Then she shouldn't be held responsible for any of the 'good' stuff she remembers either. We need a clear distinction.
No, she shouldn't- as far as I can tell Dawn didn't 'decide' anything- good or bad, so from that standpoint I don't hold her accountable for anything. The monks build her- so they 'chose' for her.
Until we know more about the mechanics of the spell this viewpoint makes perfect sense.
And it's for this exact reason that Dawn was so upset in S5. She was basically nothing.
To an extent but what upsets Dawn more is that everybody she loved/cared about had lied to her about who she was (the metaphor for adoption), it wasn't just 'I'm not real' it was 'everybody who I thought loved me doesn't really'.
That's why Buffy's declaration at the end of the episode matters so much to Dawn- she says 'you're my sister and I love you' (after taking a crowbar to the chest for her), that's what touches Dawn, those other issues, whether Dawn is 'real' or not are dealt with in later episode, 'Tough Love' I think.
If you take those memories away - bad or good - I think it takes away Dawn's person-hood. She's a person. Her memories - and everyone's - might be fake, but they are HER memories.
I'm talking specifically about Dawn's culpability for things she's done- that means moral choice, which she didn't have.
If we remove the link between moral choice and culpability then Spike and Angel are responsible for everything they did- with or without soul.
Morality doesn't work that way- even the law recognises that.
I do maintain however, that the Scoobies all had choices about how they
reacted to Dawn, that they
chose to love, or tolerate, or ignore her. Willow loves her, Giles tolerates her, Riley ignores her- presumably (until it becomes clearer) that was
their choice.
So in that sense Dawn has always been real, because she's affected all of them since the time they 'knew' her.
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