Im lost, please help!

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*Lost Angel*

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I have a boyfrend of one year almost and i love him, but lately this boy josh (who is a year younger than me) has been giving me the happy shivers and I had two dreams about him and I dont now what is wrong with me but i might like him. But I LOVE my boyfriend. Help please Im lost.
Ive known Josh for 2 years (I went to the same middle school hes a grade younger but doesnt look it )but we were never close, i see him ok but we never talked, and i have 2 classes with him now and weve been talking and glancing at each other and i dont know what to do. This sucks.....tell me what to do.
Have u ever been in this situation?
Advice please, you guys are the only ones who know, so i cant ask my best friend since my boyfriend is her cousin and i dont want problems. And i cant tell my family because they love nick and they would get mad at me.....ahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Oh, well, you have a lot of thinking to do my friend. I was going to simply say follow your heart but you could lose your best friend if it leads you toward this guy Josh huh? Well, if you still love your boyfriend I say give that the chance it deserves. Try to make things work with him. If in the end you find yourself completely swaying the other way then you owe it to yourself and to your current boyfriend to be honest and not lead anybody on. Your family should'nt have anything to do with that and if you and your friend are that tight she should respect that you can't help what your heart feels and that this situation is really just between you and your boyfriend. She isn't in your relationship. Believe me. I know what you're going through. Been there! Me, I married the OTHER guy in the end. But I gave my previous relationship everything I could first. That way I knew I wouldn't have regrets when ending it. There is no easy solution. I think that if you look deep inside you have already made up your hearts mind what you really want.
 
I completely agree with Rayne. If you do love your boyfriend, you should stay with him. You said you like this Josh, thats fine, everyone has crushes.
You've got to ask yourself. Is what you have with your boyfriend true love? Do you love him? Does he love you?
You dont wanna dump your boyfriend and then find that this whole Josh thing is just a phase. Let me know how things turn out, if you need ANYTHING, please PM me!
 
lol...listen to rayne and the slayer...


but if you wanna listen to me...flip a coin...lol
 
Hahaha! Great advice Soulgasm! Hey, THAT works too *Lost Angel*! But yes, please let us know how it turns out!
 
ive made up my mind, my boyfriend is to much to loose, and I love him. And my best guy friend made me see that last night and I know now. I will only be friends with josh...THANKS you guys!!!
 
Yay! Good decision! RIGHT descision! But still, the flipping of a coin is useful! 😉
 
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