Job interviewing

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Am I the only one who is really nervous about being interviewed for a job? I find the whole thing so stressful. Try to show enough personality, but not be over the top. Show that you're qualified, but not a no-it-all. Shake hands and eye contact. Perfect resume. Dress the part.

I graduate college in 2 weeks and it's time to leave my little retail job part time behind and go into the real world. Not looking forward to the interviewing process.

My biggest problem is I hate dressing up. Suit and dress shoes? Ew. I'm kind of a street rat. I'm most comfortable in jeans, sneakers, and a tshirt. I even wore sneakers to my grandfather's funeral in January. I was one of the people who had to carry the casket, my Mom was pissssssed when she noticed. I just don't think that being in a suit (or dress or whatever for women) should have anything to do with it. How are you going to judge how qualified I am for the job by what I'm wearing?
 
Professor Walsh
Professor Walsh
You are absolutely not alone. After a while, I stopped minding, though. I'm still nervous, but ok about it.
Ahhh I just graduated college and am interviewing now for full time "grown-up" jobs and I get pretty darn nervous when I go in for an interview. I feel your pain...it is stressful. I'm not big on the dressing up thing either but I suppose its all part of growing up.

Good luck!
 
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Hero
i'll hang in there lol you do the same!
Since I'm younger, only fifteen, and haven't actually interviewed for a job yet I don't feel I qualify to ansewr any of this. But I can see how the whole thing would be stressful. I could probably deal with the dressing up but it depends HOW I would have to dress up. I don't really dress 'down' very well but I wouldn't know what to wear.

And the personality thing is a problem. I either show not much personality or too much in my life. Cause my actual personality is very, very over the top so you know. That's just who I am. But when I don't act like that there's nothing there. Weird, eh?
 
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Hero
same here!
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Ms.Trick
Same here as well!
I know this might sound strange, but I love interviewing cause I'm actually pretty good at it. I do get incredibly nervous (especially if it's a job I really want) but I have a knack for faking confidence.

I scrub up really well and really enjoy the whole thing of picking a kick arse outfit and making the effort to look polished. I think how you present yourself for an interview is so important. It shows the person interviewing you straight away that you care enough about the job to go to that little bit more effort. Then they assume that if you're willing to put the effort into personal presentation then you would do the same for all business related matters.

I think the key to a good interview is basically practice. Generally I'll think about the type of questions they might ask and I jot down what I would say. If you're a self conscious person then have a practice interview in front of a mirror.

Another tip? If they offer you a glass of water then take the offer. Not only is it polite to say yes, but it puts in their head that you're a 'yes' person which is always good. Then if they ask you a question that you don't know how to answer you can take a sip of water before answering to give yourself some extra time.

Sorry if I'm getting to much into this - it's my one talent!

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Oh and one more thing - do your research about the company. It's so important to know what the company is interested in, especially on the social side because bosses will hire people that they feel will fit in. My last job had pictures of them doing triathlons and bike riding and stuff on their website so when they asked me about hobbies i mentioned that I play soccer and enjoy jogging. It's not a lie, I do, but I just chose that instead of saying I enjoy Photoshop or cooking.
 
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Hero
go to my interview for me today. please? lol
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Ms.Trick
Go Cait Go!
Professor Walsh
Professor Walsh
I'm good at faking confidence, too. It comes in handy.
I just had an interview for a job yesterday. And I do get extremely nervous... But it also depends on the people with whom you lead the conversation. When sympathy is there, then the conversation works out, no matter how nervous you were prior to the interview.
Anyways, yesterday it didn't go well for me, I thought. But I just got the call that I got it. It's nothing serious, for two weeks only, but it's a job. 🙂
 
i can do the whole fake confidence thing pretty well too. at the same time i think i blabble on too much as well lol
interviews are like the first couple of dates. you always pretend to be more into the things the other person likes than what is actually true but they can always realise that later on 😉 so dressing up, as much as you seem to hate it, it's all part of the charade and you just have to go with it. depends on the job as well though. with some jobs you can get away with wearing jeans, a sweater and a good jacket (never sneakers though) to an interview. but with most you don't. just tell yourself that it's only until you find a job and, unless you're a lawyer or something, you can find a more comfortable attire once you got it. it's how the world works. and yes, it sucks.
good luck 🙂
 
I'd be no good with interviews, and I dread the day when I have to have one. I've been really lucky that I have worked since I was in my last year of school, and haven't had to have an interview as I got the jobs that I've had after friends have reccomended me to employers.

