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Soulgasm

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tell us all bout the rules you abide by when looking for luv...

or any exceptions...
 
What do you mean by rules? Like, what do you look for in someone you love?
 
sense of humor is really important,but I wouldnt want someone to be funny ALL the time...I'd like them to have a sensitive and caring side too.
 
He has to be caring,trustworthy,intelligent,quite good looking and funny. I must feel safe around him,he can't be rushing me to do anything I don't want to and no cheaters please...

But as combination of everything that I mentined above is higly impossible I prefer to be alone thank you very much..
 
lol...yeah...how could I forget trust!! yeah trust is a big thing for me.
 
If she has nice eyes, then Im drooling...I love eyes!!!
But a nice personality is good, along with a good sense of humour, and a sensitive side! I fall in love too easily!
 
Well as far as looks go:

6'? with spiky brown hair, perfect nose and cheek bones- meaning not to big nor to small, great abs, brown eyes, Bulging
muscles, great fassion sence (includes leather pants or pants pants; depending on if he's happy or brooding)

Personality- if he's grumpy: he's mr. killer with a hot voice and sexy laugh not to mention a bad boy grin.
if he's happy- brooding, occasionally smiley, helpful and soo sweet he makes my heart skip a beat or four.
 
lol...gurls say they want someone funny...but in reality...lol...thats bull...chicks gravitate towards cocky porn star producer bling...

alright for the gasm...gotta give it back just as good when i'm being faceitious...

gotta be real....no facades...no strings...but not like dick open...but more like humble open...self effacing...

will have an energy...chicks with no energy...no spark...will get no where...

lol...the gasm is suffering from HCS....Hot chick syndrome
 
I don't think there are any rules. As individuals we might set up guidelines that are usually followed but I have done different things and approached my luves very differently each time. Not that it has been a lot! lol

I am attracted to certain traits in people though...humor/wit, intelligence, honesty, kind-hearts, passion, giving and capable of receiving... And there are always exceptions!

I heard, from a movie (go figure) a statement that I find oh so true! "We like people for their good qualities but we love them for their flaws (maybe it was defects)" I think that was the quote, I'm not sure if I have every word correct but you get the picture, right?! I thought this was so accurate, for me anyway.
 
i dont look for love if it happens it happens...but if im attracted to someone i go for eyes and smile..oh and arms i have something about upper arms *weirdo alert* but the eyes definately do it for me the eyes are the windows to the soul, i would have to say energy too if a guy has no lust for life or spontanaity (sp) then im not interested.

oh and the size of there package is important lol j/k..
im suffering from HGS hot guy syndrome..lol
 
yo chas...that was from hellboy...hella good movie...gotta accept the person for who they are...

you know kasha...my arms are pretty damn beautiful...lots of curves and hardness...lol...hardness...its funny...cause my right arm has like choke veins while my left is like void of all visible ones...hella weird...

ehh kasha...HCS is not like that i'm attracted to hot gurls...that's a given for the gasm...but i'm feeling like a hot chick in a way...like i'm alluring all these gurls but I don't pay any attention to them...you know how the hotttest gurls back in high school wouldn't let on that they care about dudes and that's what made them even more attractive...

but the problem is that...since i'm on hot chick mode...and hot chicks are on hot chick mode....we'll be too busy alluring each other and not doing anything...
 
Soulgasm said:
you know kasha...my arms are pretty damn beautiful...lots of curves and hardness...lol...hardness...its funny...cause my right arm has like choke veins while my left is like void of all visible ones...hella weird...

ehh kasha...HCS is not like that i'm attracted to hot gurls...that's a given for the gasm...but i'm feeling like a hot chick in a way...like i'm alluring all these gurls but I don't pay any attention to them...you know how the hotttest gurls back in high school wouldn't let on that they care about dudes and that's what made them even more attractive...

but the problem is that...since i'm on hot chick mode...and hot chicks are on hot chick mode....we'll be too busy alluring each other and not doing anything...
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Hmmmm *drools* i dont know what it is about arms they just do it for me...yours sound hella sexy...maybe its a security thing?!

oh and has anyone ever told you your confusing...lol...just kidding... i get what you mean...right there with ya hun 😀
 
He has to be good looking (I'm not shallow, I'm just honest. LOL.) Most importantly, though, I have to feel safe with him, he must be caring, he must love me,too, he must be loyal. I want one of those sappy, sweet romances.
 
SG!!! Thank you! It was from Hellboy! I have seen so many movies recently, I forgot where I heard that from! Thank you, thank you, thank you! 🙂

I do think that looks are important, just not the most important thing needed in making a relationship work. I believe that there needs to be physical, emotional and mental attraction needed to make a pairing work. I happen to find way too many people physically attractive but not so many on the same emotional/mental level!
 
i don't give that much importance to looks, i rather prefer she is funny, not bossy.. like me (obvius and often the most difficult part...)and has to have a lot of patience to put up with me... ::change::
 
i guess i would like a guy who's caring, and not only there for the "coockie", that relly likes me, and w/ a sense of humor.. but i always end up liking the baad boys so..
 
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