I'm the oddball here, I really like Suprise better.
Although Innocence was more emotionally tuned and smybolized maturity and growing up, I am just a sucker for the early Bangel romance. After Suprise, I just think the Bangel relationship went down hill. . . and stayed there. Now, down think I'm hating on Bangel, I'm not. I may be new to the whole BtVS scene, but I just love their pre-Innocence days. They are happy, and well, for lack of a better word, so innocent.
I thought that Angel giving her the claddagh ring was so romantic, and that ring symbolized a whole lot after Innocence.
Angel: My people, before I was changed, they exchanged this as a sign of devotion. It's a claddagh ring. The hands represent 'friendship.' The crown represents 'loyalty.' And the heart ... well, you know. Wear it with the heart pointing towards you. It means you belong to someone. [shows her his own claddagh] Like this.
I wonder if he ever changed the position of his ring. Or rather if Angelus did.
And I loved how the episode ended, with the whole consumating of their relationship and not really understanding why Angel shot up like that. I was still left with a happy feeling. . . that was until I watched the next episode.
Blowing up the Judge was awesome, and the Spangelus kiss was to die for. But all in all, Innocence was just too depressing for my taste. Now, I know enough about BtVS to know that it couldn't have ended well for Buffy and Angel. It has bee a recurring pattern in the seasons that I've seen, that characters don't stay happy or together for very long. And what kind of drama would it be if everyone was happy all the time? Not a very good one.
Innocence was so much more dark, and though it sent a powerful message in the most extreme way, "sleep with a man, he goes all evil on you", but I still think that Surprise was the better of the two.
Although I loved the way Innocence ended as well - in the car with Giles got me all teary, and one of the lasts lines.
Buffy: I got older.