that I want to wait and I told him today that I was thinking about it and I haven come to a desision. All my friends say I should cuz weve been together for so long but his best friend tells me not to cuz he and his girlfrend broke up a week after and it was a BIG mess...but he also said he changed and he said that he always tells him he loves me and that he wishes his first time was with me.....so I dont know what to say or do now.
My cousin got pregnant not to long ago and shes only 15 and she said it isnt worth it in many ways....
My mom put me on the pills about a week after she found out my cousin was pregnant and she said I can as long as were both protected.....but I dont want our releationship to end, Im just scared. But his first relationship he only dated her for 3 months and had sex with her......but we have been together for a year and one month.......sooooo I dont know, I need to think this out a bit more!!
 
lol...allycat....you a fool if you think wearing a condom is foolproof....condoms can easily bust while intercourse...

LA....lol...i have a feeling your going to give in....
 
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