Yes, I know you people are probably bursting with joy right now because I'm posting something again. Alas, I'm just dropping in to hear some opinions from, hopefully, the more adult members on the board. After the conversation is over with, I'll disappear once again. Tho, I do have to say it's nice to see all of you are still posting.
Here's my problem...
I was talking to an African American friend of mine over the computer. We were talking about random topics and somehow we got onto the subject of religion. I said I don't believe in anything really to which he responded that he once believed in something, but not anymore. When I asked him to explain he gave me, "because during slavery, the white man imposed Christianity on the slaves and I refuse to believe in something that was forced upon me without question." I politely asked him to rephrase what he was saying because I feel when you group "the white man" into one category you're talking about EVERYONE. Personally, I love everyone until given a reason not too as does my family.
Well, he was not happy that I would deny such a statement and we got into a full blown arguement over the issue. He said that every American or European white person is to blame for slavery. I was very angry saying that my family didn't come to America until the late 1800s and had nothing to do with slavery. In the present, I have a few African family members so that made no sense to me what so ever.
I started debate whether or not it's right to group all people into one category. I used the example that in certain areas African people are usually associated with violence because of the few that ruin it for everyone else. Do I group all African people into a violent category? Of course not, because I know not everyone acts that way. I didn't understand how someone claiming to be persecuted by white people can group all people into one stereotype because isn't that in fact being prejudice?
I did try to look at the subject from his point of view. It's this new thing I'm doing a lot more as I grow up and enter college. I kind of realize what he means and I can best describe it with the example of the Holocaust. Millions of people knew exactly what was happening there, but did nothing to stop it. Everyone in the world during the time of slavery knew about it, but not many spoke up and said it was wrong until much later on. At the same time, it's not right to blame only white people when in reality it was the WORLD doing nothing about slavery. Although, back then world issues weren't easily talked about as they are today.
So, I want your opinion. Who do you think was right in the arguement. Was I being unwilling to accept the truth, or was he just being ignorant and trying to blame others for his 'problems.'
Here's my problem...
I was talking to an African American friend of mine over the computer. We were talking about random topics and somehow we got onto the subject of religion. I said I don't believe in anything really to which he responded that he once believed in something, but not anymore. When I asked him to explain he gave me, "because during slavery, the white man imposed Christianity on the slaves and I refuse to believe in something that was forced upon me without question." I politely asked him to rephrase what he was saying because I feel when you group "the white man" into one category you're talking about EVERYONE. Personally, I love everyone until given a reason not too as does my family.
Well, he was not happy that I would deny such a statement and we got into a full blown arguement over the issue. He said that every American or European white person is to blame for slavery. I was very angry saying that my family didn't come to America until the late 1800s and had nothing to do with slavery. In the present, I have a few African family members so that made no sense to me what so ever.
I started debate whether or not it's right to group all people into one category. I used the example that in certain areas African people are usually associated with violence because of the few that ruin it for everyone else. Do I group all African people into a violent category? Of course not, because I know not everyone acts that way. I didn't understand how someone claiming to be persecuted by white people can group all people into one stereotype because isn't that in fact being prejudice?
I did try to look at the subject from his point of view. It's this new thing I'm doing a lot more as I grow up and enter college. I kind of realize what he means and I can best describe it with the example of the Holocaust. Millions of people knew exactly what was happening there, but did nothing to stop it. Everyone in the world during the time of slavery knew about it, but not many spoke up and said it was wrong until much later on. At the same time, it's not right to blame only white people when in reality it was the WORLD doing nothing about slavery. Although, back then world issues weren't easily talked about as they are today.
So, I want your opinion. Who do you think was right in the arguement. Was I being unwilling to accept the truth, or was he just being ignorant and trying to blame others for his 'problems.'