SlayerFae
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I'm so Anti-Briley it's not even funny. He was sweet sometimes in season 4, but over all, I never really liked the guy. I never felt like he accepted Buffy's independence and ability to take care of herself, and constantly kept trying to be "the man" and protect her or take the lead on dangerous situations. In season 5 he treated her HORRIDLY and didn't take into account what was going on in her life. He only seemed worried about himself and that she didn't pay attention to him.
I loved Bangel for a long time, though I ship Spuffy more. I really believe that Spike, out of all three of them was more Buffy's equal (and Joss has said the same thing on occasion), respected, acknowledged, and reinforced Buffy's own power and strengths, and always gave as good as he got with her. Now, in season 6, there was a lot of negativity between them (and that's putting things mildly), because he took the darker route in trying to keep her with him. He put her down and tried to make her believe she was just as cold and dark as he was and that was why she belonged with him. It was the wrong way to go about the situation, and I know that Spike understands that by season 7, but I think he also understood Buffy's depression during season 6 better than anyone.
I loved Bangel for a long time, though I ship Spuffy more. I really believe that Spike, out of all three of them was more Buffy's equal (and Joss has said the same thing on occasion), respected, acknowledged, and reinforced Buffy's own power and strengths, and always gave as good as he got with her. Now, in season 6, there was a lot of negativity between them (and that's putting things mildly), because he took the darker route in trying to keep her with him. He put her down and tried to make her believe she was just as cold and dark as he was and that was why she belonged with him. It was the wrong way to go about the situation, and I know that Spike understands that by season 7, but I think he also understood Buffy's depression during season 6 better than anyone.
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