I currently have two jobs; I work in a bar, and when I got that job my Dad's best friend's son was assistant manager so I got a work trial and have been there for 2 years now. I also work for Volkswagen, my aunt worked there and originally I was meant to work there for 2 weeks doing holiday cover and I've been there a year 🙂

I think I'd be useless in an interview setting though. I wouldn't say I'm overly confident, and I get extremely nervous and uncomfortable speaking to someone I don't know.
 
I'm with Cait. I love interviewing! I'm really good at it. I remember when I interviewed for my job at blockbuster. It was 3 years ago. I always do the same thing in my interviews: be myself. I'm a people person, so I can easily just relax and be myself in these kinds of situations. I always know what they want to hear, so I just kind of twist the answer up a bit and make it my own. ya know?

The best thing to do is just relax and be yourself 🙂 If you are shy, you could always practice in front of a mirror or practice with a friend. If it's a job you know a lot about, it should be a piece of cake! Also, When applying to a job, wearing jeans and a t-shirt really does NOT help. Getting dressed up to apply, and to the interview is the key thing. No one is going to hire someone that doesn't care about their personal appearance for a formal meeting, no matter what kind of job you are applying for.
 
caitaintdead
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My interview to get into school was stressful enough!! I dont want any job interviews lol
 
I've never had to go to one yet, and I'm not looking forward to the day I'll have to.
I am not a people person and I hate having to dress up all nice.. I get really nervous plus I have a speech impediment that doesn't exactly help.. But I still have some school to finish so I won't have to worry about it for a while 😀
 
I love interviews! I haven't been interviewed for a real job yet (you can't get a job until you're 14... So I have to wait 'til then.), but I've been to faux interviews and had to go through the process and everything, and it's easy. Almost like a game: can you get them to like you in only 5-10 minutes?

Dressing sharp works, and it's endlessly important to have manners. Please, thank you, ma'am, sir... All good things. Personally, I almost worry that I won't be hired because I come off as extremely... Cutesy (well, maybe not "come off as", seeing as people I've known for years and years still see me that way. 😛 ). But if you act professional all should be good! Besides, it's not the end of the world if you're not adored by every interviewer.

Oh! And don't forget to ask questions. It shows that you're interested, want to do the best you can do, and that you've done your research. Be sure to ask when you'll receive their final decision, and send the interviewer a Thank You card.
 
I only had one job interview once!
I was 16 and I was looking for a summer job (meaning: my mum wanted me to find a job to 'do something' with my holidays).
So I give my resume to a few place but never get called. You don't get far with a "No experience yet" (which is stupid because you must have a first experience once, but so many jobs requiere a 'a bit of experience').
So my mum says "Why don't you try to Pizza Hut?". And I'm like 'meh, whatever'.
So we go eating to Pizza Hut, I have my resume with me. At the end, I ask with my very well-educated voice "Excuse me, is the manager here?" *Bright Colgate smile* "I am she!" "Oh perfect! Can I leave my resume? I'd like to apply for a job here!". "How old are you?" "16." "That's annoying, you must be 17 to work here". Then, I kind of almost jumped around with big moves saying "Well that's just perfect, my birthday is the 31th of July, so I'll be operative starting from August 1st...If you hire me". My mum said that during that discussion, I was suddenly all miss-commercial-representative-have-you-seen-my-smile-I'm-going-to be good-for-you and that the manager already seemed to have liked me. She took my resume and told me they'd give phone calls at a certain time to interview everybody.

In the meantime, I went to a library (Club...I don't know what would be the equivalent in your countries!). I also asked if they were looking for students and after 5 minutes, the manager was ready to hire me BUT...I had to be 18 to work there. She told me it was really a pity that I wasn't one year older or I'd be hired at that very right moment and that I had to come back the next year!

