Angel had been almost as irrelevant on BtVS for four years, why was he there then? 🙂
No, he wasn't. He was back a few times in season 4 not to mention Buffy's visits to LA and came to Buffy's side in season 5 followed by her running away from her new life and meeting him after her ressurection. His influence was a lot heavier on the title character than Cordelia's. The non-closure of their relationship didn't make him irrelevent, his name even popping up numerous times since he left and not just from Buffy. I couldn't imagine the show ending without a cameo from Angel, something's gotta bookend the series a little.
Joss being too scared to pick one ship, yet trying desperately to give crumbs to both camps is what I think was clear pandering.
Maybe. I guess it depends if you want closure on it.
If anyone cares, personally I only want closure if it goes my way otherwise leave it open so I can close it myself which I think was the intention (I don't mind that so much, it's like a Archie-Betty-Veronica thing but it clearly alienates many.). Sure, you could say Joss was scared to pick and maybe he was but he's made controversial decisions before, especially concerning Willow. I can't blame him for trying to make everyone happy but remember, the verse was not over, just that one incarnation of it so there was more room to keep going with it. They knew whatever viewship from Buffy that wasn't watching AtS would tune in and they did.
Stringing along both major shipping groups is IMO worse than deciding to pander to the more vocal one, it's trying to satisfy everyone and usually ends up satisfying no one.
Ok, sure. Another way of looking at it is if you look at Buffy's speech about cookies then watch at the end when Spike dies and you aren't an AtS viewer (or are, without knowing Spikey-wikey returns), it's pretty clear of what choice she'll probably make, lol.
Angel bringing a random amulet that saved the day was bad writing, pure and simple, not sure if we can call it pandering, though.
I'm not defending that the amulet stuff is good writing, but no one knew it would save the day and no one said it had to be used. I still don't think it's OOC for him to bring a possible antidote to the problem, though, regardless of the outcome. I would find it OOC for him to not come to her side to help, with or without a dues ex machina.