In search of ....

berkeled

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I think I have a problem I'm always in search of gifts (right now a arwen action figure)--- if i see it and know somebody ell like it I will pick it up --it's unending ...


Anybody else have this problem ? :dollar: :tongue_ti
 
Yeah! Gosh, that's such a big problem actually... the purse dislike it a lot, my bank account also. But I can't help doing that, it's like I always want to buy stuff for my friends or for my bro... I think it has something to do with the sub-conscious & lack of confidence also. You know, always buying thing because you alone aren't worthy enough for them to like you, so you need to give them a reason for liking you. So it's somehow horrible because you want unconsciously buy them. I hate this conception but I think that's somehow true for me, maybe not totally but yeah...
 
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Soulgasm
if your spirit in giving is simply give....rather than curry favor...then you have nothing to worry about...good point ff
I do the same, as soon as I find out there is something a friend or family member wants, I always go on the search for it.
 
I don't like gifts, I don't buy them a lot actually.
I think I have only once found that one perfect gift. It was for one of my friends who is a huge S.E. Hinton fan, she had all the books except the new one, and I bought it for her the day it came and it was really expensive but she almost started crying when she opened it.. She had no idea that I was gonna get it... But yea, that's the only time I've found a perfect gift. Other wise I don't like gifts...
 
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Soulgasm
that's hella sweet..
gifts...gotta be from the heart...true and true...

hmmm...i like buying gifts for no reason...but i hate buying gifts for an occasion...i don't know why...
 
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pyromaniac
I'm the same, when it comes round to birthdays etc. I havn't a clue what to get anybody
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