Then I had my interview at Pizza Hut. I was starting to get excited by this interview dynamic, but I wouldn't have been sad if I wasn't hired. It was my first real interview, sitting in front of the manager and everything.
I am genetically unable to lie (I'm a pure Drogyn). So everything I said was true. I guess it helped.

It went a bit like this:

"So, why do you want to work here?"
"To be honest, the main reason is that I want a job to earn a bit of money to buy a camera. And I like food, so I figured this could be a good place to work. And I live very near!"
"Why should I pick you?"
"Eeeerrr...I'm very ponctual, and very optimistic, and I am a bit clumsy but I compensate with a surreal motivation to get things done right."
"It's a very physical job, you'll have to run everywhere."
"Well, it's like a sport, it will keep me in shape during holidays!"
"You might have to work twice as hard when someone is sick or doesn't work well enough."
"Oh well...I spent the whole year working twice harder because a girl in the work-group was doing strictly nothing, so I'm used to it, it's not a problem".
"I might have to scream on you at times if you don't do the job right."
"I know, and if you hire me it will be my first job, so I might make mistakes or not get used at the very first second, but I'm open to critisism, and if you have to scream at me because I don't work well enough-which I will avoid-, I will understand it, you'll just be doing your job to run the place smoothly!"
"You realise it's not going to be an easy job, mostly if it's the first?"
"Well it's a good thing, if I start tough, other jobs will just seem easier to me".
"What about the langage?"
"My French is perfect (that's a very dull thing to say when you are having the whole interview in French because it's your native langage). My English is good enough to hold a conversation. My Deutsh isn't as good as my English..."
"Your Deutsh isn't that good? It's the second official langage here"
"...but if I learn the vocabulary specific to the job, I won't have any difficulties with clients!"


While I was doing the interview, I was thinking that it would be ridiculous to lie, because then when you are hired, you are not like you said and it's a big mess. I didn't practise anything, I didn't know how it would go, I always answered the first things that popped into my mind and rephrase them in an appropriate interview-langage (meaning no "You know" "like" "Y'a know"...Avoid that street langage). I think it's important to be polite but not overly polite, just speak normally, knowing that the person in front of you is your hierarchic superior and you must talk to that person with the due respect. I didn't wear anything special, just everyday clothes (with an ice cream necklace, to show that I really like food. That was the most elaborate thing of my clothing). I didn't have a glass of water, but if I didn't know immediatly what to answer, I would say "That's a tough one" and laugh slightly.

The weird thing is that during the action, I don't really calculate anything. I just answer. And then when I think about it, I think I had again this "Hire-me-and-my-colgate-smile" attitude.
Even that is natural. I kind of smile without even noticing it. Don't force yourself into smiling if you are not the smiling kind. Smile a bit but not too much. Maintain eye contact, it is very important. Just be yourself, show your personality right away, stay polite, have eye contact, smile at times, say the right things without lying, and you'll be ok! And, it is very possible that the interviewer tries to demotivate you, that he gives you excuse not to want the job. Fight it, show you really want the job, no matter what!


(Of course, that was just for a summer job, I don't know how it will be when I will have to apply for an after-studies job).

((I feel like my posts aren't getting any shorter)).
 
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SoBlind
pretty much how i go about it too. if in doubt, smile :D
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Hero
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Am I the only one who is really nervous about being interviewed for a job? I find the whole thing so stressful. Try to show enough personality, but not be over the top. Show that you're qualified, but not a no-it-all. Shake hands and eye contact. Perfect resume. Dress the part.

Job interviewing is stessful for everyone, no matter how many times you've had to do it.

I graduate college in 2 weeks and it's time to leave my little retail job part time behind and go into the real world. Not looking forward to the interviewing process.

Congrats on graduating! What sorts of positions are you looking into?

My biggest problem is I hate dressing up. Suit and dress shoes? Ew. I'm kind of a street rat. I'm most comfortable in jeans, sneakers, and a tshirt. I even wore sneakers to my grandfather's funeral in January. I was one of the people who had to carry the casket, my Mom was pissssssed when she noticed. I just don't think that being in a suit (or dress or whatever for women) should have anything to do with it. How are you going to judge how qualified I am for the job by what I'm wearing?


