And don't bring up "Seeing Red," because that was nothing more than a plot device used to make Spike decide to regain his soul and totally out of character for both Buffy and Spike.
I can't karma you again but YES this is how I have always felt.
When getting beat up like that is like 3rd base to him it can be called selfish.
Kean, I truly doubt Spike got his rocks of being beat to a bloody pulp by Buffy in 'Dead Things.' It was clear he felt she needed to get something off her chest, so he offered himself ('cause that's what he does, he's 'love's bitch', remember?) He never even
tried to fight back, or even run to protect himself in the interest of self-preservation. To imply that the only reason Spike didn't fight back in 'Dead Things' was because he assumed it would be poinltess due to his chip, is simply wrong, IMO. He allowed her to pummel him because it was what he felt
she needed, not because it got him off.
Also, when he realised he could hit back, he didn't hesitate.
True, but this was earlier, in 'Smashed.' At the time of 'Dead Things' he COULD have hurt her anf fought back. Yet, he DID NOT fight back. Just sayin.'
Firstly it couldn't have been more in character, your talking about the demon that killed 2 Slayers and loads others, tortured some with railroad spikes, attempted rape is within his character.
Well, true, but many of us believe he had done good deeds unselfishly and had somewhat changed, hence what he did in Seeing Red being OOC.
Secondly dismissing something as a plot device is such a load of crap argument, not to mention ridiculous.
We can also say The Mayor wasn't actually evil that was just a plot device to let buffy blow him up in the end.
You can't just choose to dismiss something as a plot device because you don't like it - although I see why you want to what with the beloved Spike attempting to rape Buffy not really fitting in so well with the "He loves her"
We disagree, and that's fine. We just won't ever see how the stunt he pulls in "Seeing Red" logically follows the way he'd previously been acting and the choices he had made earlier.
And yes, we are guilty as anyone in justifying the actions of the characters we love. Give us a break! lol, we're only human.