Dressing the part is very important. I work as a youth employment counselor so I know all about this. Once you're hired, you can talk more about the specific dress code for the job, but it's very important to give a good first impression at the interview. When in doubt, overdress. Buy a cute two-piece suit at a thrift store and save it only to wear to job interviews. Wear closed-toe heels, hose, and minimal makeup and jewelry. The trick is to look as professional as possible. Smile alot. Laugh at their jokes. Give short, concise answers. Be passionate. Show off your skills. If you show that you put the effort into looking your best they will definitely take notice.

Feel free to PM me if you need any help at all. Seriously, I do this sort of stuff all day long; help people find jobs, and mock interviewing and all that stuff. 🙂
 
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Hero
ill do a post saying howitwent.thanks for the advice tho
Best advice I could give is know yourself and your strengths inside out. Being able to highlight and demonstrate these is invaluable to you. Seriously, companies are more concerned about you fitting in with their workforce than they are about your qualifications. More often than not the training you need will be provided. What they want is enthusiasm and someone genuinely interested.

Cait mentioned it above but researching the company is invaluable. Simply doing that, is in itself and indication of your interest. Make it your business to know what kind of interview it will be, who will be interviewing you etc. Usually there will be contact information provided as to where you can find that out, if not contact their HR office. If someone walks into an interview already knowing your name you already have an advantage. It's pure human nature. If you are familiar with someone, no matter how insignificantly, that familiarity will cause them to gravitate to you rather than a person they have never heard of.
 
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Ms.Trick
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Ok, so I had my interview yesterday. dress shoes, suit, belt, tie, clean shaven. uugghhh. I was walking around like a penguin.

I walk into the room and there's a huge table and three people sitting there. FIRST MISTAKE: I sit down next to them at the table instead of across from them. They told me to introduce myself so I did. I didn't want to say Hi, I'm bla I'm graduating from bla and work at bla. Instead I described my personality about hard working, passionate, responsible, bla bla bla and graduating a semester early from Kean and being left in charge without any manager training at my job just kind of got worked into that at a nice way.

Then they wanted me to showcase my website. SECOND MISTAKE I really went into detail. I started off talking about my color scheme and why I chose it. They stopped me and were like we want to see your material on your website, not the website itself. So I showed them my favorite film I did and what I hoped to achieve while doing it.

After that they started going over my resume, asking questions. THIRD MISTAKE I put that I can speak Spanish because I took 3 years of it in high school and the majority of the customers who come into my job are hispanic/spanish. So the one lady at the interview says three sentences to me in spanish: "How are you? Are you nervous? Because you shouldn't be." And I knew exactly what she said, but when she told me to respond I couldn't. I could only remember partial words, but I knew exactly what she said. So, don't put down you can speak spanish if you cant. When it comes to a job there's a big difference between 100% fluent and 65% fluent.

Some of the interviewers questioned why things were missing from my resume, but that really boils down to certain people are looking for certain things. Some things on my resume probably wasn't required by some interviewers, but others may be looking for that. Example: I was not told to include my GPA by someone, but the one interview asked me for my GPA (3.6) and then asked why I didn't include it since it's really good.

Then I asked them two questions and they sent me on my way.

I must have looked like a stripper walking down the hallway. I was in sneakers, suit pants, a tshirt n tie by the time I got to the other room. lmao
 
Ok, so I had my interview yesterday. dress shoes, suit, belt, tie, clean shaven. uugghhh. I was walking around like a penguin.

I walk into the room and there's a huge table and three people sitting there. FIRST MISTAKE: I sit down next to them at the table instead of across from them. They told me to introduce myself so I did. I didn't want to say Hi, I'm bla I'm graduating from bla and work at bla. Instead I described my personality about hard working, passionate, responsible, bla bla bla and graduating a semester early from Kean and being left in charge without any manager training at my job just kind of got worked into that at a nice way.

Then they wanted me to showcase my website. SECOND MISTAKE I really went into detail. I started off talking about my color scheme and why I chose it. They stopped me and were like we want to see your material on your website, not the website itself. So I showed them my favorite film I did and what I hoped to achieve while doing it.

After that they started going over my resume, asking questions. THIRD MISTAKE I put that I can speak Spanish because I took 3 years of it in high school and the majority of the customers who come into my job are hispanic/spanish. So the one lady at the interview says three sentences to me in spanish: "How are you? Are you nervous? Because you shouldn't be." And I knew exactly what she said, but when she told me to respond I couldn't. I could only remember partial words, but I knew exactly what she said. So, don't put down you can speak spanish if you cant. When it comes to a job there's a big difference between 100% fluent and 65% fluent.

Some of the interviewers questioned why things were missing from my resume, but that really boils down to certain people are looking for certain things. Some things on my resume probably wasn't required by some interviewers, but others may be looking for that. Example: I was not told to include my GPA by someone, but the one interview asked me for my GPA (3.6) and then asked why I didn't include it since it's really good.

Then I asked them two questions and they sent me on my way.

I must have looked like a stripper walking down the hallway. I was in sneakers, suit pants, a tshirt n tie by the time I got to the other room. lmao

lol that sounds like an awful interview. although the only real mistake i can see is the one where you said you speak spanish (that must've been embarrassing 😉 )
when you sat down next to them rather than opposite of them can be waved off as a funny misunderstanding. just say 'oh sorry 🙂 ' and move over. no biggie.

and the thing with your resume could have been explained the way you explained it in your post just then. just be honest and tell them that you've experienced that some people want to see this, while others want to see that. but if they tell you what exactly they wanna know you can just tell them. surely one of those 3 guys there must've taken notes on what you told them...

i think you just need to be more confident and don't be afraid to be honest. in one interview i had once one of the interviewers said he was surprised i hadnt worked in hospitality before (i went for a job in a hotel) and i just said that i wasn't since i did this until then, and then that and then that and i'd only just decided to pursue work in this field. interviews are really just a long series of dumb questions and pointless observations. if you know how to reply it'll shut them up pretty quickly
good luck with the job. i hope you get it
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I know it's too late now, but also it's okay to not overshare in a resume. That's what your cover letter is for! If you have really stellar skills, or some adequate skills you want to showcase (like partially fluent in Spanish) you can use this on your cover letter instead.

Example (for the Spanish) you can put something like..."Much of the population in Norway is a predominately Spanish speaking population. While not fluent, I am proficient enough to carry on basic conversations blah blah"


I'm one of the peopel who LOVE interviewing and setting up resumes/cover letters. While regular me is pretty introverted around strangers, I have my own little work persona that takes over when I interview. This is also why I can do jobs that require loads of public interaction, even though I don't excel at that in regular life. I have no problems calling someone I don't know when I'm at work and talking to them about work stuff, but ask me to call the pizza delivery place at home and I cringe. I'm just wierd I guess.
 
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Hero
lol!
Am I the only one who is really nervous about being interviewed for a job? I find the whole thing so stressful. Try to show enough personality, but not be over the top. Show that you're qualified, but not a no-it-all. Shake hands and eye contact. Perfect resume. Dress the part.

I graduate college in 2 weeks and it's time to leave my little retail job part time behind and go into the real world. Not looking forward to the interviewing process.

My biggest problem is I hate dressing up. Suit and dress shoes? Ew. I'm kind of a street rat. I'm most comfortable in jeans, sneakers, and a tshirt. I even wore sneakers to my grandfather's funeral in January. I was one of the people who had to carry the casket, my Mom was pissssssed when she noticed. I just don't think that being in a suit (or dress or whatever for women) should have anything to do with it. How are you going to judge how qualified I am for the job by what I'm wearing?


Your definitely not the only one. I have worse time selling myself and maintaining eye contact.

Dressing up, just wearing nice shirt and nice pants and shoes, let's the interviewer know you care about your appearance. Just like brushing your hair or a girl would want to pull her hair in ponytail or put a headband on. Just something that says I tried to look my best so I can get this job.
 
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